pinch
squeeze
push
slap
spit
shake
kick
punch
choke
throw
hold and hit
punch repeatedly
use weapons
break bones
cause internal injury
kill
insult
stereotype
yell
give the silent treatment
mock
make degrading comments
deceive
control finances
control access to friends and family
take car keys away/disable car
threaten to leave for good
question sanity
threaten suicide
isolate completely
cause suicide
minimize needs
compare with previos partners
withhold sex
demad sex
put down sexual performance
threaten affairs
humiliate
have affairs
coerce sex
sex after abuse
incest
sex with weapons
rape
rape with murder