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"ANGELS DON'T LEAVE FOOTPRINTS"

by Rabbi Abraham J. Twerski

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The High Holidays is a time of introspection and planning for a year of spiritual growth and self-improvement...

The root of the term "esteem" is the word that means "to estimate," i.e., to appraise the value of something. Let us think, for a moment, about how we accord value to something.

If you look around your home, you will find that you value things essentially for one of two reasons: (1) they are functional, or (2) they are decorative. A picture may have no function, but it has value because of its aesthetic quality.

Suppose you have a grandfather clock that stopped working. Although it is no longer functional, you may keep it for its aesthetic quality. It is a handsome piece of furniture. On the other hand, if your can opener becomes dull and no longer works, you discard it. Inasmuch as it has neither ornamental nor functional value, it is worthless.

Some people are indeed so handsome that they may feel they have aesthetic value. The majority of humanity is not that fortunate. Furthermore, superficial beauty tends to wane with aging. Our value as human beings must be based on function rather than aesthetics.

That poses the question: Just what is our function? It is rather difficult to assume that our function is to experience the maximum of pleasure available in the world. If we see a person enjoying a tasty meal, we are hardly likely to think that he is thereby fulfilling the purpose for which he was created.

Judaism derives its concept of human function from Torah teachings. We were created to serve God. Serving God consists of those mitzvot relating to interpersonal conduct and those mitzvot that relate to our devotion to God. To the degree that we fulfill our function, to that degree we have value, and to that degree we may consider ourselves "esteemed."

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HELPING OTHERS

The pillar of Torah is "chesed," kindness to others. The patriarch Abraham, father of the Jewish people, is considered to be the personification of chesed. This concept was made clear by Hillel in his response to the proselyte who asked for a concise definition of Torah. Hillel responded with his interpretation of "Love your neighbor as yourself." He said, "Do not do anything to another person that you would not want done to you" (Talmud - Shabbat 31a).

Rabbi Akiva reiterated this concept in his statement that "Love your neighbor as yourself is the all-encompassing rule of Torah" (Jerusalem Talmud - Nedarim 9:4). One ethicist stated that "all-encompassing" means that observance of every mitzvah in the Torah must somehow contribute to enhancing the quality of consideration for others. Indeed, if after performance of a mitzvah we do not feel a greater love for others, then the performance of that mitzvah was lacking.

Rabbi Yeruchem Levovitz emphasizes the pivotal role of consideration for others. He poses an interesting question. If the goal of life is indeed spiritual development rather than self-gratification, why were we given the cravings for comfort and pleasures that detract from spirituality? Rabbi Yeruchem cites the Torah precept, "You shall love the stranger, because you have been strangers in the land of Egypt" (Deuteronomy 10:19). In order to empathize with a stranger and have proper compassion for him, we must remember how we felt when we were sojourners.

Similarly, Rabbi Yeruchem states, the reason we were given a variety of desires is so that we may experience distress when they are frustrated. In this way, we can empathize with other peoples' needs and do the required acts of kindness to relieve their distress.

One might raise the question: If we had not been given these needs, no one would ever experience any frustration. What is the reason for having needs at all?

Rabbi Yeruchem's point is that without these needs we would be angels rather than human beings. The Divine wish was that there be human beings on earth rather than angels. A person who strives for spirituality should realize that his personal cravings may be impediments to development of spirituality.

This is what Rabbi Yeruchem is addressing. In the pursuit of spirituality, it may indeed be necessary to deny oneself the physical gratifications that detract from spiritual growth. However, if one had not experienced these physical drives, one would not be able to empathize with and to feel for others.

This was summed up by Rabbi Yisrael of Salant: "The problem with the world is that most people are concerned about their own physical welfare and about the spiritual welfare of others." Rabbi Yeruchem's point is a corollary to this. "Care for your own spiritual welfare, and for the physical welfare of others."

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INTERNAL FOUNTAINS

We have been given the potential to do kindness and fulfill other mitzvot. We derive knowledge of how to fulfill mitzvot from the study of Torah. The greater one's knowledge of Torah, the greater are the means whereby one can do kindness and fulfill the mitzvot. The Midrash states that the patriarch Abraham had achieved so advanced a level of spirituality that he had internal fountains which fed him Torah teachings. Because of his profound grasp of Torah, Abraham was a paragon of kindness.

The father of the Mussar ("Jewish ethics") movement, Rabbi Yisrael of Salant, said, "I know that my mind is equivalent to one thousand others. My obligations are, therefore, a thousandfold."

This statement disposes once and for all the contention that self-esteem is arrogance. To the contrary, the greater one's self-esteem, the more one is humbled by the enormity of one's obligations, and the gravity of being derelict in fulfilling them and exercising one's full potential. This is why our sages say, "If you have learned much Torah, do not boast of it, for that is why you were created" (Ethics of the Fathers 2:9).

Taken together with another statement (ibid. 3:12), namely that "a person's deeds must exceed his knowledge," we arrive at the conclusion that we are merely fulfilling our function when we acquire and implement Torah knowledge. The awareness that we are functional should give us a healthy self-esteem. It cannot possibly justify arrogance.

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Excerpted with permission from "ANGELS DON'T LEAVE FOOTPRINTS" - discovering what's right with yourself. By Rabbi Abraham J. Twerski, Assistant Professor of Psychiatry at the University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine, and founder and Medical Director of Gateway Rehabilitation Center in Pittsburgh, one of America's leading substance abuse clinics. Published by ArtScroll/Mesorah Publications Ltd., Brooklyn, NY. http://www.artscroll.com

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