The Story of Me
The Story of Me
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Raymond , Me
Jasmine , Bella
Then Bella became someone really hard to please... Not only that, her attitude & temper got worst~! Although I always try to be nice, trying not to argue and try to sweet talk her out, I failed. I believe that everyone has a limit of tolerance. It always seems to hit my limit, thus we end up quarrelling.
I remember that there's one Saturday afternoon where Bella & I are going to CANTO with Raymond & Jasmine, who's my Mei Mei (Meaning younger sister). Bella want me to confirm everything with them, so I did. I discussed with them on where & what time to meet. We even discussed on what to wear, which we always do when going to CANTO. Since we haven't been going out for quite some time due to exams, furthermore it's Saturday and we're going CANTO, we decided to wear a bit more steady lor.
After everything was confirmed, I happily informed Bella. However, my happiness stop soon... Everything was fine till I told her about what to wear.
"Wa lau~! I've got no more nice clothing to wear leh, cos I wash all the nice clothing liao~!", she screamed.
"Never mind lor, in that case let's just wear T-shirt & jeans lor", I replied, still in a nice and caring voice.
"Don't want lah, you already discuss with them liao. If change then very the troublesome one k~!", still screaming.
"Then how?", I replied in a very confused state.
"You decide lah~!", she replied in a very impatient manner.
"Since we all confirm liao then we wear steady a bit lor...", I replied but a bit sianz liao.
"You don't know what I'm saying is it~? I said I had wash all my nice clothing liao~!", she replied, screaming.
"Then just wear T-shirt & jeans lor~! The most only you and me wear like that lah~! Don't need to tell them to change also one lah~!", I replied in a pissed off manner.
"Don't want lah~! Later they say we fly them aeroplane~! I don't know arh~! I just anyhow wear something~!", she replied unhappily.
"Fine~!", I said in a very pissed off manner.
We then both slammed the phone, we always did that one so don't be surprised... After the tragedy conversation, I keep thinking. Did I say or do something so wrong to deserve all this~? Feeling moody, I ask Raymond to meet me earlier that day to chat. He brought Jasmine along, whose his girl friend at that time. Jasmine is Bella's ex-classmate and they're like sisters. They keep telling me to bear with it, Jasmine even said that Bella is like that one so what to do~?
To me, what we wear doesn't matter as much cause it's just her that I wanna see
and hold in my arms. But to think that such a small thing can break out into a
quarrel, my heart aches. Very childish though, but I still end up quarrelling
with her. I guess I'm not that mature after all huh~! 
Bella's friends always tell me that she actually changed a lot liao. Her temper & attitude was worst then. But is that really enough~? Improving is one thing, but consistency is another. She's not consistent in controlling both her temper & attitude. Maybe she never realised that, even the most perfect healing love can still be destroyed by consistent damage. There's always no room and time for a previous wound to recover, and another wound would come. Thus in this rate, we'll definitely loose this relationship, am I right~?
We always quarrel and forgot about it fast~! We can have a very heated argument now, but we'll be hugging each other tightly 5 minutes later. There're a couple of occasions where unexpected quarrel broke out. One of it was tickling. I don't know why guys just like to tickle their girl friend some much, don't you guys agree~? Well, Bella used to like it when I tickle her as we're playing. Suddenly one day, she just hate it~! Followed on was a series of quarrel. From then on I promised her I'll never tickle her again, and I kept my promise~! Although the temptation was great, but I always told myself that I must never break my promise. At first, it was really hard to control as it was some kinda habit liao, but I still manage to control myself in the end.
So far until the story that I've said, most of the time during our quarrel, I'll be the one trying to sweet talk her out. In fact it's like every time~! However, it'll not be like that at the later stage, but I'll not go into detail now. So do keep on reading...
(Top Centre) Venus & Evelyn (Bottom Centre)
What I wanna say now is ask you a question. From what you know about me so far,
if I were to tell you to use a nickname, word or phrase to describe me, what
will it be~? "Funky, Cheeky, Hyper Active, Cheerful, One That Never Gives
Up, or Sex Manic again~? 
Some years back, I had ask this question to my friends. The common ones are
"Funky" & "Cheerful". Some even called me "Mr Nice
Guy" after they heard the story of Bella
& I.
The story I told them then was more clear & detail as it was still happening then. Thus I'll normally get emotionally involved while saying. There's this very small number of people who listen to my story, had tears gathering at the corner of their eyes. Some even had tears rolling down their cheeks. These people are gals, no guys will be that girly one lah~! But there's one guy that had tears anyway, that's me~! Whenever I talk to people about the trouble I'm having with Bella, especially about those that I don't understand how it could happen at all, tears will be always there with me. But obviously I wouldn't be crying out loud like a baby in a public place lor~!
So there's these two gals that give me this unique nickname, "Angel
Of Women". I'm not bullshitting here~! One of the them is Venus,
my best friend at that time. I'm really surprised that two persons can actually
come out with a same unique nickname, thus I decided to keep it. Now that's why
I call this title, "Angel Of Women".
Thus allowed me to present him to you, that's me~! Ops~!
Don't fall of the chair ya~!
So far in the story, I'm still an angel where I adore Bella in every way possible. I'll even be thick skin enough to say that I'm the best boyfriend then~! However, as you read on in my story, you'll see how this angel got hurt and change...