FELLATIO - A 14 LESSON TUTORIAL

LESSON ONE

Let's talk about the "basic penis." I regard oral sex as the highest form of
expression of love that can be exchanged between two people. Hopefully this
information will help you to break down any barriers which you might have that
would prevent you from expressing your love in this way and from receiving a
reciprocation from your male companion.

First things first. LOOK at the cock. I do not mean a cursory glance not a
hurried, surreptitious examination. Take enough time that you convince your
companion that some kind of treat is in store for him provided he will allow
you to do with him, and particularly with his cock, exactly what you want.

Place him flat on his back on your bed, in a well lighted room. Take his cock
in your hand and LOOK at it. He probably will not have the will power to stay
soft, but then again you are worshipping his very essence. Few men can stay
soft under these circumstances, when it is apparent that the person LOOKING
at his cock is worshipping.

When you first start to touch him, his cock will become hard and be in a state
where your examination will be meaningful. Wouldn't it be nice if going to
the doctor for an examination was as enriching?

The cock must be hard if you are to be able to note the important parts-those
parts sensitive to stimulation by your lips and tongue.

The first thing you will note is whether or not he is circumcised. Circumcision
is not universally practiced: there are advantages and disadvantages to penises
in both conditions from the standpoint of providing oral caresses that bring
the highest kind of delight to your man.

Next take a close look at the shaft of the penis itself. There is a bulbous
part of the organ near the outer end, slightly larger in diameter than the shaft,
which is often called the head. Technically this is the glans penis (comes from
the Latin glans which means acorn. Look at it closely; does kind of look like
an acorn doesn't it ?)
v The outside perimeter of the glans penis is the corona. This joins the head to
the shaft. This is the most sensitive spot on the penis. It is toward this
ridge that you will direct most of your attention when you are giving head.
Follow this ridge around to the underside of the penis. You know that I like
to call it the underbelly. I am particularly fond of the underbelly!

You will notice a point of juncture where the two ends of this irregular circle
come together. If your partner is not circumcised, this will also be the point
where the foreskin is attached. This tiny area is easily the most sensitive
spot on his entire body, and it is possible to bring your partner to climax
simply by gently tapping the tip of your tongue directly on it. Spend time
caressing the glans and those areas immediately surrounding it.

Beneath the glans is the shaft of the penis. The shaft does not have many nerve
endings and does not, therefore, provide a man with any high degree of
stimulation when caressed either manually or with your tongue to the exclusion
of the glans penis itself. It always amazes me to note the number of confirmed
cocksuckers who believe that sucking up and down on the shaft will get the guy
off. That's not it folks! If it works it is because the back of your throat
is playing tricks on his glans penis. Your throat is giving head to his head!

Beneath the shaft are the testicles (balls, jewels, call them what you like,
but let's not ignore their significance). The testicles are extremely sensitive
to pain and are not usually considered subject to erotic stimulation to any
particular degree. Not true! You can add a high degree of pleasure for him by
paying the right kind of attention to the balls!

Now lets go back to the shaft of the matter. The opening in the tip of the glans
penis is the meatus. Here is where the cum spurts. (I could have said semen is
ejaculated but I did not want to sound too professional).

There are other parts of a man's body which respond with alacrity to oral
stimulation.

Many men are particularly sensitive around the nipples. The first time I kissed
my partner's nipples he shot before I had the chance to even get near his cock.
While I have not been able to duplicate this in the laboratory setting (he
hates to go near the lab with me) my partner still gets extremely turned on by
my lingual nipple caresses.

So LOOK at your partner's penis. Study it. Learn its areas of special sensitivity
completely and be ready to apply your knowledge to his body with your tongue and
with your lips when you bend your loving head over his cock. There is nothing
that you can do which more clearly shows your love for him than the worship you
can provide his cock!

LESSON TWO

The sad fact is that most people, men and women, do not have the slightest idea
of how to suck cock. Most seem to think that simply by making a cunt of their
mouth, closing it around a man's penis, and bobbing their heads lustily up and
down until he climaxes automatically makes them expert cocksuckers.Au contraire!

Consummate skill is required to suck a man's cock and provide him with the
highest degree of pleasure possible. When I first started my quest I really
had no one to turn to for advise and counsel. It was all hunt and suck. Hunt
and suck. Find that one technique that could and would set him on fire! I had
to learn from my experiences and while I would not want to deny you the innate
pleasure that these experiences will bring I would hate to see you lose a great
companion because of your inexperience and lack of expertise.

Let's assume that you have taken that opportunity to LOOK at his penis. To
explore each area of the penis to find the most sensitive parts. That you have
gotten beyond "Parts is parts" and recognize that some parts are more equal than
others.

In order for you to observe your man's reactions and get the most information
possible about his responses try the following:

While his erect penis points toward the ceiling, cup his balls in one hand and
gently, using only your tongue, lick softly, but carefully along the entire
underside of his erect organ. As you suck along the underbelly you will learn
those areas that give him the greatest pleasure when your tongue is touching
them. Unless he is made of stone, your partner will provide you with vivid
clues as to which areas are most pleasurable.

As you discover these areas of enhanced pleasure concentrate on them. For most
men the most sensitive area will be the point where the ring (or corona) of
the head and the foreskin are attached. Or were attached prior to his
circumcision. By continued licking and tapping along this area with your
tongue you are going to bring forth a geyser. If you are not skilled and
you want to please him in a hurry I suggest that you get him off in this
manner in order to become familiar at first hand with the nature and
delight of his climax.

As he is getting ready for climax you will note changes in his penis. These
signs will be the same every time he climaxes so that you can prepare for
his cum properly.The head of the cock may swell somewhat larger then it is
during the normal course of his erection. He may thrust his hips forward
as he wants to send his body hurtling out his cock with his cum. And for
most men, immediately prior to the cum, there will appear at the tiny,
lovely lips at the tip of the cock a clear drop or two of fluid. When
you see this or feel the opening at the meateus through his condom you
know that the moment of truth is at hand. Launch the torpedoes, full
cum ahead!

Where should you be when you are sucking his cock? Between his legs, on
top of him, in a sixty nine position? Where? Because of the structure
of his penis, as well as the structure of your mouth, lips, tongue, and
teeth, you can provide the highest degree of sensation to yourself and
your partner by kneeling between his legs and approaching his cock from
the bottom rather than from the side or the top. Don't believe me? Try
the various positions (I describe in later chapters techniques to be
used with each position). See what works best for you and your partner.

LESSON THREE

Place his stiff cock inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips
around the shaft. With your head begin a circle motion. The cock will
slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle
motion. Watch your teeth on this one. A kneeling position will suffice
but it is also effective when your partner is on his back and your head
is directly over his cock. The circle should be executed in both clockwise
and counterclockwise motions in a slow purposeful manner. I found many
guys in New York who seem to prefer this technique above all others. I
met one guy who could circle a cock for hours and I found myself having
multiple orgasms while his mouth circled my cock. I didn't lose my hard-on
after each cum. When the technique is performed correctly it means many
hours of unadulterated pleasure.

LESSON FOUR

With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees in
front of him lift his hard cock to reveal his balls. With your tongue
find the underside of his balls. Now, while resting his balls on your wet
tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his cock. It is
permissible to use your hands in this technique. It is bettor to do this
technique several times in succession-like licking a lollipop or ice cream
cone. I grew up down south. One thing about southern boys: we learn early
how to get if off quickly when the need is there. And the lollipop lick is
the one technique in this book which few men can tolerate for long periods
of time without cumming.

LESSON FIVE

Right now lets discuss a technique that is probably the most common
cocksucking technique in the world. Take his cock in your mouth but not
deeply. We will get to deep throating later on. It's great, not over-rated,
but if you want to be an expert at deep throat start with the right
techniques and work your way down, so to speak.

Take his cock in your mouth by sliding your moistened tongue lovingly over
the head until your lips close around the shaft at the point just behind
the corona. Don't just open your mouth and close it around his cock. Slide
it in. He will enjoy it much more. Encase the shaft of his penis with your
hand. Remember the shaft is relatively insensitive to any kind of
stimulation. By enclosing his penis with your hand you give him the
sensation of having his penis encased.

Now you have several options. Try twisting your head from side to side
making sure your moist lips stay in contact with the coronal ridge. While
doing this gently move your hand up and down the shaft. When he climaxes
he may want to push your head further down the shaft of his penis. He
wants to envelop you with his cock. As you are learning his climax you
will miss the fine points if you deep throat at this time. Instead
gently suck around the corona as he climaxes so that you can intensify
his pleasure and increase the force of his orgasm.

As you gain more experience you will be able to tell exactly when his climax
is approaching and you will be ready for that initial spurt out the rubber.

LESSON SIX

There is one further refinement to this basic technique which will heighten
his orgasm. If you place your thumb at the very base of the penis in such a
way as to block the tube through which the cum spurts, the semen cannot
escape even though he is spasming and going through the reflex action of
ejaculating semen.

If at the same time you suck vigorously on the head of his cock you can delay
his cum for several long moments. When you finally allow the cum to spurt it
will last much longer and be just as intense as a result. Even though you
delay the cum for only a few short moments you will be surprised by the
intensity of his cum.

These techniques are the basis of cocksucking. Do not go beyond them until
you have become an expert, not only in the techniques themselves, but also
in the reading and interpreting of your partner's responses to such a point
that you know exactly how he is getting off on what you are doing. When you
have reached this point, you are ready for the more subtle, more advanced
techniques.

Don't be so slavish that you miss out on the fun of self discovery. Find out
what works for you and for your partner and make your cocksucking as
individual as your signature. After all, you want your man to pick you out
in the dark among hundred slobbering cocksuckers.

LESSON SEVEN

One of the first things you encountered when you first started to suck cock
was a gag reflex. Most men seem to want to force their cocks down your throat
as far as they can get it. Particularly at the moment when they cum!

Consider for a moment that the average length of your oral cavity is three to
three and a half inches while the average Caucasian cock length is five to
five and a half inches. The laws of nature would seem to dictate that getting
all that cock into your mouth is an impossibility.

It can be done. You probably know someone who can do it and that is why you
purchased this book to begin with. It is possible to master the necessary
technique.I don't want to be boring, but if you understand your anatomy you
will begin to understand the requirements that allow you to take his hard
cock into your mouth and down your throat. The biggest obstacle to taking
all of his cock down your throat is the fact that there is a bend of almost
ninety degrees behind your tongue leading down into your throat. So the first
thing to do is get the cock past that angle.

Get past the angle of the dangle!

In order to practice this, get in a position where you can turn your head in
such a way that your mouth and throat lie almost in a straight line. The best
position to accomplish this is to lie on a bed so that your head is near the
edge with your body sprawled across the bed so that your head is tipped sharply
back. This position will put your mouth and throat nearly in a line and will
allow your partner to approach you in such a way that insertion of his cock
can be made so deeply that his pubic hair presses against your lips.
LESSON EIGHT

Today we will practice mastering physical reaction that must be alleviated
before the art of deep penetration can fully be enjoyed. The natural tendency
of the body to gag when a foreign object such as a deeply thrusting cock being
forced down your throat. You can overcome this tendency by completely relaxing
your throat at moment the insertion is made. It is equally important that you
maintain this relaxation during the entire deep throating.

Let him put his cock down your throat and hold it still while you find the
most comfortable way to proceed. Because of your position you will not be
able to move or to offer him any greater stimulation than simply keeping
your mouth tightly closed around his throbbing cock. If you are able try
to stimulate his underbelly with your tongue, do it!

You will only be able to relax and take his cock in this way if you completely
thrust your partner. Your partner is in full control. He must initiate and
maintain all the motion. This is the only exercise in which you relinquish
your control of the situation to your partner. He will relish this for the
simple fact that for the first time he can insert his cock as deeply down
your throat as he wants to. Now your partner begins an in and out movement
that is just like fucking. He should start slowly,especially if this is a
completely new experience for the two of you. After all if he hurts you he
cuts himself off from one of the great pleasures in life. His only other
requirement during this exercise is to keep the motion in the same direction
throughout this oral exercise as there is simply no leeway for him to vary
the motion from side to side.

One other word of caution.

Don't let your partner get carried away at the moment he starts to cum. At
that spectacular moment he will be able for the first time to thrust his cock
all the way inside your oral cavity and that is the most important lesson of
this exercise! His only other requirement during the exercise is to keep the
motion in the same against your lips as he cums. Because of your position in
bed you will not be faced with the problem of swallowing his cum. And this is
not just because he has a condom on his dick. The reason is because he has
gotten his cock BEYOND your gag reflex! Without the rubber his cum would
shoot directly into your stomach! If both you and your partner understand
what it is that you are trying to do as well as the possible problems that
may "cum" up along the way no harm or discomfort will happen to either of you.

It is possible that not everyone will learn the "deep throat" technique but
this inability does not make you any less a cocksucker. You must allow your
throat to relax completely while your partner is thrusting his cock this
deeply down your throat. To do this long enough for your partner to completely
get it off is very difficult and may require practice beyond this day. It may
be that you will be able to take your partner completely down your throat, but
you will not be able to maintain proper relaxation of your throat to until he
shoots his load. Hopefully your partner will understand that this is not a
rejection of him or of what he is offering you, and it is my sincere desire
that you not stop here and think that you will never master the "deep throat"
technique.

Continue to practice this lesson. I know couples who have devoted ten months
to this lesson alone. Continue to practice this technique because your practice
will allow you to take his cock deeper into your throat each time and for longer
periods of time. Ultimately you will succeed. If you have the desire you will
get this one down pat!

LESSON NINE

Now lets turn to another portion of your partner's anatomy which should not be
ignored-the family jewels. Here are two objects which can enhance your partner's
feelings more than any other. Many people do not think of the balls as primary
sexual objects. Many men are extremely sensitive and just as in lesson eight
there must be a certain amount of trust built up between the two of you before
he will willingly let you have undisputed use of these two pearls of delight!

For today's lesson begin by gently licking his balls with your tongue. As your
partner becomes more trusting you may begin to play with his nipples with your
fingers gradually increasing or decreasing the intensity as you gauge how he is
responding. You may want to gently caress his cock with your hand while you are
bathing his balls with your tongue.

Remember that the balls are extremely sensitive to pain and he will lose his
trust in you if you do not respect any limits he places on them just as you
have the right to place limits on the back of your throat until you are
completely ready to receive him.

It is possible once you have built up this trust to take both his balls in
your mouth. He will be more receptive to this if you thoroughly wet them with
your tongue prior to taking them into your mouth. Unless your partner is into
the new fad of complete body shaving he will have tiny hairs on his testicles.
By giving the balls a complete tongue bath prior to taking them into your mouth,
you will have pressed these hairs down along the surface of the sac and will
not inadvertently cause pain by pulling on them.

This may seem a small lesson but you will discover an entirely new world of
sensations for your partner when you take the time to get to know his testicles!

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