1. Submission is a gift that we are given by choice and one that should be
well respected.
2. Be respectful to everyone in the room at all times, whether they are
submissive or Dominant.
3. Have a positive attitude. If you are having problems and wish to talk to
a friend about it, please do so in private. We do understand that we all
occasionally need help and support from our on-line friends. We respect
that. All we ask is that it is kept private.
4. Consensual play is a must and harassing the submissive ladies in private
goes against the rule's here. The women are here to play and relax. The
question becomes how to play and where.
a. First make contact in the room....flirt a little there
b. If they have not been clear as to what they like ask them to speak in
private. A collared sub is one that has committed to a Master, please
make sure one of your first objectives is to find out if the sub you
are approaching is collared. Then ask what their limitations are.
c. Allow them to tell you what does and does not turn them on and tell
you how to play with them.
d. By doing this you will not have to worry that you may do something
with them that they did not want to do.
5. Consensual play is: Both parties agreeing to engage in the kind of sexual
act the participants want. Some very new to D/s do not know what this
term means so the experienced Dominants should ask to message privately
and provide the guidance that clarifies the concept of consensual play.
6. Finding a willing lady to play with: A good way to find a woman that
wants to play is:
a. Watch for the ones that are talking in the room: they will
do things like go to the couch, kneel somewhere, smile a lot to the
Dominants, make coffee, go to the bar, dance around the room and be
REAL chatty.
b. A good way to start talking with one of these ladies is ask her to
get you a drink that should get the ball rolling.
c. Another good way to get the attention of these ladies to grant them
per-mission to enter and/or leave the room.
7. Some basic room rules are:
a. All play is consensual.
b. Please ask to private message a sub/slave in the room prior to doing so.
c. Blood, animal, toilet, or strangling/asphyxiation play is not allowed
in the room.
d. No trolling in the room.
8. Public collarings:
Collarings are a very happy occasion on our home. If you wish to
schedule a ceremony there, talk to one of the hosts.