What makes a woman beautiful? by Jatinder Singh Sodhi

I had a talk with a close friend and he described women into four groups. On the extreme are cute and sexy and in between are good looking and beautiful.
Cute - someone whom you see and just feel like touching the cheeks or kissing innocently
Sexy - someone who has an amazing body and solely attractive for the purposes of sensual pleasures.
Good looking - someone who has sharp features
Beautiful�. Well this is evasive to say the least�
What is it that then makes a woman beautiful�?

Is it her simplicity, is it her attitude, is it her behavior towards you�Naah�
I think what makes a woman beautiful is what you hold personally to be beautiful� qualities that you look for and value deep down inside and find a reflection of it in another woman.

Crazy as it may sound, seeing a woman as beautiful is in essence a window to one's own heart and feelings and desires�what you value and cherish deep inside and hold as pious� and when you see a complement of it in another woman� then you call her beautiful.

Be here with me �

So the mystery seems to have been unraveled�. Beautiful is what you value beautiful as�a very private special personal judgment for a woman. In essence it seems that first you have to have the capacity to judge beauty by your own personal values� and then the ability to see and recognize it in another woman. Is it the woman you are loving or is it the complementarity that she has with your own self. You are tempted to choose the latter but it seems to be fraught with a hesitation. To see her as nothing but an embodiment of my own values is but to limit her� there are worlds and shades to her that she brings to your life and which makes you perk up and just cherish her even more� things she does out of care or pure spontaneity or mischief are what makes you crazy about her even more�

Jatinder