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		Difference between male & female halves

	Many female halves acknowledge to themselves directly that they have met and bonded with the male halves of themselves. There is a difference between male and female halves. The female halves are naturally connected with their feelings. The male halves are not connected with their feelings the way the female halves are. This means that sometimes the male reactions to having met their female halves will lead to the men withdrawing emotionally from their female halves. At the human level the female half will often feel that because the male half does not openly declare and acknowledge the twinship, the male half didn't really recognize his female twin afterall. To me twin souls make out a whole and a unit. This means that at the soul level both do recognize each other, but the reactions to this recognition vary between the male and female halves. The female halves naturally connected with their feelings often find it very difficult that their male halves seem to withdraw and in some cases the shock of meeting the other half and uniting at such deep levels lead to the twin souls not being able to talk at the human level about what actually happened. The female halves often want to talk about it, but it can be painful for the male half to open up emotionally, because he has been shot off emotionally due to the long separation from his female half. Conflicts between twin souls often arise when the female twins long for an emotional reaction from their male counterparts and for some reason the male halves do not feel ready to open up emotionally. Female halves are so connected with their feelings, so sometimes they tend to push things instead of �letting go� and trusting that the twin soul process will eventually lead them to the right place It is important to know that it is not possible from the human point of view to control the twin soul process itself. The only thing that you can control as a soul half is yourself. The intensity and complexicity of the twin soul relationship on earth leads to the fact the twin souls often separate if they are not ready to be together at the human level. A remarkable inner journey starts to take place after the twin souls have merged on earth. They have become �more� themselves than what they were before. A new sense of Self of who they are at the very center and core of their souls has been born. They feel changed, but often at first it can be hard to put into words exactly what has happened. The separation is therefore, often, �planned� before incarnating such as the meeting is also �planned�. I do not want the word �planned� to sound too metaphysical, but what happens is that at the human level it feels like the twin souls are �forced� apart to grow individually. Now growth has nothing to do with being a better soul, for the twin souls the spiritual growth has to do with the accelarating sense and feeling of the Self. *It is a journey into a new sense of consciousness of ones Self.* Very often people who have been united with their twins feel helpless when they feel and see that they are being separated from their twin souls again. The separation leads to a lot of pain, anger, and frustration. Sometimes the separation from the twin soul is so painful so that people get physically ill, because they feel the part of themselves missing and it almost feels like missing a vital part of ones physical body. This can lead to physical illness. *During the separation, the twin souls must feel and reconnect with their own inner selves to be able to feel the bond with their twin souls.* The union and merging has led to the fact that their newly joined energies have made them deeply telepathic with each other. If you think of the fact that the union has made the two one, you can very well know that if you have met your twin, you can never be sure if what you feel is your own feelings or the feelings of your twin. As the twin souls are separated after the merging, some will begin to search in the outer sense for the twin. *They will do everything possible to reconnect with the twin in the outer sense, so they do not have to feel the loss inside themselves.* This outer search is very painful and sooner or later one will feel that there is no other way to connect with the twin than to reach for the deepest place in ones own inner Self. It is a journey where a soul who has experienced the loss and separation from the twin, will begin to feel very different and alienated from other people who have not experienced meeting their twins. When you feel the loss of your twin you can feel alone when you are around other people, because no one else, but your twin knows you the way you know yourself.

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