Connecting man to man to God!

Week of May 27, 2007

Issue 158

 

 

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"[Jesus] said to them all: 'If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.  For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will save it."  Luke 9:23-24

 

 

     CONSIDER

"At the end of your life, you will never regret not having passed one more test, not winning one more verdict or not closing one more deal.  You will regret time not spent with a husband, a friend, a child or a parent.  Fathers and mothers, if you have children ... they must come first.  You must read to your children, you must hug your children, you must love your children.  Your success as a family ... our success as a society ... depends not on what happens at the White House, but on what happens inside your house."  Barbara Bush in her commencement address to Wellesley College Graduates, 1990

 

 

     MAKING LIFE WORK

*          Pursue wisdom

*          Take initiative

*          Do goodness

*          Develop discipline

*          Speak truth

*          Choose friends wisely

*          Marry well

*          Cultivate compassion

*          Manage anger

*          Forge strong families

*          Trust God

(Insights from the Book of Proverbs by Bill Hybels, pastor, Willow Creek Community Church)

 

 

     CONSISTENT OMNIPOTENCE

>excerpt from "Authentic Christianity" (pp. 26-27) by John Stott

"The idea that there may be something which God 'cannot' do is entirely foreign to some people.  Can he not do anything and everything?  Are not all things possible to him?  Is he not omnipotent?  Yes, but God's omnipotence needs to be understood.  God is not a totalitarian tyrant that he should exercise his power arbitrarily and do absolutely anything whatsoever. God's omnipotence is the freedom and the power to do absolutely anything he chooses to do.  But he chooses only to do good, only to work according to the perfection of his character and will.  God can do everything consistent with being himself.  The one and only thing he cannot do, because he will not, is to deny himself or act contrary to himself.  So God remains for ever himself, the same God of mercy and of justice, fulfilling his promises (whether of blessing or of judgment), giving us life if we die with Christ and a kingdom if we endure, but denying us if we deny him, just as he warned, because he cannot deny himself...."

http://www.JohnStott.org

 

 

     HOW TO LEAD A MAN TO CHRIST

by Patrick Morley, [email protected]

If you are not sure a man has already come to Christ, ask him, "(Name), has there ever been a time in your life when you have personally put your faith in Christ to forgive your sins and receive the gift of eternal life?"

 

If 'yes,' ask him to describe it.  If he can give a clear testimony, congratulate him. If not, proceed as though he answered 'no.'

 

If 'no,' say, "May I take a few minutes and explain what Christians believe about who Jesus is, why He came, and what believing in Him means?"

 

Then, look up the following verses and read them together.  Make sure he reads the words for himself, whether silently or out loud.  (Idea: Mark Bible pages with Post Its.  Number them 1, 2, 3, and so on.  Idea: Leave out or add verses as you are led.  Idea: Write these verses on the inside cover of your Bible.)

 

1.      Who is Jesus?  He is the Savior, John 4:25-26 He is God, Hebrews 1:3, Colossians 1:15, Colossians 2:9, John 14:9, John 10:30 He is the only way to the Father, John 14:6

 

2.      Why did Jesus come?  To seek the lost, Luke 19:10  To save sinners, 1 Timothy 1:15  To demonstrate God's love, Romans 5:6-8  To atone for our sins, 1 John 4:9-10  To become the source of eternal salvation, Hebrews 5:8-9

 

3.      What does belief in Jesus mean?  We receive eternal life, John 3:16, John 11:25-27, Romans 6:23  We receive forgiveness of sins, 1 John 1:8-9  We become children of God, John 1:12

 

4.      How do you become a follower of Jesus?  We become Christians through repentance and faith, Ephesians 2:8-9 .

 

Tell your man, "Nothing we do can ever make us good enough for God to love us.  Instead, He loves us because He made us and Jesus died for our sins.  We become a Christian by confessing that we are sinful and putting faith in Jesus to forgive our sins and give us the gift of eternal life.  Prayer is the way we talk to God.  Here's a suggested prayer

 

"Lord Jesus, I need you in my life.  I confess that I am sinful and that I need a Savior.  Thank you for dying for my sins.  Thank you for offering me the gift of eternal life.  By faith I now put my trust in you to forgive my sins and give me the gift of eternal salvation.  I invite you to change me and make me the man you want me to be. Amen."

 

After reading the prayer out loud, ask him if this prayer expresses the desire of his heart.  If he says, "Yes," then ask him to pray it out loud after you one phrase at a time.  Congratulate him.  Offer to help him grow.  Invite him to church.  Encourage him to share what he has done with loved ones.  See if he'd feel comfortable sharing it right away with someone in your presence.  Make it a celebratory moment -- on earth as it is in heaven.

http://www.maninthemirror.org

 

 

     CONSIDER

"We must be ready to allow ourselves to be interrupted by God.  God will be constantly crossing our paths and canceling our plans by sending us people with claims and petitions. We may pass them by, preoccupied with our more important tasks, as the priest passed by the man who had fallen among thieves, perhaps -- reading the Bible. . . . . it is part of the discipline of humility that we must not spare our hand where it can perform a service and we do not assume that our schedule is our own to manage, but allow it to be arranged by God."  Dietrich Bonhoeffer (Life Together)

 

 

     LEADERSHIP TIPS (BUSINESS, FAMILY, LIFE)

ARE YOU THE BOSS OR THE LEADER?

by Steve Sileo

The boss.  Most people just love to hate 'em!  For many, the word alone conjures up images of a controlling power freak....

 

Some may not recognize the difference in values between the worldly "boss" mentality and the biblical "leader" mentality.  If someone were to ask me what each typically connotes, I might spell it out like this:

 

A boss creates fear

 A leader creates trust (1 Thess. 2:10-11)

 

A boss serves himself

 A leader serves others (1 Cor. 9:19)

 

A boss aims to make himself successful

 A leader aims to make others successful (1 Tim. 4:6)

 

A boss says, "I"

 A leader says, "we" (1 Cor. 3:5-9)

 

A boss fixes blame

 A leader fixes mistakes (Phm. 18-19)

 

A boss knows how

 A leader shows how (Ex. 18:17)

 

A boss makes work a grind

 A leader makes work worthwhile (Nehemiah)

 

A boss drives

 A leader leads (Jn. 10:11-15)

 

A boss wields authority

 A leader empowers people (2 Tim. 2:2)

 

A boss relies on the power of authority

 A leader relies on the power of servanthood (Mt. 20:25-28)

(c)2001 Steve Sileo

 

Read the rest of this article at

http://www.pastors.com/rwmt/default.asp?id=51&artid=1698&expand=1

 

 

     VERSE TO PONDER

"This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us.  And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers."  1 John 3:16

 

 

     CONSIDER

"I am only one, but I am one.  I cannot do everything, but I can do something.  What I can do, I should do and, with the help of God, I will do!"  Everett Hale, Chaplain of the United States Senate and grandnephew of Nathan Hale, U.S. Revolutionary War patriot

 

 

     MEMORIAL DAY (5/28)

"Memorial Day in the U.S. has traditionally been a day of remembering the many heroes who lost their lives during the Civil War and other wars in which the United States has been involved.  However, for many it is also a time to honor all loved ones who have passed on before us.  Here's a collection of articles and information to help you understand the purpose of Memorial Day and the faithfulness of God."

http://www.christianitytoday.com/holidays/memorial/

 

For a history of Memorial Day, and other information, go to

http://www.usmemorialday.org/

http://www.remember.gov/

 

 

     THE U.S. PLEDGE OF ALLEGIANCE

I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America.  And to the Republic, for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.

 

 

     TOTAL COMMITMENT

"'What Thou wilt, when Thou wilt, how Thou wilt.'  I had rather speak these three sentences from my heart in my mother tongue than be master of all the languages in Europe."  John Newton, 1779

 

 

     THE SYMBOLS OF THE CHRISTIAN CATACOMBS OF ROME

May 31, 1578: Italian archaeologist Antonio Bosio discovered the Christian catacombs in Rome.  Some have mistaken them for places of refuge or worship while in fact Christians used them mainly as burial chambers.

 

The early Christians lived in a mainly pagan and hostile society.  During Nero's persecution (A.D. 64) their religion was considered "a strange and illegal superstition."  The Christians were mistrusted and kept aloof, they were suspected and accused of the worst crimes.  They were persecuted, imprisoned, sentenced to exile or condemned to death.  Unable to profess their faith openly, the Christians made use of symbols, which they depicted on the walls of the catacombs and, more often, carved them on the marble-slabs that sealed the tombs.

 

Like the ancient, the Christians were very fond of symbolism.  The symbols were a visible reminder of their faith.  The term "symbol " refers to a concrete sign or figure, which, according to the author's intention, recalls an idea or a spiritual reality.  The main symbols are: the Good Shepherd, the "Orante", the monogram of Christ and the fish.

 

The Good Shepherd with a lamb around his shoulders represents Christ and the soul which He has saved.  This symbol is often found in the frescoes, in the reliefs of the sarcophagi, in the statues and is often engraved on the tombs.

 

The "orante": this praying figure with open arms symbolizes the soul, which lives in divine peace.

 

The monogram of Christ is formed by interlacing two letters of the Greek alphabet: X (chi) and P (ro), which are the first two letters of the Greek word "Christòs" or Christ.  When this monogram was placed on a tombstone, it meant a Christian was buried there.

 

The fish.  In Greek one says IXTHYS (ichtùs).  Placed vertically, the letters of this word form an acrostic: Iesùs Christòs Theòu Uiòs Sotèr = Jesus Christ, Son of God, Savior.  Acrostic is a Greek word that means the first letter of every line or paragraph.  The fish is a widespread symbol of Christ, a motto, and a compendium of the Christian faith.

 

The dove holding an olive branch symbolizes the soul that reached divine peace.

 

The Alpha and the Omega are the first and the last letters of the Greek alphabet They signify that Christ is the beginning and the end of all things.

 

The anchor is the symbol of salvation and of the soul that has peacefully reached the port of eternity.

 

The phoenix, the mythical Arabian bird which, according to the beliefs of the ancient, after a thousand years arises from its ashes, is the symbol of the resurrection of the bodies.

 

The martyrs' tombs, the cubicles, and also the arcosoliums could be at times decorated with pictures painted with the method of the fresco.  The frescoes represent biblical scenes of the Old and the New Testament, some of them with a precise symbolic meaning.

 

The symbols and the frescoes form a miniature Gospel, a summary of the Christian faith.

 

To learn more about the Catacombs, go to

http://www.catacombe.roma.it/

 

 

     TEN LEARNING RULES FOR GOLF

1.      Find a good teacher and stick with that person.

2.      Follow a timetable.  Discipline yourself to work on what you've been told.

3.      Concentrate.

4.      Learn from your mistakes.  You'll make them, so you may as well make them work for you.

5.      Relax.  Take your time, and you'll learn and play better.

6.      Practice the shots you find most difficult.

7.      Have goals.  Remember, golf is a target game.

8.      Stay positive.  Golf is hard enough.  A bad attitude only hurts you.

9.      Stop practicing when you get tired.  That's how sloppy habits begin.

10.  Evaluate yourself after each lesson: Are you making progress?

Golf For Dummies by PGA Senior Tour champion Gary McCord

http://www.dummies.com/

 

 

     CONSIDER

"The sun, with all those planets moving round it, can ripen the smallest bunch of grapes as if it had nothing else to do.  Why then should I doubt His power?"  Galileo

 

 

     VERSE TO PONDER

"The fool says in his heart, 'There is no God.'" Psalms 14:1

 

 

     THIS WEEK'S HYMN: COME, HOLY GHOST, GOD AND LORD!

Words: Martin Luther, 1524 (Komm, Heiliger Geist, Herre Gott); composite translation from German to English.

Music: KOMM, HEILIGER GEIST, HERRE GOTT, 15th Century melody

 

Come, Holy Ghost, God and Lord!

Be all Thy graces now outpoured

On each believer's mind and heart;

Thy fervent love to them impart.

Lord, by the brightness of Thy light

Thou in the faith dost men unite

Of every land and every tongue;

This to Thy praise, O Lord, our God, be sung.

Hallelujah! Hallelujah!

 

Thou holy Light, Guide divine,

Oh, cause the Word of Life to shine!

Teach us to know our God aright

And call Him Father with delight.

From every error keep us free;

Let none but Christ our Master be

That we in living faith abide,

In Him, our Lord, with all our might confide.

Hallelujah! Hallelujah!

 

Thou holy Fire, Comfort true,

Grant us the will Thy work to do

And in Thy service to abide;

Let trials turn us not aside.

Lord, by Thy power prepare each heart

And to our weakness strength impart

That bravely here we may contend,

Through life and death to Thee, our Lord, ascend.

Hallelujah! Hallelujah!

 

>from CyberHymnal at

http://www.cyberhymnal.org/htm/c/h/chgalord.htm

 

 

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     GOD FAQ

Question 126: What is the general scope of the fifth commandment?

Answer: The general scope of the fifth commandment is, the performance of those duties which we mutually owe in our several relations, as inferiors, superiors, or equals.

http://www.shortercatechism.com/

 

 

     ON PRAYER

"May God open our eyes to see what the holy ministry of intercession is to which, as His royal priesthood, we have been set apart.  May He give us a large and strong heart to believe what mighty influence our prayers can exert."  Andrew Murray

 

 

     PRAY FOR PERSECUTED CHRISTIANS TODAY

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     DAILY BLESSING PACT

Use the following list as your daily prayer guide. Think of a brother or situation that applies and lift them up in prayer.

 

I am agreeing in prayer with you for God’s blessings to overtake you!

 

PERSONAL

Marital harmony

Family unity

Children saved

Faithful pastor

Spirit-filled church

Real friendships

Relatives redeemed

Educational benefits

Recreational time

Fulfilling career

Favor with God and man

Be in God’s will

 

FINANCIAL

Better Jobs

Raises or bonuses

Benefits

Sales & commissions

Business Growth

Settlements

Estates & inheritances

Investment increase

Rebates & returns

Checks in the mail

Gifts & surprises

Money to be found

Bills decrease while blessings increase

 

"And all these blessings shall come on thee, and overtake thee, if thou shalt hearken unto the voice of the Lord thy God" (Deut. 28:2).

 

[As you travel on business or vacation, let me know if you'd like the church guys to pray for your safety and spiritual effectiveness. I'll add your name to the list for the time you'll be away.]

 

 

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