| Ladies, if you want to keep your options open, you must close your legs. It's worth waiting for the right man, and the right man will wait for you. So, on the day that you want to close your options, find yourself a nice "zucchino", someone who is good, like a piece of bread in the days when carbs were a diet staple and not to be feared, with a nice salary and disposition. Having a family requires sacrifice and if you think your career is going to suffer, you're ready to close your options. If you think your children are going to suffer, you don't have a right to do that to a child. When you bring a child into the world, you roll out the red carpet and prepare for that child because that child has a soul for which you will render an account for your contribution in where the soul ends up. It's a privilege. It's not menial work but rather the most important thing you can do. And if you need a job to keep you busy and have a real life, then you don't understand the nature and dignity of the work that is raising a family and you should wait How do you find the right man. Work on yourself, know yourself, pray, love, grow, live, have a life and focus by caring about others and always putting yourself in the shoes of others. And you'll see, you'll have your pick of men, and you'll have to fight them off while they fight to elbow their way in front of others who also want proximity to you. People used to scream out at me while I was protesting the clinic, "Get a life!!!" while they passed in their cars. But the fact was that if those people had a life themselves, they would not have been able to keep still knowing that someone else was dying, losing inalienable rights and his very life. Understand this, and you are ready to close your options and open the whole new world of commitment, a whole new level of living.. |