The Story of Me
The Story of Me
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Other than Raymond & Charles who witnessed most of the events of my relationship with Bella, there's also a group of friends whom they did so too. They are the ones whom we always go to the CANTO tea dance together. They are Ise, Freddy, Jonathon, Jia Song & Eileen. Other than Ise, the next closest friend is Freddy, you guys should have heard about him before earlier on liao, in the chapter in front. Eileen is my god-sister. She's quite a adorable girl. My brother always likes to disturb her, whenever she calls me "Kor Kor" (meaning brother) in a high pitch tone...
I normally spent my weekends with this group of friends, with Bella of course. Mainly because we go CANTO, thus we always end up continue to go out after that. So this group of friends also been thru a lot eye-witnessing in my long relationship with Bella, unfortunately though...
(From Left To Right)
Ise , Jonathon , Me , Freddy , Jia Song
They had helped in many events where the quarrel between me and Bella went out of control. Normally, they'll always be telling me something like, "Aiyo, give in to her lah~! You know she like that one what...". But my replies will be like, "I wanna give in, but how~? I also don't what temper she is throwing wor...", or, "She like that then that means I must always tolerate and give in lor...?" Then they'll end up saying the same old sentence, especially Ise, "She also you choose one what..."
They'll always help me find out why Bella
is angry, but normally the answer will never be there... Err... You should know
why by now liao~! Anyway, I also don't what they really talk to Bella.
Suddenly, they back-fire me I also don't know~! Hmmm.... Maybe that's why in the
end Bella still
never changes...! Nah... 
Just
kidding only~!
I believe that a person normally can't think straight when that person let himself / herself involved emotionally. That's why normally in a dispute, you need a outsider to sort things out.
However, this group of friends began to drift apart when "something" happen. I'll go into that later. Another reason is also that Bella & Freddy out of the blue started to hate each other. For Freddy's side, according to him is that he hates to be the center man whenever a quarrel broke up between me & Bella. He said that he had enough of that, most of my friends like Charles also said that. Another thing he mentioned is that, he said I had spent too much time with Bella. No matter where I go, I usually will bring Bella along. As for why Bella hated Freddy, simple~! Because Freddy hates her too~!
2 Chio Bu Kissing Wor~!
Guys Seeing This Must Be Jealous Right~?
Ok, now I'll talk about the "something" that had happened. It started when Eileen & Jia Song (They Were Steady Then) became kinda poor and had no money. Thus Eileen borrowed S$20/- from Bella, saying that she'll return her within a month's time. So Bella did lent her the money.
However, a month or so passed. Eileen & Jia Song also went MIA (Missing In Action). Then on the 2nd month, Eileen suddenly called everyone up and ask us to gather for a BBQ buffet at Marina South, claiming that we had not been meeting for quite some time, actually it was them whom we could not get to...
Anyway, when we're about to reach our destination, Eileen asked Bella if she could borrow another S$20/- or so. Then she'll return all the money including the previous S$20/- together. So the total will be around S$50/-. She promised that she'll returned the money in the next 2 weeks. She even asked Bella to remind her on the 2nd week. Again, Bella out of good faith lent her the money.
The sad thing happened soon. Eileen & Jia Song went MIA again~! A month went pass, completely no news from them man~! Bella somehow also broke liao, so am I... We had been enjoying too much. As we're still studying, we don't really have much allowance then. I also haven't start working in Carnegies as waiter or bartender yet, it was later then... So Bella have no chance but to ask Eileen to return her the money. S$50/- then was quite a sum of money ok, especially for students. But the problem is that she don't dare to ask people to return her the money. Thus she ask me to help her out...
Well, Bella is my girlfriend, of course I'll help her out lah... So I called up Eileen & Jia Song on their handphones, but none answered. I had no choice but to call Eileen at her house. Her mum was the one who pick pick the phone. Eileen wasn't at home then. Her mum was asking me what was it regarding, I just told her that nothing was important, and that I'm just looking for her only. I did not mentioned anything about money...
However, in less than 3 days, Freddy called me up... Man he was angry, with me~! He asked me why do I act in such a ruthless manner~! I tell you, I got a millions of question marks floating on top of my head when he pop me with that question. Then it all went away when he said that, why must I chase people till so hard for S$50/- only. I then told him that it was Eileen who ask me to remind her. Freddy then said that I also need not call people at their house and even tell their parents that their children had owed me money. I then explained to him that, yes I did call up Eileen at her house, but I didn't mentioned anything about money... But he just don't believe it, maybe he just don't care about anything that I say... I'm surprised that he act this way, cos normally he trusted & respected me.
(From Left To Right)
Me , Bella , Berlin , Freddy , Eileen , Jia Song
Freddy end the conversation by asking me to
meet him at the void deck of my house in 30 minutes. He came down with Jonathon,
Eileen & Jia
Song. Freddy handed over the
S$50/- to me, then he told me that the brotherhood between he & me had
ended, in a manner that only pissed me off. 
He then asked the rest if they have anything to say to me. Eileen
just kept quiet, she seems scared. Jia Song
then told me that from now on, he & Eileen
will keep a distance away from me & Bella,
and he hopes Bella & I will also not
bother about them in future~! I was SO HEATED
when I heard that~! They're the one who borrow money, yet they're the one
throwing temper~! 
Jonathon also kept quiet, but he signaled to
me that he'll settle the thing...
So that's how we broke contact. Jonathon & Freddy are close buddies, thus I end up having only my buddy, Ise. He was neutral all the way, and he believed me that I'll not do such a bad thing of calling up people at their home and telling people's parents that their children had owed me money. He believed that there's a misunderstanding somewhere, or someone in the group had lied. I think the same way too~!
Anyway, I had some other friends of mine who had also drifted away from me. Most
of them think that I had spent too much time with Bella.
I was then left with only a handful of friends... But these are those that I can
really call them as friends~! Where got friend feel bad when you're with your
girlfriend one~? If like that then when I married liao then my wife how~? I
never say that when I'm with my girlfriend, they cannot find me when they're in
trouble wor~! 
Freddy Kana F*** The Lamppost On His B-Day ! ! !