The Story of Me
The Story of Me
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It's seems that happiness is limited after all... Honeymoon season flew past really fast, 6 months past so fast that as if it was only yesterday. We started to have arguments and disagreements. Bella starts to have serious attitude problems~! However, I think I considered myself lucky liao~! Cos from what Bella told me, all her previous boy friends never lasted more than 6 months... Why? Cos no one could stand her Hyper Hot Temper~! It took me 9 months, then I started to cannot take it~! Like what her close friends said, "You are really one big miracle~!"
You must be thinking, what kinda attitude problem~? Man, I can tell you there're too many to really count k~! I think I'll just listed those common ones... Though there're common, yet they can be super unreasonable~! She has a hyper mood swing, she can change her mood from extreme happiness to extreme anger, without anything to trigger the mood. She just changed by herself, own time own target~! I'm not kidding~! If you even go out with us, you'll know~! Seeing is believing~! I know it's hard to believe in that, but those friends of mine that had been there can be my witnesses... Due to this mood swing, it can lead to other problems... For example, she can like something that I do for her, but will hate it suddenly the next moment~! What makes the problem worst is her Hyper Hot Temper~! Why do I say that~? Alright, let's put it this way, people lost their temper to a certain degree for certain occasions, rite~? But for her, there's no small or medium temper, if she ever lose it then that's it liao lor~! It's like you accidentally step on her feet which make her angry, but it makes no difference if you killed her whole family... I might be too exaggerating, but something like that lah~! Just wanna let you get the picture more clearly that's all~!
Raymond , Me , Charles
Before I go into what are the problems Bella & I faced, let me intro these two guys who played certain roles in the later part of my relationship with Bella. They're Raymond and Charles. They are my buddies in my life in the Singapore Polytechnic. We're always together one. At least you'll see two of us, seldom will you see anyone of us alone in poly. I'm closer to Raymond than Charles. However Charles is closer to me than Raymond. We'll skip lessons together, sometimes just to go play arcade games or watch movies~! We're know as the "Storm Riders" in the poly. I'll go into that in our intro...
Raymond, though he is the youngest among us,
he is our big brother due to his knowledge & I.Q. When it comes to woo girl,
I must say he stays a 90% sure hit. He too has lots of ideas, like Gary.
As for studies, he also comes in 1st. Well, let's face it, the three of us were
studying at his house one day where we just couldn't solve one question. We
nearly give up~! Then he went to the toilet to poo, leaving Charles
& I still struggling with the question. Guess what~? He suddenly dashed into
the room and said, "I got it~!", and indeed he solved the question~! 
Can
you believe it~? In Storm Riders, he
plays the role, Qing Xuan, as he has
the brain, plus he never learn any martial arts at all. But he's still deadly,
as he needs not gets physically contact with you to make you suffer pain~! If
only you get what I mean...
Charles, the most handsome guy among the three that we concluded. He looks better in person than the photo. He has great voice that make he sings Jacky Zhang song very well. He can sing songs of Andy Lau too... He's the martial art expert~! He is armed with Karate, boxing and grappling... However, it's fun that he's reflex is rather slow when it comes to ball games like soccer & basketball. Funny huh~! I also dun understand~! One thing Raymond and I hated him the most, he is ALWAYS late~! I don't mean late as in 5 to 10 minutes ok, but I'm talking about late for at least 30 minutes to as long as 2 hours and 30 minutes. In Storm Riders, he played the role Bu Jing Yun. Well, due to his martial art background that all have to do with hands. But also mainly to his character, he is a very confident guy who doesn't owe anyone explanation for what he does~!
Stanley, that's me... In Storm
Riders, I played the role Nei Fong.
Well, my martial art background then was Taekwondo only. Actually it's also
mainly because of my charisma. I'm a man of my word, and not only that but I
also seems to be the most friendly & approachable guy among the three. I'm
also commonly know as "Ah Beng" or "Nam Kor",
the role where Ekin play in "Young
& Dangerous". I must stressed that
I'm not a Beng, although I might dress like one but I'm definitely not one~!
If you die die also wanna give me the "beng" title, then it'll
only be "style beng"~! 
As I am from a very strict & conservative family, my parents expect me to be
at home everyday by 2000hrs. So everyday they'll start paging me, I only have a
pager then, at say 1800hrs. They'll always ask three questions in the following
order, "Where are you now", then "Now what time liao
still don't wanna come back arh~!", and lastly followed by "What
time will you reach home~?" Even if I tell them that I'm at Bella's
house having dinner with her family, and it's impossible that I just go back
home straight after the dinner, cos I still must at least stay there for a while
as a manners mahz... But they'll also still keep paging and paging. They expect
me to go home immediately after the dinner~! Bella
likes to see me, and she hates it whenever I gotta go~! So whenever it's about
time for me to leave, she'll start throwing temper or quarrel with me. You know
lah, once quarrel then I gotta stay there longer just to cheer her up~! In the
end I normally gotta take cab home. I'll always explain to her that although my
parents are overdoing it, but why they don't want me to go home late is simply
because they are worried for me, and don't want me to take cab to rash from
place to place as it is a waste of money. Imagine that I only got $50/-
allowance weekly to survive for all my expenses including transport, lunch &
dinner. If not enough, I also cannot ask for more one. I can only borrow~! But Bella
says if it's due to money problem, then she dun mind paying for the cab fare~!
She got much allowance than me, yet she can get some more if it's not enough.
Then I gotta tell her money is precious, and should not spend it this way unless
in cases of emergency... But she just won't listen, thus we always end up
quarrelling... 
Actually from my point of view, I think Bella
is the kind of gal who's scare of loneliness~! So the above song best describe
everything. In fact this song is delicated to her~! Well, due to my parents'
consistent pressure on me to be at home early, I often broke out into quarrel
with them. I tried millions of time explaining that I'm not mixing with bad
accompany and is only with my girl friend, so don't need to be so worry about
me~! They never listened~!
In the end I always end up having a very heated argument with them, or having a
big firing squad by my dad~! Often my parents felt very disappointed with me,
and that made the relationship of us bad. They even don't wanna see or talk to me
at times... Most of the time Bella don't
know about all the quarrels, unless she happened to be around.
Bella likes to stay out late, and I
mean really late. Especially on weekends... She'll never want to be at home before
0200hrs. This was a big problem for me~! Imagine that I already got nag for
reaching home at 2100hrs, how to stay out so late then? Well, I've got no choice
but to start lying to them~! I'll say I've got chalet & etc.... Then I'll
stay overnight at Bella's house. But could I
have chalet every week~? No~! So my parents got pissed even further~! Who
suffer? Me again... In the end my father completely gave out on me~! He said
that he had done his part as a father, don't want me to mix with bad accompany
& anyhow spent money as money is precious~! And if I don't wanna listen,
then he also can't do anything. The most he treat it as he never had a son like
me, he said to me. That hurts~! 
Often in the night, tears really roll down my cheeks without my control whenever
I think about what he said to me. I used to be my father's favorite child, but
now~? Although I really never ever did something wrong, I felt guilty. Even my
siblings said I'm in the wrong at times... I could never understand, but I don't
care~! I told myself that, one could never pleased
everyone when doing something, so just do what you think is right without any
hesitation. Thus, even if it leads to my parents misunderstanding me,
I'll still do it for the girl I love...