On a serious note, I'd like to give some advice here, to anyone who may read this. Any guys that may stumble across this page and find themselves in a similar situation, Maybe this will help.
If you're with a girl and she says she's had this friend for years even before she knew you, and he's such a sweet guy, etc. etc. (or even worse if you find out without her telling you) she's fulla shit and you should dump her. You're going to get hurt. I guarantee you, girls dont have guys that are "just friends". Girls have guys that they THINK are friends, but I promise you, and as a guy you know this.. GUYS DONT MAKE FRIENDS WITH GIRLS BECAUSE OF THEIR GOOD FRIEND QUALITIES. A guy friend is nothing more than a prospect for a relationship (or fuck) once she gets pissed at you or too drunk. Do you trust your girl with other guys? If it's a serious-relationship I doubt you do. You can pretend, but deep down, when you KNOW she's with other men do you get a bad feeling in your stomach? Let me ask you this then, what's a relationship without trust? If you don't trust someone you have a fuck-buddy/friend that you've developed some attachment to. Why be faithful to an attachment? Cause you're afraid of losing it? Don't ever fall for that "He's just a friend" bullshit, and if she's secretive about him, get rid of the bitch right away cause she's bad news. If she loves you the way she says she does you'll see it because when you express you have a problem with a guy "friend" she'll stop hanging out with him and spend time with you. That's the way it should be. I don't have girl "friends" when im serious with someone. I expect the same from her. Is that really too much to ask now? If you're a girl reading this you're probably thinking something like "What? This guys crazy I have plenty of friends that are guys" Go to the love rant and like I said, say to those guys "I think its time we went further, I want you right now" and see what they say. Not only that I'm sure someone out there is thinking "Well, so I'm not allowed to have friends just cause I have a boyfriend?" No, not at all. Have same-sex friends. Be honest about your guy friends. Have your boyfriend HANG OUT with your guy friends, but if he says he doesn't feel comfortable with you being around them, then you decide.. do you honestly *LOVE* your boyfriend? If so why can't you respect his wishes? He's only trying to make the relationship more secure for the both of you. If not, then you're choosing your "friend" over your boyfriend, and that's basically proof to yourself that maybe you're not ready for a serious relationship.
Anyway, guys dont fall for this "just a friend" shit. Ever. When have you heard a girl say the words "Just friend" in a sentence that made you feel good inside? Exactly. Never. This is no different than a girl saying "I think we should just be friends" which basically translates into "This is a nice way to say I dont want you anymore so that I save face." no good. Sorry for goin off on this shit, it just happened to me so I'm a little bitter. Can ya tell? Anyway, I hope this ends up helping SOMEONE, cause this situation is a bitch to go through and let me tell you it's not worth the fucking trouble.