You have that something (gas) that you do not know in where people called stomach, you do not want to be
in this state, yes you cry again and they do something (patting) where people called your back and you
relieved yourself hence you are back in the new comfortable state where nowadays you are adjusted yourself
better. Now you know/acquire/ realize that when you feel this something in your stomach, if you cry it stops
(actually your mom or dad made it stop). So crying helps a lot also shaking your hands and legs helped for
you to get rid of this something and go back where you wanted. The more (people call this something pain)
pain experience you got it accompanied with crying and shaking some body parts and those replies always
(or mostly) helped you. So pain is something that keeps you away from your usual state and definitely this
has no similarity to the place where you used to be (uterus). And whenever you get rid of it the place is more
seem like that place.
3. Happiness
What happens after you get rid of �pain� (now you do not know the word yet but you know/acquire/realize
what pain is not: not the place you used to be in)? All those worried faces are gone, pain is gone, people
looking and smiling at you they are touching your face and making these strange noises, they smile over and
over so you acquire this is something related with the good state, after all you trust those guys now,
whenever you have pain it seems like they made it gone, and they smile at you over and over after you have
come to the good state. Hmm it is good state. That shape of the face included in the good state so if you do
it, it is good state, good. Next time try to remember this. Oh no again this pain, smile� no, those people are
not taking you back to the good state, cry�there it is. After a while smiley faces all over.
3.Want
Wanting, you will acquire later on, what made you repeat the crying for going back to this good state.
4. Love
So we all know how frustrated you were in these last couple of months. All you did was going back and forth
between good state and bad state and couple of more things like breast feeding and trying to define new
good states for your self (none of them seemed as good as the first one though but you had no choice,
further crying did not help) and all the time those guys were around and taking you back to the good state
again. So you acquired that if they are not around that bad state does not change. You want them around,
always!!! You want to feel the warmth, heart beat, warm stomach and relaxation of the breast feeding, you
want to be in a curly position as once you used to be and between the arms were the best place for this
purpose. -----------5 or 15 years passes-----
You do not need those guys what you call mom and dad now as much as you do. You do not care if you are
not sleeping between their arms they seemed like not being able to take you to the good state (it is much
more complicated now) as much as they did before. Moreover they sometimes take you to the bad state. But
this guy, his looks causes something in your stomach and you feel some other comfort �good state-- between
his arms, you need this guy to take you to the good state. You want him to be around always!!!
