Guidelines for the new submissive/slave
1. Submission is a gift that is given by choice and one that deserves respect.
Being submissive does not mean being lesser than so as a sub/slave do not
feel that you are required to accept abuse.
2. Be respectful to everyone in the room at all times, whether they are
submissive or Dominant.
3. Entering a new situation is always intimidating, and whether new to
the lifestyle or simply just new to the room W/we understand how
easy it can be to feel overwhelmed. But please be assured that O/our
room, femsubmission and slavesex, is a friendly, respectful place and
welcomes you. Relax and be yourself.
4. W/we also understand that you may feel overlooked or ignored being
new, many have become regular visitors here and formed bonds that
can leave some feeling left out, but keep in mind that at some point
they too were new and faced the very situation you are facing now.
With a little time they were able to make friends and feel comfortable
and you can too. As difficult as it may seem at first, the best way to
go about this is to interact, feel free to join an ongoing exchange or
initiate one, you will find that there are others just like you sitting
hoping for contact.
5. Greeting people as they enter the room is an easy way to start. As
a general rule Dominants names are capitalized and sub/slaves are
not, this makes it easier for you to greet appropriately. Greeting not
only makes those entering feel welcome but allows you the opportunity
to be seen and make contact.
6. Have a positive attitude. If you are having problems and wish to talk to
a friend about it, please do so in private. We do understand that we all
occasionally need help and support from our on-line friends. We respect
that. All we ask is that it is kept private.
7. Some basic room rules are:
a. All play is consensual.
b. It is proper etiquette to be asked publicly in the room if you
you will accept a private message (pm) you are in no way obligated to accept
regardless of whom asks, and are always free to ignore unsolicited pms.
c. Blood, animal, toilet, or strangling/asphyxiation play is not allowed
in the room.
d. No trolling in the room.
8. Public collarings:
Collarings are a very happy occasion on our home. If you wish to
Schedule a ceremony there; talk to one of the hosts.