she is really gorgeous ...
then it's not love ..
it's ~* Infatuation *~......
*If you love some one because you think that you
shouldn't leave him because others think that you
shouldn't ...
then it's not love..
it's ~* compromise *~.......
*If you love some one because you think that you
cannot live with out his touch ....
then it's not love ..
it's ~* lust *~......
*If you love some one because you cannot leave him
thinking that it would hurt his feelings ..
then it's not love ..
it's ~* charity *~....
*If you love some one because you share every thingwith him ...
then it's not love...
it's ~* friendship *~...
but if you feel the pain of the other person more than
him even when he is stable and you cry for him ...
that's ~* LOVE *~
if you get attracted to ther people but stay with him
without any regrets...
that's ~* LOVE *~
If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he
doesn't want to ...
that's ~* LOVE *~
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Love is an emotion that nearly everyone has experienced at some time in their life. One would think that with such a familiar concept, researchers would agree on what constitutes love and how to measure it. That has not been the case. Most research on love is based on a priori theoretical conceptualizations. It's quite possible that if a researcher starts out by defining love and then develops a measure to quantify that conceptualization, the results would tend to reflect this process.
Some people think that love is just something that happens
and that it can't be studied. We disagree. We believe that the more we understand love and relationships, the more likely we are to be able to initiate and maintain healthy and fulfilling relationships.
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When you like someone,you like them inspite of thier
fault. When you love someone,you love them with thier faults.
Love is hard to get into,but harder to get out of.
Love is painful... not to love is painful..... but
there is a great pain,to love and not be loved again.
For you see, each day I love more, today more than
yesterday and less than tomorrow.
You may only be one person to the world, but
you may also be the world to one person.
In any relationship in which two people become one
the end result is two half people.
Being deeply loved by someone gives you srength
While loving someone deeply gives you courage.
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You Are In Love..........
When you are together with her, you pretend to ignore her.
But when she is not around, you might look around to find her.
At that moment, you are in love.
Although there is someone else who always makes you laugh,
your eyes and attention might go only to her.
Then, you are in love with her.
Although she was supposed to have called you long back, to
let you know of her safe arrival, your phone is quiet.
You are desperately waiting for the call!
At that moment, you are in love with her.
If you are much more excited for one short e-mail from
her than other many long e-mails, you are in love with her.
When you find yourself as one who cannot erase all the
messages in your answering machine because of one message
from her, you are in love.
When you get a couple of free movie tickets, you would
not hesitate to think of her. Then, you are in love.
You keep telling yourself,
"She is just a friend",
but you realize that you cannot avoid her special attraction.
At that moment, you are in love with her.
While you are reading this, if someone appears in
your mind, then you are in love with her.
Seven Stages Of love....
It's that feeling, that nobody could explain cause it different ppl have different experiences in this regard.
Love just not happens at a sight. It is a horizon and every horizon have a fall, so love travels through seven stages.
ATTRACTION:
First of all see someone, you meet hundred of new people in your daily life.The first stage is attraction, that something appeals you, look twice, you get attracted by a person.
INFATUATION:
Then you get infatuated by that person. You start admitting it to yourself, that you like him/her,you ask yourself that what does that person means to you why you want to see him/her, why you adore his/her voice, why you get excited, when the attracted person looked at you, even a general look makes your heart bloom.
COMMUNION:
Then the third stage comes, when you admit it infront of that person, you introduce yourself like HI! i have noticed you around , i found you to be very attractive would you like to spend sometime with me or you started becoming closer to that person , so that he/she can notice you and you start chatting.
INTIMACY:
A very famous song is "eveybody is looking for intimacy", that is deep friendship. Your communion stage is over & you both become necessary for each other to share, are the ideas and thoughts of each other , you have started thinking on the same levels that other person is thinking.
SURRENDER:
Then after coming or passing through the intimacy stage, your love enters in deliver our stage i.e surrender, you surrender yourself to that person, yes i am in love with that person.
PASSION:
Once you surrender, your loved one becomes passion for you. You want that person like anything, you adore & can't escape the thoughts about him/her you become passionate.
ECSTASY:
Last but not the least is the stage when you have strong feelings or agitation i.e ecstasy, thinking about one thing & that's the person, your all thoughts starts & finishes with that person. Here you decide that you can't live without that person. So you got or you lose.
The most interesting thing i find out after reading this love horizon is the end. Now you read it
THE END
In the end, if you got then you lose the charm and if you lose you lost yourself
