1 Swoon
2 Sexual Attraction
3 Cuddle / Affection
4 Respect / Admiration
5 Friendship / Companionship
6 Partnership / Team
7 Attachment / Fear of loss
8 Shared memories / warm feeling
9 Desire to caretake
10 Desire to resolve conflict with
11 Trust their authenticity
12 Able to relax
13 Love how you love me
14 Intellectual stimulation
Take Seperately
1 Rank order above in terms of how important to you when you say "I love you" (romantic)
2 Which ones are essential to "I love you"