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Hello, I'm putting this page on my site because i want people to be aware at how my husband and I are being treated by the powers that be. This is our story by my husbands hand...
A TRUE LOVE NEVER DIES AND GROWS WITHIN TILL ETERNITY. Life is full of joys and sorrows,A man who is smiling a lot can be weeping next moment.Today i am going to tell u the real story of my life.And dont think that its just a story,these all things happened to me and my beloved in last few months.So our story is real not fictional or imaginary. I still remember that date and time like it was yesterday,It was november 15th 2001,When i met her for first time.Like all the days of the week when i got fed up from this world,i had to come the internet cafe and keep myself busy in chat or search. First i opened the Msn messenger of hotmail,then ultimately for the first time ever i clicked on chat rooms of Msn,suddenly my eyes found a room called as "chat across the world".As it was my first time in these rooms i was not able to understand the rules of chatting in main window,the other thing was that my speed was also not so good,so i was not able to chat in main window. Then i still remember it that after a while i cliked a nick called as"digital_angeluk".First i asked permission for whisper,i told my age sex and location,then she told me her age sexand location,But she told me that she is the host of that roomand she must have to chat in main so no time for whisper.lololol. This was first day story,then i came online at same time in evenings next day,she was not online but after a while she came online,i started to chat her,i requested her that my speed is really slow so plz chat me in private,she told that ok but her answer will be abit slow because she have to chat in her room too.And that was the day when we chatted for long time,i guess it was more than two hours,we discussed everything,first she asked about me then i told her all about me that im a veterinarian and student of veterinary clinical medicines and surgery at masters level |
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e told me that she is a divorced woman and having three children.On that day i sent my picture to her and asked for her pic,i still remember very well that i sent my picture but not got her pic because she told me that she is shy.lololol I also told her that i ama middle class pakistani guy and i told her allabout my family that im having two brothers and one sister.I told her that i teach tutions to little kids and thats way i earn some money. We chatted for long sessions after that day and we knew all about each other,she sent me her pic too then and i remember i looked that pic alot when she was offline,as with passing time somthing was going on in my heart,and i was getting closer and closer to her. One day during our chat when our friendship was two months old she told me that she is falling in love with me.And that was the happiest day of my life because i was already in love with her but i was not able to tell her because i thought she might mind this. After that day happy chat we sent letters to each other and we did telephonic conversations for long time.and thats way the best friends fell in love with each other. She asked me that she wanna marry me if i like it,i told her that i am ready to marry her. Then she asked me that i must come to united kingdom to marry her,but i told her that its not easy for me to get visa,so if she can come to pakistan it will be more easy.but she told me that she cant fly b/c of her diabetic conditions and high blood pressure. In the meanwhile i met a lot of consultants in pakistan that might help me in getting student visa or somthing like that through which i can just reach her,but all my efforts was in vain because the asked me for thousands of pounds,which i was not having. Then she gave me another idea that she can sponser me though her older son and we will meet in united kingdom and then we will marry there. i told her that its a great idea,so she started work on that plan. She sent me complete documents for sponsership but look at my luck that before these documents reach me the British high comission got closed due to security situations. Old people say that love is blind,and i thought it so true when i just think of my past.after the high comission closer we waited for awhile but when we thought its not opening we both decided to take any step to be together. Then she told me that she can even put her life at risk and ready to fly.but i told her plz dont put ur life at risk and u can come through ship,she asked the agents about ships but it was very much costly. then she said that she is ready to fly,then i gave an idea that as high comission of britain in pakistan is already closed so if i go to another country in middle east,we can marry there and then apply from that country.The other plus point of that country was thats way the flying hours from united kingdom will be redused for her so little risk. Then i told my brothers about all this and they told me that they having friends in united arab emiretes so those friends will arrange visit visa for me and then i will go their. At last that day came for which we both waited for months,it was 22nd june 2002,when i saw her for first time at dubai international air port terminal number 2. Ppeople say that lucky people are always unlucky,i was lucky at one end that i met that lady for whome i waited so long,but unlucky at the other hand because the officials in dubai was going going to arrange marriage for us because we both were on visit visas to u.a.e. Thats way the story got a new turn and we decided that we are going to pakistan and we will marry in pakistan and may be high comission will be open then. So we came to pakistan on 1st july 2002,we married here on 3rd july 2002.then we tried to meet someone in the british high comission and tell him that as my wife had already taken a big step to come pakistan due to her illness so if they kindly allow me with her it will be good for her. But here a completely rude bahaviour was waiting us,the british high comission people treat us like animals.they stopped us at least a mile away from comission and told us that u cant enter the building because of strict security situations. Then when we got sure that no chance is there for us,we went to our home first in swabi and then to the hilly northern areas of pakistan because weather was abit coool in that region.she stayed with me till 19th july 2002. Here another tragic thing happened to her when we knew that the flight on 19th july is cancelled and its due now on 20th.it was a shoking news for us because her return ticket from dubai was showing 20th july morning time for return.so then i told her to contact high comission of uk on phone and tellthemto help her.but u know what they said in response?we have already warned all uk citizes to leave pakistan,why u still in pakistan? After that rude behaviour from comission my brother used his own sources and somehow we delayed her date of return from dubai to uk. I still remember very well that my wife was so sad on her return to united kingdom alone,because at one hand in pakistan her husband was there an on the other hand her children inubai about 4.00 a.m morning on 21st july 2002.and her flight to uk from dubai was due on 9.00 a.m. Here the most miserable new occures.our friend in dubai phoned us first that she has gone to aifor us that she got heart attack in aeroplane and she is in sheikh zaid hospital in intensive care unit.u cant imagine how misserable conditions was that for me.and u can easily imagine how much i cursed the british high comission that day. but somehow she got well due to our prayers and god wish andagain she had flight to uk from dubai on next day. Then she gone back to uk and i started in pakistan to wait for the opening of high comission.it was in october then when our prayers got work and high comission started to accept our case.after all formalities from solicitor she sent me complete forms and i submitted them on 27th november 2002 in gery/fedex office islamabad. The fedex people gave me a telephone number to ask themfor any enquiry,i phoned them daily and asked if my pasport and documents back to them from comission yet or not? i still remember that miserable date of my life when i thought that if someone kill me it would have been good rather then to hear that bad news. The news on 24th december 2002 was that when i phoned themin morning fedexpeople told me that ur documents are returned now to themso i can collect them,i felt so happy and thought that its agreat news. but when i reached islamabadat fedex office and asked themthey returned me the documents and as i opened the passport to chekmy visa it was a tragic news that they have refused me.As i got myself out of fedex office somehow it was very heavy rain and i washaving no umbrella.i walked along the road side in rain for an hour,and i cried to god that curse those stupid people who did this misseries to me and my wife. then when i got back to home it was late at night and as i knoked at the door my brothers were waiting me,they opened the door and as i entered they started asking wt happened,i was not even able to talk them.but somehow i just managed myself tosay that they refused me,and i went to bed. now i am sure all people will love to know that why i have been refused? So the answer is of this question is that those people who always shout for women rights and women equalities with men in every field refused me just that there is a difference of religion between me and my wife and the other reason is that she is of more age then me and the third thing they told is that she is married and divorced twice in previous marital history. Now i ask whole the community of the world and specially the human rights comission of the world that is it fair with true lovers. Now i have filed a case against this wrong decision on 7th february 2003,and its almost end of second month now but no judicial process yet. my wife also emailed to prime minister tony blair but no response yet. In last i just wannna ask all those who are near their beloved ones and can see them daily just think about us that its 9th month starting since i met her last time,so just think how misserable our conditons would be?and still no sign that what they will do with us in future? all the people who look this story must help us. u can contact me at. |
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