MSM Connections Newsletter for week of 02/05/06

 

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02/05/2006

 

Issue 90   

 

 

 

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In This Issue:

1.      THOUGHTS ON FOOTBALL

2.      PASTORS CLAIM CONGREGANTS ARE DEEPLY COMMITTED TO GOD BUT CONGREGANTS DENY IT

3.      THINGS ONLY A MOM CAN TEACH

4.      FINISH STRONG

5.      God FAQ

6.      Pray For A Brother Today – Daily Blessings Pact

7.      Classifieds

8.      Favorite Websites

9.      Much, Much More


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"As it is written: 'No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no mind has conceived what God has prepared for those who love him.'"  1 Corinthians 2:9 (NIV)

 

 

     CONSIDER

"We become atheists in practice when we rely more on ourselves than on God."  Life Application Study Bible

 

 

     THOUGHTS ON FOOTBALL

by Christian Sheppard

"Football is violent and, in many ways, is *about* violence -- what NFL commissioner Paul Tagliabue calls "contrived adversity."  Indeed, the U.S. military often explains its strategies and activities in football terms.  Football has evolved with American culture to conjure communal ideals as old as the Homeric epics.  In the Iliad, mythic heroes battle before cheering Olympian deities; virtues displayed amidst violence -- courage for Hector, cunning for Odysseus, and lethal speed for Achilles -- earn eternal glory.  As respite from fighting, the heroes stage athletic games (boxing, wrestling, running, chariot-racing, and archery) meant to mimic the skills required for war.  It is no surprise that Homer's best recent translator, Robert Fagles, found inspiration for his work in watching football."... Read this commentary in full (even though Super Bowl is over) at

http://marty-center.uchicago.edu/sightings/archive_2006/0202.shtml

 

 

     AN INSTRUMENT OF PEACE

"Lord, make me an instrument of Your peace;

where there is hatred, let me sow love;

where there is injury, pardon;

where there is doubt, faith;

where there is despair, hope;

where there is darkness, light;

and where there is sadness, joy.

 

O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much

seek to be consoled as to console;

to be understood as to understand;

to be loved as to love;

for it is in giving that we receive,

it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,

and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life."

(SOURCE St. Francis of Assisi)

 

 

     QUOTES FROM BRENNAN MANNING'S "RAGAMUFFIN GOSPEL"

"Our world is saturated with grace, and the lurking presence of God is revealed not only in spirit but in matter -- in a deer leaping across a meadow, in the flight of an eagle, in the fire and water, in a rainbow after a summer storm, in a gentle doe streaking through a forest, in Beethoven's ninth Symphony, in a child licking a chocolate ice cream cone, in a woman with windblown hair.  God intended for us to discover his loving presence in the world around us."

 

"God is perfect, but He is not a perfectionist."

 

"Just as a smart man knows he is stupid, so the awake Christian knows he/she is a ragamuffin."

 

"Though our Christian language pays lip-service to God, our way of functioning assumes that God is dead or in a coma."

 

"Becoming a little child meant becoming aware that all is gift..."  "Children don't try to control reality; they embrace what is."

 

"The Reformation was a time when men went blind, staggering drunk because they had discovered, in the dusty basement of late medievalism, a whole cellar full of fifteen-hundred-year-old, two hundred proof grace -- of bottle after bottle of pure distillate of Scripture, one sip of which would convince anyone that God saves us single-handedly.  The word of the gospel -- after all those centuries of trying to lift yourself into heaven by worrying about the perfection of you bootstraps -- suddenly turned out to be a flat announcement that the saved were home before they started...Grace has to be drunk straight: no water, no ice, and certainly no ginger ale; neither goodness, nor badness, nor the flowers that bloom in the spring of super spirituality could be allowed to enter into the case."

 

 

     PASTORS CLAIM CONGREGANTS ARE DEEPLY COMMITTED TO GOD BUT CONGREGANTS DENY IT

According to the research, pastors have a far rosier picture of the spiritual condition of their flock than the average person in the pews....

http://www.barna.org/FlexPage.aspx?Page=BarnaUpdate&BarnaUpdateID=215

 

 

     LEADERSHIP TIPS (BUSINESS, FAMILY, LIFE)

How big is your vision?

by Rick Warren

"Over the years, I've learned that contrary to popular opinion the bigger the vision, the easier it is to reach that vision, and, ultimately, the size of your vision should be determined by the size of God.  How big do you think God is?  The issue is not who do you think you are, but who do you think God is?  In your dreams for your ministry, don't limit yourself by saying, What can I do?  Instead ask, What can God do in this place?"...

http://www.pastors.com/rwmt/default.asp?id=243&artid=5286&expand=1

 

 

     DEEP DOWN FROM HEAVEN

by Max Lucado

"...God sent His Son to die in our place.  Yet, it's not just about us. God's priority is His glory. He occupies center stage; I carry props.  He's the message; I'm but a word.  It's not about me; it's about God.  Would we really want the world to revolve around us, anyway?  If "it's all about us" then "it's all up to us."  The heavenly Father rescues us from such a burden.  While we are valuable, we aren't essential.  We're important, but not indispensable...."  Read this in full at

http://www.christianitytoday.com/tc/2004/002/10.34.html

 

 

     VERSE TO PONDER

"You are forgiving and good, O Lord, abounding in love to all who call to you."  Psalm 86:5 (NIV)

 

 

     CONSIDER

"It is in the ordinary duties and labors of life that the Christian can and should develop his spiritual union with God."  Thomas Merton

 

 

     THINGS ONLY A MOM CAN TEACH

My Mother taught me about ANTICIPATION:

"Just wait until your father gets home."

 

My Mother taught me about RECEIVING:

"You are going to get it when we get home!"

 

My Mother taught me to MEET A CHALLENGE:

"What were you thinking? Answer me when I talk to you...Don't talk back to me!"

 

My Mother taught me LOGIC:

"Because I said so, that's why."

&

"If you fall out of that swing and break your neck, you're not going to the store with me."

 

My Mother taught me MEDICAL SCIENCE:

"If you don't stop crossing your eyes, they are going to freeze that way."

 

My Mother taught me to THINK AHEAD:

"If you don't pass your spelling test, you'll never get a good job."

 

My Mother taught me ESP:

"Put your sweater on; don't you think I know when you're cold?"

 

My Mother taught me HUMOR:

"When that lawn mower cuts off your toes, don't come running to me."

 

My Mother taught me how to BECOME AN ADULT:

"If you don't eat your vegetables, you'll never grow up."

 

My Mother taught me about SEX:

"How do you think you got here?"

 

My Mother taught me about GENETICS:

"You're just like your father."

 

My Mother taught me about my ROOTS:

"Do you think you were born in a barn?"

 

My Mother taught me about WISDOM OF AGE:

"When you get to be my age, you will understand."

 

My Mother taught me about JUSTICE:

"One day you'll have kids, and I hope they turn out just like you. Then you'll see what it's like."

 

My mother taught me RELIGION:

"You better pray that will come out of the carpet."

 

My mother taught me about TIME TRAVEL:

"If you don't straighten up, I'm going to knock you into the middle of next week!"

 

My mother taught me FORESIGHT:

"Make sure you wear clean underwear, in case you're in an accident."

 

My mother taught me IRONY:

"Keep crying and I'll *give* you something to cry about."

 

My mother taught me about the science of OSMOSIS:

"Shut your mouth and eat your supper!"

 

My mother taught me about CONTORTIONISM:

"Will you *look* at the dirt on the back of your neck!"

 

My mother taught me about STAMINA:

"You'll sit there until all that spinach is finished."

 

My mother taught me about WEATHER:

"It looks as if a tornado swept through your room."

 

My mother taught me how to solve PHYSICS PROBLEMS:

"If I yelled because I saw a meteor coming toward you, would you listen then?"

 

My mother taught me about HYPOCRISY:

"If I've told you once, I've told you a million times: Don't Exaggerate!!!"

 

My mother taught me THE CIRCLE OF LIFE:

"I brought you into this world, and I can take you out."

 

My mother taught me about BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION:

"Stop acting like your father!"

 

My mother taught me about ENVY:

"There are millions of less fortunate children in this world who don't have wonderful parents like you do!"

 

 

     NONSTOP BAD NEWS DISTORTS GLOBAL REALITY

by Erich Bridges

Disasters, war and violence dominated the news last year: the tsunami and Katrina, Iraq, terrorist attacks worldwide, the Kashmir earthquake.  These traumatic events led most of the top-story lists for 2005, and rightly so. Hundreds of thousands died. Millions suffered -- and continue to suffer.  Many Christians responded to human and spiritual needs with sacrificial love and generosity.  But the accumulation of bad news, relentlessly covered by news media, tends to distort our perceptions of the world.

 

The Human Security Report, released in October by the Human Security Centre at the University of British Columbia in Canada, shows that mass political violence -- with the exception of terrorism -- has declined rapidly since the end of the Cold War.  Ignorance of that reality "is compounded by the fact that the global media give far more coverage to wars that start than those that quietly end," says Andrew Mack, director of the centre and coordinator of the three-year project.

 

The study, published by Oxford University Press, includes these findings:

--    The number of armed conflicts has declined by more than 40 percent since 1992, primarily because of the end of colonialism and proxy wars spawned by the Cold War.  Wars also have killed far fewer people in recent decades.

 

--    Wars between countries now constitute less than 5% of all armed conflicts.

 

Read this in full at

http://www.bpnews.net/bpcolumn.asp?ID=2133

 

 

     TRAGIC STATS

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention is warning of an alarming increase in the syphilis rate in the US, which increased for the fourth consecutive year in 2004, and analysis suggests that approximately 64% of all cases last year were among men who have sex with men, up from just 5% in 1999.

http://www.cdc.gov/

 

 

     WORSHIP, THE ARTS, & YOU

"I think the arts are starting to stimulate the visual part of praise, which might have previously been left out of the sanctuary.  And I'm grateful because it tells people sitting in the pews that if you don't play a musical instrument or if you're not a gifted public speaker, God can still really use you."  Michael Rozell, in Worship Leader magazine

 

 

     FINISH STRONG

Receiving the diagnosis of a terminal disease can devastate you.  You'd always known you'd die someday, but now the end of your life is looming much too close for comfort. There's still so much you'd like to experience, yet you'll soon be forced to exit this world for the next.

 

You can recoil from the news, lash out at God, and sink into despair.  Or you can embrace your illness as a valuable opportunity to know God better before you meet Him in eternity.  If you choose to do the latter, you'll discover the surprising reality that one of your greatest challenges can lead to some of your greatest joy.

 

Here's how you can finish your time on Earth with joy:

 

*         Make a crucial decision.  No matter what emotions you might be experiencing at any given moment, decide that you will continue to love, trust, and obey God as long as you're alive.  Determine that the last season of your life will be a faithful one, in which you stay connected to God.

 

*         Be honest.  Don't try to suppress any of your thoughts or feelings.  Realize that it's natural to experience fear, anger, sorrow, doubt, regret, grief, and plenty of other troubling attitudes when facing a terminal illness.  Pour out your heart to God regularly in prayer, acknowledging the full extent of your hurt.  Remember that He already knows what you're experiencing and wants to walk with you through your trial.

 

*         Know where your real home is. Understand that Earth isn't meant to be a permanent home; it's just a temporary place to learn and grow briefly before reaching your real home -- heaven.  Ask God to help you loosen your ties to whatever doesn't have eternal value and look forward to meeting Him face to face.  Trust that God's promises about the glories of heaven are true.  If you haven't yet been saved, begin a relationship with Christ that will last for eternity.  If you've already been saved, ask Him to give you the peace you need as you prepare to go to heaven.

 

*         Ask God to give you His perspective on your suffering.  Realize that God wouldn't have allowed a disease to come into your life unless He intends it to help accomplish an ultimately good purpose for you.  Even though it's difficult, ask God to show you what He wants you to learn from this experience.  Find out how God wants you to look at the challenge before you.  Discover how it can actually increase your faith.  Remember that God, who gave you life, is in ultimate control of both your life and death, and will always choose to do what's best.  Rather than focusing on your disease, focus on God. Remember His great love and power.

 

*         Remember what Christ experienced.  Know that Christ went through the full range of human suffering during His time on Earth, so He completely understands what you're going through. Remind yourself of how He faced His own death with faith, died on the cross to save the world, and defeated death for those who trust in Him -- including you -- through His resurrection.  Look to His example of how to deal with imminent death: He confronted it through prayer, He spent time in fellowship with other people, He made arrangements for His family's care, He faced the pain with courage, He expressed His feelings honestly, He pointed to the Scriptures, He witnessed to others, and He settled accounts for eternity.

 

*         Don't isolate yourself.  Although you may think it's easier to retreat from your relationships during this crisis, understand that you need your loved ones more than ever. Use the time you have remaining to heal fractured relationships and build more intimacy with family members and friends.  Know that people who care about you genuinely want to help you, and that they're often blessed by opportunities to help as much as you are by receiving help.  Don't be shy about letting them know specific ways they can help meet any of your needs.

 

*         Keep pursuing goals.  Don't just wait to die. Instead, use the time you have left to keep pursuing goals God has placed on your heart.  Realize that you can still be incredibly productive, using your God-given talents to contribute to the world and interceding in prayer for others if you're not mobile. Understand that even if you have just a short time left on Earth, there's still something important that God wants you to do. Aim high so you can finish strong.  Tell God that you want Him to keep working powerfully in and through you.  Ask God to give you the strength you need to stay focused on your goals until you've accomplished everything He wants you to accomplish.

 

*         Give your worries to God.  Whenever a worry pops into your mind, take it captive and offer it to God in prayer. Know that He cares about you, and will always respond.  Ask the Holy Spirit to constantly renew your mind to help you think positively.

 

*         Maintain spiritual disciplines.  Don't neglect basic strength-building spiritual disciplines such as prayer, meditation, and reading the Bible. Practice them regularly.  Ask Christ to use them to guide your plans, desires, will, and emotions, since He is the way, the truth, and the life.

 

*         Embrace God's mercy in a fresh way.  Let your struggles make you even more aware of the dark depravity of your condition in a fallen world, and how much you need God's mercy.  Thank God for that mercy, and embrace it with joy.

 

*         Take care of final details before you depart.  Prepare a will, plan and pay for your funeral, write down or record your personal testimony of faith, and hold conversations with loved ones to tie up loose ends and communicate forgiveness and enduring love.

 

Adapted from The Journey Home: Finishing with Joy, copyright 2003 by Bill Bright.

 

 

     CONSIDER

"One of my goals is to take evangelicals back a century, to the 19th century. That was a time of muscular Christianity that cared about every aspect of life."  Rick Warren, quoted in the Washington Times

 

 

     VERSE TO PONDER

"Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength."  Deuteronomy 6:4 and 5 (NIV)

 

 

     THIS WEEK'S HYMN: FATHER, MAKE US LOVING

Words: Flora Kirkland, 1901

Music: Isaac H. Meredith

 

Father, make us loving, gentle, thoughtful, kind;

Fill us with Thy Spirit, make us of Thy mind.

Help us love each other, more and more each day,

Help us follow Jesus, in the narrow way.

Refrain

We would learn of Jesus,

Help us here below,

Follow in His footsteps,

Who hath loved us so.

 

Father, we would ever, live as in Thy sight;

Thou dost know our longings after what is right.

Fill our hearts with kindness as we onward go,

Teach us to be loving, Thou hast loved us so.

Refrain

 

Help us to remember, Thou art ever near;

Teach us lovingkindness, tenderness and cheer.

There is much of sorrow, in this world below;

Father, make us loving, Thou hast loved us so.

Refrain

>from CyberHymnal at

http://www.cyberhymnal.org/htm/f/a/fathmake.htm

 

 

     GOD FAQ

Question 58: How do we come to be made partakers of the benefits which Christ has procured?

Answer: We are made partakers of the benefits which Christ has procured, by the application of them unto us, which is the work especially of God the Holy Ghost.

http://www.shortercatechism.com/

 

 

     ON PRAYER

"Prayer means a launching out of the heart towards God; it means lifting up one's eyes, quite simply, to heaven, a cry of grateful love, from the crest of joy or the trough of despair; it's a vast, supernatural force that opens out my heart and binds me close to Jesus."  Thérèse of Lisieux

 

 

     PRAY FOR PERSECUTED CHRISTIANS TODAY

http://christiansincrisis.net/

 

 

     PRAY FOR A COUNTRY TODAY

http://www.gmi.org/ow/index.html

 

 

     DAILY BLESSING PACT

Use the following list as your daily prayer guide. Think of a brother or situation that applies and lift them up in prayer.

I am agreeing in prayer with you for God’s blessings to overtake you!

 

PERSONAL

Marital harmony

Family unity

Children saved

Faithful pastor

Spirit-filled church

Real friendships

Relatives redeemed

Educational benefits

Recreational time

Fulfilling career

Favor with God and man

Be in God’s will

 

FINANCIAL

Better Jobs

Raises or bonuses

Benefits

Sales & commissions

Settlements

Estates & inheritances

Investment increase

Rebates & returns

Checks in the mail

Gifts & surprises

Money to be found

Bills decrease while blessings increase

 

"And all these blessings shall come on thee, and overtake thee, if thou shalt hearken unto the voice of the Lord thy God" (Deut. 28:2).

 

[As you travel on business or vacation, let me know if you'd like the church guys to pray for your safety and spiritual effectiveness.  I'll add your name to the list for the time you'll be away.]

 

 

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     SHARE YOUR FAVORITE WEBSITES

Tell us what sites you find enjoyable and why.

 

Teaching children to walk like you

http://www.pastors.com/article.asp?ArtID=9065

 

Vexed Puzzle Game

http://oos.moxiecode.com/examples/vexed/index.html

 

All links to websites are provided as a service, and do not imply endorsement by our church.

 

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Decisions can take you out of God's will but not out of His reach.

Min. Frank Coleman, Editor

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