Through the next few years not much changed from that lil girl. She was still screaming her head off all the time, and pudgy. Her older brother Jean- Paul, changed her and took care of her often. He still couldn't say her name correctly all that came out was "Meh-ee-cha, the name soon became Micha. Off of that came "Michichu" which her father often called her. (Obviously this little blob of joy was meeeee).I lived in Providence for the first 3 years of my life. We later moved to East Providence where I spent the next 15 years. Shhhtuff happened and my parents eventually got divorced, a few years after that I started Jr.High.
Ohh wonderful Jr.High, the begining of many things, one of the most famous being psychological disorders. I HATED Jr. High .. I hated growing up, I was a slow maturer. My body stayed that of a 5th grader till sometime after Jr. High School. It was painful being a young lady in Jr. High. Girls can be very cruel, they would find anyone to put down so they could feel better with themselves. I dreaded going to school, I only looked foward to seeing my friends. But I will never forget P.A.P, our 9th grade candy sales, cany commercials and the SUUUUUUUUhhWEEE PIG FARM!!! Good times .. good times, besides that I was happy when that hell was over. During the last months of my 9th grade year I took off a mask that I had worn to proctect myself thoughout my experice in Jr. High. In the past, I was fearful to admit the things that I really liked, for example my prefrence for music. It sounds silly, but you were judged harshly on the type of music you listened to. I was a true Rocker!! A shock to my friends when I told them that I prefered Alterative music such as Nirvana, Faith no More and Oasis to anything on "Kix 106.3". My father was a rocker, my brother was one, and so was I. Music was a very big part of me, (I was also a "band geek" and proud of it!)
Ahhh High school, I grew alot in High School mentally and physically. After everything that happened to me in Jr. High, I had this "I dont give a rats ass" attitude. My first day I wore a tank top and boxer shorts. It was great!! Unfortnately, the few friends that I made in Jr. high, were taken away from me. We all had diferent classes. I met new people,joined some clubs, and joined the "Color Guard" (the cool bean girls that toss those flags, and shake their thangs while doing it). I had fun. We went on two big trips, where I preformed with the concert band and the Color Guard. We went to N.Y and to Virginia beach. I will post some pictures of the trips on the website under All of my love - Younger years. Virgina Beach was the BEST!! Icebucket fights from floor to floor!! I soooooo wanna go back there. We KICKED ASS!! Every category my school competed in, we won. The Color Guard and the Marching Band also preformed at the high school football games. I loved preforming at half-time, heck I love preforming. I didn't like the short silky thin skirts and tops we wore for outfits .. it got coooold man!! (Pictures of that coming soon) Besides that it was a blast, DruM Line Bus RULES!! I loved Color guard so much that I joined "Ricks Music World All Scholastic Marching Band", Thats where I met my first real boyfriend. We dated for a lil while, but not all things last now do they?? =) I loved going to school because of my friends (I think you can see a pattern here). I didn't know what I wanted to do with my life. All I knew is that I wanted to be able to live comfortably, and have a happy family. I know it sounds real gay, but I really want that. A real BIGGY in my life is that when I get married, I never want to get divorced. I refuse to be come one of those who have the "curse". Trust me, look at my family, and you will think its genetic.
Anywho, years go by and I graduate, at this point me and the "first" had broken-up. The second boyfriend came as I graduated (we only lasted 3 months). After I graduated things slowly went down hill. I actually dated one of my friends (the2nd) ... eehhh big mistake, because after everything happened, we weren't friends anymore.
After I graduated, my family moved to Providence.Then I began college, and I lost all of my friends. Being in college and living in a different city tossed all that I knew into the blistering cold wind. My sister went to another college, and I had no car. She always made me feel better but now she wasn't around. I felt alone. It was a terrible feeling, but I made it though. Three of my close High School friends went to College with me. Once we figured how to work around eachothers schedules, it was great. During this time my older brother met his current wife and moved out to Washington State. I miss them both very much. Thier wedding was absolutely beautiful. I even caught the silly bouquet ... I didnt mean to!!! It just bounced off a bunch of screming girls hands and plopped in to my crossed arms .. I yelped, and tossed it back in the air. =) They gave it back to me though.
Anywho in college I met loads new people and my 3rd boyfriend. This boyfriend was an incredible growing experince for me. We didn't last though. I realized that I tried to identify myself though the relationship and not through myself. When I began to find who I was, I found that the relationship wasn't right for me. We really did love eachother very much, but in different ways. I needed to grow. We dated for 2yrs and 7 months. There was alot of controversy after me and my "3rd" broke up, and for very logical reasons, he decided not to talk to me. Now we speak, but very seldomly. There was a "4th", but I am very reluctant to speek of him, all I can say is, It was RoCkiN' and to me he was more than the 3 combined (weird huh). It really sucks that we broke-up, but I am wicked happy that we are able to remain friends =). Well I changed my major many times, from Psychology, Sociology, Socialwork, Justice Studies, and finally to Telecommunications. I am sticking with this one though. I am part of R.I.C T.V. I work as the lead editor and the technical director. I film for loads of people and I also make movies and music videos. I like it. =)
*Breathes* Well thats pretty good for summing up 21 years of my life! LOL!! I didn't even ad in all the funny lil things that happened to me .. maybe I will put up a lil section on short Micha Adventures ... it would have to be pg-13 though. Ehhhh .. some may be R. Heehee =) Much love, - Micha