I am of the opinion that
bisexuals need not be included in the GLBT acronym at all. GLBT reminds me of the tasty sandwich that I
used to enjoy on lightly toasted whole wheat bread with a smear of mayo and a
sprinkling of freshly-ground pepper before I started keeping kosher. It is not
a community that I will allow myself to be relegated to because I am not
heterosexual.
I simply won't be pushed down the slippery slide of having
to accept being gay, lesbian and transgendered as
normal sexuality because I belong to what is, for the present, a minority. Neither do I accept people who enjoy being
hurt and having permanent changes made in their bodies as part of their
sexuality as normal and healthy.
I am not "queer",
magnificently idiosyncratic to be sure, but in no wise peculiar.
There will come a time when the majority of Human beings
will embrace being Polyamorous and Bisexual. When
that time comes the other sexual expressions, which are imperfect and
expressions of the fact that we have not learned to love fully will, of
themselves, fade out of existence.
We, the bisexual polyamorous, are the ones, and the only ones, who are in
full possession of the full range of our sexuality. The GLTs
are like the heterosexuals – all of them people who are not expressing healthy
and/or complete Human sexuality.
Doreen Ellen Bell-Dotan,