What a fucked up 2 days. There seems to have been a show down, I am not sure what happened. Let me start from what I feel is the begining.

I stayed home from work on Thursday (9/07) to work on school items. During the course of the day Brian told me that there was a chance that one of his male friends may stop by (Bear411). He told me that he had mentioned that he was going to be in town from Akron to take part in a family garage sale. They had planned to meet at Denny's. This news did not bother me, the fact that it was behind my back bothered me. I got on the website and sent this message to him, "You must have seen my car in the drive and decided not to stop. How was the garage sale." he responded back with, "I am still in Akron." I responded back with, "What a clever way to get our address you dog!" He responded back talking about my insecurities. I responded back with, "Brian told me everything, I thought you were my friend also, why didn't you tell me you were coming to town?" I never heard back from him. I told Brian about the conversation. He stated that he agreed with me. The remainder of that day was very pleasant.

On Friday I went to work. I came home for lunch and found his ex-girlfriend here. It did not bother me, I just wanted to spend lunch with him, but he has to have his friends also. She left not to soon afterwards. We had a pleasant lunch and I went back to work. When I came home he was in the Futon room. He was acting odd. When I asked him what was wrong he stated that he had been told by his friends that I had been writing them and cussing at them, telling them off, and had been telling them things that I would only know if I had been getting into his account and reading his messages and mail. I restated to him what I had said to the one on Thursday and I restated that the other one I had apologized to him profusly about accusing him of having an affair with Brian and asked him several times to come to our house for a cookout with his boyfriend. Brian stated that what I had been doing was "not cool".  He accused me of getting into his email account and sending stuff, I told him that I could not get into his acocunt without his password, he stated that since I have been using his computer I could just click on things and get there automatically, and that it is strange how my computer (PC) works sometimes and other times not. I stated that this was not true and that I could not beleive he was believing  strangers over me, he stated once again, "this is not cool".  I said fine, if you believe them then that is it." I walked away. Since that time he has been in the futon room with the door shut. He has shut me out and has not repsonded to my knocking on the door. The only exception was when he was puking around 3 am and I cleaned it up.

As far as I am concerned he needs to apologize to me for believing his friends over me. If he cannot aplogize he needs to move out and leave with only what he walked in with.