Sue's "Find me a match!"

for South Africans!

HEY PEOPLE!
We've now gone international! Find your match whether he or she is in another country!

Loneliness. - The creeping hurt that invades your life and makes everything seem empty. Well, let's see what we can do to end that and help you find your partner.

The only way to do this is to get to know people who are lonely, and in our day and age it is getting dangerous to open your heart to just anyone. By submitting your needs and details to this site, you eliminate any unsuitable people before you put yourself in the position of heartbreak. Being honest is the key. If you want someone dark haired and blue eyed, say so. If you need someone of your own age and persuasion say that. The more you widen the details of your needs the better chance you have of finding your match!

There are different options available to you when you submit your details

Please note I have joined with another website and will not be accepting ads on this website from December 2002.

Should you with to join and set up your free profile, just .....

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Please note, we are not held liable or responsible for any information that is included in each profile or for any responses you may receive from any ad placed on this website. They have been complied by the person submitting the ads and the liability falls on the submitter's onus. This webpage is a simple tool to assist lonely people in finding a partner and not to ensure that every person finds a partner.

This is the story of our lives, the fact that loneliness can hurt so much is a testament to our sensitive nature. We were made by God to be with each other by our sides and not in front of or behind. Adam gave his rib to make a soulmate to live with him and keep him company, to share his life in total committment, to live as one, husband and wife, to love honour and cherish until only death can separate each other. Life entertwined with one another so that when you become partners fully, words are not necessary. Thoughts are linked and connected with each other. When you go to a place you automatically know what the other needs or would like as you are connected at all times. Even in sleep, when you have been joined for a long time you will notice that you will dream similar types of dreams. The details may not be identical but the basic line or theme will run parallel. This is the total 'oneness' of partners. There are times when anger and disappointment overshadows the oneness but guarenteed it is always there and when you go back to the basics you will find your compatibilty once again. This takes time to achieve. This takes compromise as this shows what each other needs. Find a common ground and variate slightly so that each is compromising and you should meet up in the middle.

Life with a manic depressive is also possible. You must learn not to take words personally but to listen without judgement but with lots of love. Make no error, the words are hurtful but if you take them in the context of the depression you come to understand and sympathise with the partner. You just want to take some of the hate and despair away from them but this is a trap as there is little you can do except listen and be available whenever they need to talk. When things get to much you must have a back up friend who can take over and give you a break to get your own mind clear. Your mind does tend to become bogged down by the heavy emotions but if you have a time out every now and then you survive and get to carry on loving your partner.

Anyway back to the matchmaking! Any queries about manic depressives can be directed to me at the above email address