Cultural Considerations
Don't ask people to behave in ways or
accept values contrary to their own traditions. Tell people what you like about
their culture. Be respectful while visiting religious places. When
photographing, respect local residents' dignity and right to privacy. You should
establish a friendly rapport, ask permission, and get their name and address so
you can mail photos back to them. Letting people know you will do so may
overcome their reluctance to be photographed and make friends. Photographing
women is considered improper throughout northern Pakistan. Respect this
sensibility whenever you go. Avoid paying people for taking their photo. This
commercializes and cheapens cross-cultural interactions, allowing your economic
power to dominate and overwhelm any cultural or personal reluctance to be
photographed.
Show respect for local values by
dressing conservatively. Tight fitting or revealing dress offends and
embarrasses people throughout the Karakoram and Hindukush. Do not wear shorts or
Lycra, and men should never go bare-chested in public. Locals may not say
anything to foreigners, who then incorrectly assume their indiscreet dress, is
all right. However, there are signs posted in the Skardu bazaar and in Karimabad
in Hunza asking foreigners to dress discreetly. Loose fitting long pants and
long-sleeved shirts are the best choice. Women need to take greater care to wear
baggy clothes and cover their legs down to the ankles and arms down to the
wrists. Being on vacation is not an excuse for inappropriate behavior! Once, in
a village apricot orchard crowded with dozens of boys and girls, a male trekker
standing outside his tent stripped down to his underpants in order to change his
trousers. His thoughtless behavior managed to offend everyone present.
Avoid public displays of affection.
Holding hands, hugging, and kissing are considered private acts, not to be
openly and shamelessly displayed. However, public hand holding between men is
common as an expression of friendship and rarely has any sexual overtones.
'Holiday romances' with local men harm the image of Western women. Most local
men are married and either sees the relationship as a ticket to the West or as
validation of the misconception that most Western women are sexually available.
While trekking, nude bathing is
also considered vulgar and shameless. Wash your body in your tent, using a
washcloth and a basin of water. Washing hair, face, hands, and feet outside is
fine; Islam emphasizes personal cleanliness.
Discourage begging and do not
give anything to beggars. It is a superficial and negative interaction. Muslims
are expected to give part of their income to the needy, and Pakistan has more
than its share of needy people. If you want to make a contribution, approach an
appropriate person, such as a school headmaster, a community leader, or a
representative of a local service organization, and ask how you can best make a
donation. Harder to tolerate are children who demand sweets, pens, or rupees
because previous tourists handed them out or the children who throw stones at
travelers who say no. Gifts are part of Pakistani hospitality, but throwing
goodies around indiscriminately for the sake of goodwill paves a rough road for
future travelers. Whatever your status in your own country, most people in
Pakistan will perceive you as rich, leading to an idealized image of life in the
West. Please make an effort to present a more balanced picture of life in the
West by showing how earnings are linked to the cost of living.
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