THE GIRL'S GUIDE TO DIAPERING BOYS
 
Introduction
 
For about as long as humans have been alive, girls and boys have always been battling it out, trying to prove that one gender is superior to the other. The fact is, that in some ways, boys excel in some areas over girls, and in other ways, girls supercede the abilities of their male counterparts. Most of the skills in which boys and girls are compared to each other pertain to physical and mental stamina in specific areas (i.e. mathematics, music, athletics, etc.) The problem with this is that the various skills against which boys’ and girls’ performances are measured are not applicable to everyone. A boy who plays basketball but can’t carry a tune to save his life, is not comparable to a girl who plays the clarinet well but cannot handle dribbling a basketball. What is needed here is a universal way to compare boys to girls, using a skill that is applicable to all boys and to all girls alike. This skill is the elimination of bodily wastes. It is a unique skill in that one’s ability to use it is a basic biological necessity, and most of all, something with which we must all contend. Just as we cannot ignore our basic needs for food and drink- lest we starve or dehydrate- we cannot ignore the need to eliminate the wastes that result from eating and drinking. Given its biological nature, there is no way for people to compensate for any shortcomings in their abilities to eliminate their wastes. Eliminating wastes is a function we all deal with on a daily basis, usually several times a day. It is an integrated and inescapable part of our existence.
 
THIS IS WHERE YOU, THE GIRL, HAVE A VERY SIGNIFICANT AND UTMOSTLY DECIDED ADVANTAGE OVER BOYS! It turns out that girls are far, far superior, in fact virtually infinitely superior to boys, when it comes to handling the elimination of bodily wastes. Because of this difference which conveniently occurs so greatly between boys and girls on something so biologically fundamental, you can take many advantages of it in order to ultimately prove and to assert your superiority as a girl. For you, the girl, it isn’t just a matter of merely pointing out these differences between boys and girls, but to fully exploit these differences. The best way to do this is for ALL BOYS TO WEAR DIAPERS! This guide will cover four main objectives:
 
(1)	It will explain why boys are so inept at responsibly eliminating their bodily wastes and why they should wear diapers. At the same time it will make comparisons to uphold the notion that girls do not need diapers.
(2)	It will go beyond merely advocating that boys wear diapers. It will further give you the understanding behind the supreme importance of such advocacy to keep boys in diapers. It will give you guidelines in which you can fully exploit this need for boys to be in diapers so that you can further bolster your own sense of your supreme girlhood. It will help you to establish a permanent lifelong impression of boys that is completely inseparable from the fact that they wear diapers. Not will only you adapt to these ways of thinking, but so will the boys. It will help boys to accept their need for diapers and to gain immense pleasure from it as well. Both you and boys alike will be in mutual agreement with the philosophies that are taught in this guide.
(3)	It will instruct you on how to get the most out of using diapers on boys and achieve optimally effective results for the boys and for you.
(4)	It will instruct you on your responsibilities to further differentiate yourself and your identity as a girl from boys.
 
The Differences Between Boys and Girls
 
Girls and boys are different in many different ways. Besides the obvious anatomical differences as well as differences in appearance and in dress, many other differences exist in the overall behavior between boys and girls. Girls tend to be more mature and responsible than their male counterparts. Girls also tend to have more sophisticated tastes and use more discretion when it comes to the choices they make. Perhaps the greatest difference of all is the way girls observe hygiene and strive to maintain self-cleanliness. Nowhere is this difference more pronounced than it is between the toileting habits of the two sexes. Girls, by nature, are far more conscientious of practicing and maintaining good hygiene habits than boys. Girls know to eliminate their bodily wastes in a clean manner, ensuring that their bodies and their clothing alike is kept free of urine and fecal deposits. It is beneath a girl’s dignity for her to not observe proper habits in the bathroom. She knows to wipe thoroughly after a bowel movement and to avoid having accidents at all costs. Girls do not like to be dirty, especially if it compromises their identity as girls.
 
Boys, however, are not nearly as responsible in this area. Boys are much more lax when it comes to hygiene, especially at the toilet. Boys are very poor at wiping and many of them do not wipe at all. The result of this is unsightly brown streaks and stains in their underwear as well as unpleasant odors. While most girls would shudder at the thought of leaving such evidence of poor hygiene in their panties, boys generally have no qualms about it. Most boys don’t mind if their underwear gets soiled, and they certainly don’t mind having large amounts of fecal matter sticking to their butts or smelling bad because of this. For them, they just accept it as part of being a boy; it doesn’t undermine their sense of boyhood. If anything, it bolsters it even more. Boys are also very lax when it comes to ensuring that their urine has completely drained from their bladders. Several stray drops of urine will often come out of their penises after they have pulled their underwear back up. This causes unsightly yellow stains to appear in the front of their underpants, though with the fly front that is found on most standard boys’ underpants, these stains are usually masked. At one time boys’ underwear included a second layer in the seat for the very reason that boys are so irresponsible when it comes to wiping. This feature of boys’ briefs should be brought back. More will be discussed on this topic later on.
 
In addition to being responsible for the cleanliness of one’s clothes and one’s body at the toilet, using the toilet itself carries a number of responsibilities in which most girls are capable of maintaining. Boys, however, tend to drop the ball here a lot, too. As stated above, boys are horribly lax at wiping their butts after pooping. Boys tend to leave the lid up after they are done using the toilet. This causes girls a great inconvenience by having to put the lid back down before using the toilet themselves. Many girls who live with boys will attest to having gone into the bathroom in the middle of the night, only to sit down on the rim of the toilet bowl. Some boys have a similar problem in that they don’t put the lid back up before they pee. They end up splattering pee all over the seat and then they do not wipe it up afterwards. This should come as no surprise to many girls. If boys don’t care about wiping their butts, why should they care about wiping the toilet seat? Boys also tend to have poor aim at the toilet. They end up peeing everywhere around the toilet, usually behind it. Again, boys are not known to clean up after themselves when they commit this offense. Perhaps the easiest solution would seem to be encouraging boys to sit on the toilet at all times, even when they only have to urinate. Too many boys are reluctant to do this since they recognize sitting for peeing as something that girls do. Boys prefer to stand before the toilet and they absolve themselves of having any responsibility in cleaning up the messes they leave behind. Boys are also notorious for not flushing the toilet after they have used it. What a wonderful sight it is to go into the bathroom and see a toilet bowl full of turds floating in the water, usually without any wads of toilet paper, clearly indicating that he failed to wipe himself afterwards.
 
Facts About Boys and Potty Problems
 
There are several facts to compare boys and girls which favour the notion that boys should remain in diapers and never be toilet trained. For boys who have been supposedly toilet trained, they should likewise go back to wearing diapers. They are more difficult to toilet train than girls and remain in diapers longer than girls as a result. Boys are more prone to wetting accidents, especially bedwetting. Boys are especially more prone to pooping accidents, often caused by a condition known as encopresis. While statistics vary from source to source, the sources we consulted all agreed on the fact that these problems are more common among boys. Several quotes taken from various web sites have been quoted, along with their URLs for attribution purposes: To see these web sites, go here.
 
The list of examples could go on indefinitely, but it seems that a very valid case has been established for boys to remain in diapers. As encopresis is the most boy-dominated of the three given toileting difficulties and that encopresis deals specifically with bowel movements, more links were provided in this area.
 
The Truth About Boys
 
This section is separate from the above section, which deals with facts. This article differentiates facts from truth. Facts are purely objective, based on research and numerically-based findings. Truth is more subjective and is open to interpretation and to one’s beliefs. This section will explore, at least at a superficial level, the psychology of boys as it pertains to diapers.
 
It has already been established that boys are not concerned about cleanliness. It has also been established that boys are more difficult to toilet train than girls. Child psychologists have offered several reasons for why boys take longer to toilet train. One idea is that boys have more to learn in that they have to adapt to standing to pee and to sitting for pooping; for girls, it’s sitting for both functions. Some have suggested that boys be taught to sit for both functions as well, but as discussed earlier, boys are reluctant to do this because they identify sitting for peeing to be something that only girls do. Other, more complex explanations have been offered, based upon a combination of behavioral characteristics that are more inherent in boys. Such explanations go beyond the scope and the purpose of this article and therefore will not be covered.
 
Given that boys are not as repulsed by “gross things” and are in fact, fascinated by them (i.e. collecting bugs, farting, spitting, etc.) it stands to reason that boys are not as likely to find a wet, poopy, slimy and smelly diaper to be as undesirable as would a girl. The “gross-out” factor is higher for girls, so once they are old enough to realize that wearing diapers results in these unpleasant sensations, they are more motivated to learn how to use the potty. Since boys get a different, perhaps even favorable sensation from wearing wet and messy diapers, they are obviously less inclined to give up their diapers in favor of the toilet.
 
Perhaps the greatest reason boys are more resistant to toilet training is the diapers themselves. Diapers are warm, thick, and soft. Obviously are worn over the genitals and other erogenous areas of his body, such as his scrotum, his buttocks and his anus. Boys’ genitals are very sensitive and are very easily stimulated. This applies to boys of all ages. While toddler boys don’t understand their sexual feelings, they do recognize them and recognize them as being very pleasurable. Since little boys will not understand the purpose for having sexual feelings until later in their lives, they will often first associate their sexual feelings with diapers since it is their diapers that create these feelings. Because boys’ genitals are external and thus are more greatly exposed to the diapers, they are more likely to make a sexual connection to their diapers than are girls. By extension, boys learn to use their other senses to add to the stimulation that diapers produce. Beyond the all-around feeling of the diapers being wrapped around their bodies, they derive pleasure from looking at their diapers. Their diapers are distinctive and have unique properties. They are usually pure white and only cover the crotch, the genitals and the buttocks. Boys left in diapers will often look down at their crotch or will go to a mirror, if available, and look at their diapers from various angles. Boys also learn to associate the smells of their pee and their poop with their diapers and will find the otherwise foul odors to be pleasant reminders of the fact that they are wearing diapers. Because of the sensitivity of boys’ genitalia, boys are also more likely to resist giving up their diapers because of all the sensations they get from diaper changes. They appreciate the intimate nurturing that comes with getting their bottoms and their balls wiped clean. They are reluctant to accept gaining more responsibility for themselves at the expense of the intimacy they receive from getting their diapers changed.
 
Simply put, parents should not even waste time toilet training boys, period. All the difficulties that have been covered are valid arguments against toilet training boys. Many parents will attest to the headaches and frustration that comes with toilet training boys. This experience is pleasant for neither the boy nor the parent. It is easy to keep a boy in diapers from birth and never toilet train him and parents will appreciate the peace of mind in the long run. While keeping a boy in diapers is likely to affect him socially, especially in school, if enough parents send their boys to school in diapers because they are not toilet trained, these boys will become their own social circle and will establish friendships on their common bond of wearing diapers. Parents should also consider home-schooling as an alternative as this offers its own advantages, which are covered later on.
 
For a boy who has already been declared toilet trained (allowing for the usual accidents) getting him to wear diapers will be a more difficult challenge. He will likely resist wearing diapers. It is important to understand that his resistance comes from the embarrassment that he will initially experience. He may also feel guilty about getting put into diapers, especially if it is administered as a punishment or as a disciplinary measure.
 
The TRUTH, however, is this: HE WANTS TO WEAR DIAPERS!!!
 
It is very important that you understand this. He may resist and he may do anything within his power to avoid wearing diapers. Whatever you do, don’t back down. Use restraints and other reinforcements if necessary. Remember that he is only doing this because he doesn’t want anyone to know how he really feels about diapers. He feels that he is not supposed to enjoy his diapers, but he does. He faces adjusting to the fact that he is never going to use a toilet again. He realizes that his need for privacy will be abolished. Modesty will no longer be a concern of his as you will be seeing him in compromising states, both while he is in diapers and even more so when you are changing him, seeing his (usually aroused) private parts and the smelly mess that he has left for you to clean up. As an added gesture, you may even want to remove the door to his bedroom as it will no longer be needed to serve his now obsolete privacy needs. He has to give up all of his pants and shorts, some of which he may have liked to wear. He anticipates no longer being able to leave his house or do anything with his friends anymore. He fears that his friends may alienate him once they find out that he is wearing diapers. He knows that in spite of all the embarrassment and all the losses of privileges and freedoms that wearing diapers will cause him, these feelings will be far outweighed by the inner pleasures that he receives from wearing them. As he becomes accustomed to your presence and seeing him in diapers, he will adapt and accept this and his embarrassment will fade away. He may exhibit embarrassment again whenever he is introduced to people who have not seen him in diapers before, but if he is seen by them enough times, he will soon adapt to their presence as well. He may find new friends who wear diapers with him. He will find that they are more fun to be with than his old friends ever were. Over time, he will become more familiar with the pleasurable feelings that his diapers give him and he may even open up about these feelings. If he does, encourage him to share these feelings with you. Your presence as a girl who does not wear diapers will be further ingrained into his mind and his identity as a boy, so it is important that you share your feelings about this with him if and when the time comes.
 
What Boys Like About Diapers
 
There are lots of things that your diaper boy will take note of and think about often regarding his diapers. Please be aware of these things and encourage him to explore them. His diapers stimulate four of his five senses (taste doesn’t seem to have its place here), plus there are several psychological aspects to the pleasures his diapers give him. Below is a list of how your diaper boy’s feelings (mostly sexual) are stimulated by his diapers:
 
Visual
 
1	Whiteness 
2	Thickness/appearance of multiple layers 
3	Rise on body 
4	Width of crotch 
5	Diaper pins 
6	Watching you diaper him 
 
Tactile (Touch)
 
1	Bulk 
2	Softness/texture 
3	The feel of his plastic pants 
4	Tightness 
5	The feelings his diapers give him by going up into his crotch and around his waist and over his butt 
6	The way his diapers feel while or after he pees in them 
7	The way his diapers feel while or after he poops in them 
8	The sensations he gets from getting cleaned and wiped during a diaper change 
 
Smells
 
1	Pee 
2	Poop 
3	Farts 
4	Baby powder/lotion, etc. 
 
Sounds
 
1	His plastic pants crinkling/rustling 
2	The sound of diaper pins being fastened 
3	The sound of the waistband of his plastic pants snapping 
4	The sound of poop/farts in his diapers 
 
Psychological
 
1	His knowing that most people don't wear diapers but he does 
2	The thrill of you and others always seeing him in his diapers and all the attention that he gets from it 
3	The sense he gets of feeling confined or trapped in his diapers and not being able to get them off easily 
4	The sense he gets that diapers make him feel like a baby or a toddler, and most of all, a BOY! 
5	Knowing that he is forced to eliminate all of his body wastes into his diapers and can never use a toilet 
6	His being unable to hide his diapers from view 
7	The anticipation he gets before peeing or pooping in his diapers 
8	His knowing that it will be awhile before his next diaper change 
 
As you read through this article, you will learn ways you can make each of these sensations more meaningful and pleasurable for your diaper boy.
 
Your “Diaper Boy”
 
For the sake of simplicity, the term “diaper boy” will be used throughout the remainder of this article to cover boys in various situations. In most cases the boys will be brothers. They may also include cousins or boys you babysit, however. While this term is usually expressed in the singular, it can also apply to more than one boy.
 
What Your Diaper Boy Should Wear and Should Not Wear
 
Cloth Diapers vs. Disposable Diapers
 
Cloth diapers are very strongly recommended as they offer a multitude of advantages over disposable diapers:
 
1	They are much thicker than most of today’s disposable diapers 
2	They can be worn in multiples and there is no real absolute limit to how many diapers can be used at a time 
3	They use diaper pins, which are a significant accessory to your diaper boy’s experience as well as a way to enforce the use of his diapers 
4	They use plastic pants, which are also an important accessory that your diaper boy will associate with his diapers 
5	Because they are made of cloth and can be washed, they are reusable. If your diaper boy is supplied with disposable diapers, he may get the impression that his diapers are only short-term and that, unless replenished, he won’t have a non-stop supply of diapers. Cloth diapers will give him a greater sense that he will be wearing diapers indefinitely, especially if he knows how much the diapers cost. His diaper supply, provided that the laundry is maintained, is self-replenishing and nonstop. 
 
You might be reluctant to use cloth diapers because of concerns involving laundry. This is understandable. This can be used to your advantage as well if you use a clothes-line that is conspicuous to neighbors and passersby. You also may be unfamiliar with how to fold cloth diapers. They are many ways a cloth diaper can be folded. Some are even pre-folded or made in a contour fashion. If you use flat diapers that require folding, here are some links to web sites that will help you:

1	http://www.babyminestore.com/Information/FoldingDipes.htm 
2	http://webhome.idirect.com/~born2luv/FOLDING.HTML 
3	http://www.weebees.com/web_page/nappy_fold_kite.html 
4	http://www.weebees.com/web_page/nappy_fold_neat.html 
5	http://drylife.hypermart.net/page7.html 
6	http://www.angelfire.com/id/megnkatesplace/folds.html 
7	http://www.diapernet.com/fold.htm 
8	http://www.weebees.com/web_page/diapering.html 
9	http://tis-group.org/fold.html 

These pages also offer information on washing and caring for cloth diapers. Disregard the fact that most of these sites assume that you are diapering a baby. These instructions work just as well on your diaper boy, no matter how big he is. The only difference is scale. Feel free to experiment with different folding methods and use the one that looks the best on your diaper boy and is also the most effective.
 
Diaper Color
 
In a word: WHITE! While diapers several colors and patterns and they may look cute on your diaper boy, nothing screams "DIAPERS!" louder and more prominently than a plain white-as-snow diaper wrapped thickly around a boy's butt. When you see your diaper boy bending over to take a big crap, there is no mistaking all that thick white fabric on his butt for diapers. Colors other than white tend to detract from the basic essence of a diaper's function and from a distance could be mistaken for shorts or swimwear. Furthermore, your diaper boy will get the idea that he has any sort of choice when it comes to the appearance of his diapers. The same thing goes for plastic pants. They should be made of a frosty-white translucent material. Colors are not necessary here, either.
 
10 Reasons for Using Bigger, Thicker, High-Rising Multiple Diapers
 
In addition to whiteness, there are four other essential requirements for a diaper boy's diapers: BIG, THICK, HIGH-RISING, AND MULTIPLE! The goal of diapering your boy, among other things, is to make them as absolutely as big and thick as you possibly can. Discreetness is certainly not the goal here, quite the opposite, in fact. This is achieved by using multiple diapers made from thick materials and folding them into many layers. How many diapers you use is limited only by the amount that you can get to fit on him. As a minimum, six diapers should be used, but much more than this is what we encourage. You should have diapers available in several larger sizes that you can fit over the smaller (but still big) diapers he has on underneath. Larger diapers that rise up high on your diaper boy's body are a must, too, both for their added conspicuousness and for their added capacity. It’s not like your diaper boy is going to be concerned about his diapers showing above his pants (he won’t be wearing any, more on this below) Listed below are ten reasons for why a diaper boy's diapers should always be so big and thick:
 
(1)	Bigger, thicker, high-rising multiple diapers stand out very prominently. You don't want him to be able to hide his diapers from view. No matter how he sits, stands lies down, or whatever, you should always be able to see his diapers. His diapers should remain fully visible at all times! This is so that every time you look at him, you will undoubtedly notice his diapers first thing. You will immediately be reminded of what he uses his diapers for and most of all, it will make you all the more glad that, as a girl, you do not have to wear diapers or deal with the messes and the smells that diaper boys must deal with. Unlike him, you will be able to ruminate upon all the freedoms and choices that you still have by not wearing diapers. You will certainly enjoy gazing at his non-stop diapered state and find him to be look quite cute in his diapers. Over time, you will automatically associate your diaper boy and by extension, all boys in general, with diapers.
(2)	Bigger, thicker, high-rising multiple diapers draw even more attention to themselves (and the parts of the body they cover) and the purposes for which they are worn. When you look at your diaper boy, you want to note his torso first thing if you are looking at him from the front, or his butt if you are looking at him from behind. Making his diapers thicker makes these areas of his body stand out even more and impossible to ignore. Likewise, they call further attention to the functions that his body performs in these areas, and you will want to be constantly reminded of this as well.
(3)	Bigger, thicker, high-rising multiple diapers prohibit the use of pants, in which their absence helps to fulfill the first two purposes. Pants are strictly forbidden and the use of thicker diapers conveniently makes them impossible to wear.
(4)	Bigger, thicker, high-rising multiple diapers have a greater capacity so they can hold more and be worn for longer periods of time. This is especially true for diapers that rise up higher on the body.
(5)	Bigger, thicker, high-rising multiple diapers have a greater capacity allow for fewer diaper changes, but when diaper changes are performed, they last longer. You won’t be inconvenienced by having to change your diaper boy’s diapers several times a day. When it does come time to change his diapers, it will take longer and your diaper boy will be able to savor it better. It will take more time for you to remove all the pins and all the diapers you put on him. You will spend more time cleaning up the larger mess that he has left for you. This means that he will be treated to more wiping of his butt and balls, which he will enjoy very much. He will love watching you put diaper after diaper after diaper on him, along with each pin that you add to his increasingly thick diapers.
(6)	Bigger, thicker, high-rising multiple diapers offer some degree of odor control by being thicker and keeping smells contained. While no amount of diapers can completely trap in the noxious and inevitable odors of pee and poop, at least when he has more diapers on there is more material to absorb these odors. Such diapers also muffle his farts and absorbs the gas.
(7)	Bigger, thicker, high-rising multiple diapers lessen the chances for unsightly and messy leakage to occur. Your diaper boy is going to sit in the same places you also sit. You want to be assured that no matter where he goes, you won’t end up getting any of his pee or poop on your clothes. Also, you’d rather look at his thickly padded rump without having to look at the poopy mess that lies so securely beneath all that material. You might enjoy the mystery of wondering whether or not his diapers are clean, but never knowing because his diapers are too thick to allow for any visual detection.
(8)	Bigger, thicker, high-rising multiple diapers further reinforce his use of diapers. The more diapers he has on, the more difficult it is going to be for him to get them all off if, for any reason, especially in the early stages of his permanently diapered state, he decides to attempt using the toilet. This reason works well when you combine it with the use of excessive diaper pins, which is covered down below.
(9)	Bigger, thicker, high-rising multiple diapers open up new possibilities for having fun with your diaper boy. You can challenge yourself to seeing just how many diapers you can get your diaper boy to wear. You can determine how long he can go without a diaper change and test other limits of his extreme diapers. If you have more than one diaper boy, you can engage them in contests to see which one of them stays in his diapers the longest without a change.
(10)	Bigger, thicker, high-rising multiple diapers will force your diaper boy to waddle. You will certainly enjoy observing how difficult it will be for your diaper boy to walk in a normal fashion. He may even resort to crawling. Also, you will notice that every time he sits he has to keep his legs wide apart and keep his diapered crotch in view. He will not be able to bring his knees together to attempt hiding his diapers.
 
Diaper Pins
 
You should always use as many diaper pins as possible on your diaper boy and you should have a very abundant supply of them. The more pins you use, the tighter you can make his diapers. More pins will make it more difficult for him to remove his diapers should he decide to try taking them off so he can use the toilet. Please note that larger diapers that go up higher can fit more pins, too. Each diaper used should be pinned up as much as possible. At the very least, the outermost diaper should contain the most pins. At least six on each side makes a pretty strong statement about how much you want your diaper boy to remain in his diapers. You can even use diaper pins with his shirt, which is explained farther down. Pins with either metallic or plain white heads are recommended for the same reasons that white diapers are recommended. Lastly, get the largest diaper pins you can find. Larger pins will be able to penetrate thicker diapers more easily.
 
Pants and Shorts
 
Three words: NO! NO! NO! One of the first and foremost privileges that your diaper boy should never have is the choice to wear pants or shorts. If he is the type of boy who likes to wear the latest labels and brands of jeans, he should especially not be entitled to this privilege. A diaper boy should have no fashion conscience at all. To him, his sense of fashion should be strictly limited to how he looks in his diapers, period. No Levi's, no Dockers, no Old Navy, nothing! Diapers generally do not distinguish themselves from one another by their brands. If your diaper boy does have a preference for a certain brand of diaper, however, allow him to wear it so long as it meets the criteria stated here.
 
At the same time, your diaper boy will always know that any time you see him, you see his diapers, too. He knows that any attempt to cover himself will be utterly futile and quickly learns to accept letting you see him in diapers. He knows that his diapers are inseparably integrated with his identity as himself and as a representative of all boykind. He knows that you will always think of diapers synonymously when you think of him. He knows that he cannot escape from the fact you associate him with the way he has to release his bodily wastes into his diapers where they will remain and accumulate, reeking of foul odors, until his diapers are changed. Most of all, he learns to accept the fact that he, as a boy, should remain in diapers. He will likely learn to enjoy this most significant and wholly exclusive aspect of his boyhood. As a girl, it gives you plenty of reasons to feel good about yourself as well.
 
But in order for all of the principles stated above to become more effective, with your diaper boy, you must eliminate his pants completely! Letting him wear pants, or even shorts, masks his diapers and, more significantly, his identity with diapers. Since you wear pants and likely shorts, too, you don't want his available choices of attire to blend with yours in any way at all. His diapers and your pants are to be as distinct as night and day. You don't wear diapers; he doesn't wear pants. While shorts (at least the older styles) provide for more leg exposure-- an important characteristic of diaper boys- they still cover up the diapers. For a boy who wears pants, when you look at him you likely do not think about how he eliminates his wastes and you probably don’t give much thought to what he is wearing in general. Unless he has had an accident in his pants (which is common for boys) you don't anticipate that he will smell bad, either and the thought may not even cross your mind in this instance. Now, if you look at a boy in diapers, the principles stated above will immediately come to the forefront of your mind and all at once you will be reminded of all the things that you have learned to associate with your diaper boy. You look at his diapers and, upon immediately recognizing that he is in diapers, (it bears repeating) you cannot help but to think about what he is forced to do in his diapers. As a specific example, it is impossible to look at a boy's diapered butt and not also think about him pooping in them along with the odors that his pooping inevitably produces. This is the very thought process that you want to establish when you look at your diaper boy.
 
Fortunately, prohibiting your diaper boy from wearing pants is easy to enforce. Simply put enough diapers on him to make them too thick for his pants to fit. Making diapers extra thick serve many other purposes, too, all of which were explained in detail above.
 
At the very least you should lock your diaper boy’s pants away. Use a padlock (use two for good measure if possible), and make sure he can never get a hold of the key. As a good gesture to your diaper boy, have on some tight-fitting jeans. Let him see you tuck the key deep down into your back pocket. Push it down all the way. As he is watching you do this, he will be staring at your tight pants and decidedly diaperless derriere and this will further remind him of what makes you, a girl, different from him. By seeing where the key is, this will relieve him of the temptation to look for it, but at the same time will also let him know that since it is on you, he will have no way of ever getting it. When you go to bed and change into your nightwear, be sure to remove the key from your pants pocket unless and put it in a safe location so that at night he cannot sneak into your room and take it. Better yet, if you can lock your bedroom door and don’t share the same bedroom with him, then do so. When you change pants, always be sure to take the key out of the pocket of the dirty pair and transfer it to the clean pair. Again, let your diaper boy watch you do this.
 
If your diaper boy is no longer going to need pants ever again, especially if he is going to be home-schooled, for example, you have several options for disposing of them entirely, and in this case, you should. If you think his pants might fit you, go ahead and claim them as yours. While girls' fashions do not reciprocate for boys, boys' apparel, however, can also be worn by girls and look just as fashionable. Perhaps your sisters, girl cousins, or your friends could use them. DON'T GIVE THEM TO ANY BOYS! You don't want your diaper boy to see that his old pants are going to one of his fellow young males. If you are unable to dispense of his pants in this manner, you can always donate them to Goodwill, the Salvation Army or some other charitable organization. Granted, you run a 50% risk of his pants going to a boy, but at least your diaper boy will never know what becomes of what were once his pants.
 
The above suggestion assumes that his pants are clean enough for you or another girl to wear. Often times, however, a boy has had many accidents in his pants and has left behind indelible pee and poop stains. It would be far beneath a girl's dignity for her to be seen wearing such soiled pants or for her to carry suspicious odors from wearing pants that have evidence of one's inability to retain bodily wastes until such a time a toilet was available. Such pants need to be destroyed at once! Either burn them or mutilate them beyond wearability as your diaper boy may later try to retrieve them from the trash.
 
Sleepwear
 
Your diaper boy is in nothing but diapers 24/7/365 (366 if it's a leap year). Since he is in only diapers all throughout the daytime, it makes absolutely no sense at all to allow him to wear anything over his diapers at night, either. Pajamas simply are not necessary, period. You may allow your diaper boy to keep his pajama tops, but the bottoms must be done away with for the same reasons listed above in the "Pants" section. Like with pants, if your diaper boy is diapered extra thickly, his bottoms will not stand a chance of fitting and will thus be completely useless to him. Since you or your sisters likely have no use for them, either (they have a fly front), you might as well either destroy them or donate them to charity.
 
For some boys, sleepers may be used in place of pajamas. While sleepers may serve well to inhibit the boy's access to his diapers, there are other methods you can use to make his diapers more difficult for him to remove. Some diaper boys may wear sleepers to keep warm in the wintertime. Likewise, there are other ways you can ensure that your diaper boy keeps warm in his bed. You can let him use an electric blanket or use more covers. Since you can probably keep your house at a comfortable temperature during even the coldest of weather which allows less clothing to be worn, there is no reason that your diaper boy should have to wear anything more than his diapers. Sleepers, like pants, hide the diapers from view and are thus strongly discouraged from use.
 
Socks
 
Socks are pretty much optional. On one hand, they reduce the amount of leg exposure that the diapers otherwise provide. On the other hand, socks make a nice accessory to the appearance of your diaper boy. If you let him wear socks, we recommend that he wear the type that come to just below the knee and have colored stripes on him.
 
Shirts
 
How convenient it is that boys, unlike girls, can go around in public without shirts on. Since it is okay for boys to do without the shirt in public, then there is certainly no reason that he needs to wear one at home, either. By not letting him wear a shirt, this allows for 100% exposure of his diapers. You can enjoy seeing how high up over his stomach and up his back his diapers go.
 
On the other hand, shirts do offer some advantages. Shirts draw more attention to the fact that your diaper boy has no pants on, but can still wear his shirt. It's as if he has gotten dressed as much as he can, and once he has his shirt on, that's it. If you do allow your diaper boy to wear a shirt, here are a few guidelines:
 
(1)	Make sure that it is a very short shirt so that it leaves as much of his diapers exposed as possible. You may even want to consider getting him some cheap shirts that you can trim up so that they just meet his diapers at the shirttail.
(2)	Just plain ordinary T-shirts will do here. Don't buy anything with buttons, collars, pockets or anything extra. There is no need for expensive shirts or whatever the current fad is. Just like with pants, your diaper boy isn't putting on a fashion show for his shirt, either, just his diapers.
(3)	Plain white undershirts are the least expensive. colored shirts, however, offer a greater contrast against his white diapers, so black shirts would work well here.
(4)	Shirts can be used to help reinforce your diaper boy's diapers. By using several diaper pins, you can stick them into the shirttail and fasten them to the top of his diapers. The more pins you use the better. It is especially recommended that you use a greater concentration of diaper pins in the rear where they are out of his reach. This also gives you an excuse to spend more time back there to enjoy the view of his diapered butt. If his shirt is too long you can roll up the excess shirttail to increase his diaper exposure. Also the extra material in the rolled-up shirttail will further reinforce the hold of the diaper pins.
(5)	Shirts can be used to display messages to express your diaper boy's need to be in diapers. You can have a custom T-shirt designer make shirts with any message you want on it. You can also purchase iron-on lettering and do the job yourself. If you have a computer and a color printer, there are kits available in computer and office supply stores with which you can print up your own T-shirt transfers. You can print anything from photos you have taken of your diaper boy to any number of logos or other graphics. The possibilities are endless. Use your imagination!
 
If you need some ideas for what kinds of messages you could put on your diaper boy's shirts, may we offer you a few ideas:
 
1	The bathroom door in our house has a GIRL'S sign on it! 
2	Big dumps require big diapers! 
3	Boxers? Briefs? None of the above.., I wear diapers! 
4	Boys belong in diapers! 
5	Boys: proud to support the diaper industry! 
6	Boys: Why Toilet Train Them? 
7	Caution: contents may be smelly! (works best with a yellow “caution” sign appearance) 
8	Change my diapers! Bring a face mask! 
9	Come on! All the boys are wearing diapers now! 
10	Diapers are a boy's best friend! 
11	Diapers, they do a boy good! 
12	Eat my shorts diapers! 
13	F Minus in toilet training! (works well if designed to look like a report card from school) 
14	Full of poop? Full of pee? I don't know, it's too thick to see! 
15	Get dressed? I AM dressed! 
16	Go ahead! Just try to make me use the toilet! 
17	Got diapers? 
18	I don't smell because I'm padded so well! 
19	I left the toilet seat up just once and look at the diapers they're making me wear! 
20	If it ain't thick, it ain't worth pooping in! 
21	If you can smell my poop, then I'm not diapered enough! 
22	I'm not a butt wiper, that's why I wear a diaper! 
23	Just say no to toilets! 
24	My parents are lucky, I saved them the trouble of putting a boy through potty training! 
25	Obsessed with diapers! 
26	Please do not attempt to toilet train this boy-- he would rather wear diapers! 
27	Pooping in my diapers is so much fun! 
28	Real girls are potty trained- real boys wear diapers! 
29	Spoiled Soiled brat 
30	Support the diaper industry- don't toilet train boys! 
31	Toilet training is for girls! 
32	Toilet training- it's a girl's thing! 
33	Toilet Training? What? And miss out on all the fun of wearing diapers? 
34	Toilet, shmoilet! 
35	Toilet-free...that's me! 
36	Use the toilet? What do you think I am? A Girl? 
37	Wanna change my stinky diapers? 
38	Why would anyone want to take away this cute boy's diapers by toilet training him? 
39	You may be my big brother, but I still change your diapers! (for you to wear) 
 
If you have any ideas you'd like us to include on this list, just send them to us care of Deeker at dcrosby@rmci.net.
 
Underwear
 
Don’t throw it out just yet! That’s right! Just because he is going to be in diapers from now on doesn’t mean you have to get rid of his underwear (provided it is plain white with a fly front). His existing supply of underwear can still come in handy. The next explains reasons for holding on to his underwear.
 
Boys’ Underwear As Diapers
 
Cloth diapers usually aren’t readily available if you are just starting out with turning your brother, boy cousin, babysit-ee boy, etc. into your diaper boy. You may wish to get him started right on his diapers away, but you don’t have any diapers for him. Fortunately, all hope is not lost here. His existing supply of underwear can easily be adapted to serve as diapers until such time you get him some real diapers. Just have him wear several pairs together. You may enjoy using this method of “diapering” him anyway. Think of the multiplicity factor that comes into play here. There is something very satisfying about your diaper boy wearing several dozen pairs of underwear! Think about how he’d be wearing more underwear at one time than you wear in over a month’s time. It’s more underwear than you probably have in your entire underwear drawer.
 
Boys’ Underwear vs. Girls’ Underwear- A Brief Comparison
 
Let’s take a moment to compare boys’ underwear (in its original style) to girls’ panties. When you compare this style of boys’ briefs to girls’ panties, the boys’ briefs clearly have features that make them more adaptable to serve as diapers when worn in multiples, features that girls’ panties do not have. The original style for boys’ underwear is plain white briefs with a fly front and a wide waistband usually with stripes running around it, all of these features being exclusive to boys’ underwear. Until the mid 1970’s, boys’ underwear even had a second layer in the seat. This was a nice (and necessary) feature of boys’ underwear that should be brought back. As was discussed at the beginning of this article, boys are poor wipers, and this second layer helped to absorb the fecal matter that he left behind. It also hides the resulting stains from view, and lastly, the seams that ran up each side of his seat made this second panel stand out, and by extension, the reasons for its placement. These seats, when multiplied over the use of several pairs of underwear, could really make a boy’s butt stand out! In addition to the higher rise and the fact that they are white, boys’ underwear also has a wider crotch and is made from a thicker material.
 
By comparison, girls’ panties, both then and now, come in a variety of colors and patterns, are made from a thinner material, are narrower in the crotch, do not come up nearly as high and do not have a wide, striped waistband. These would perform poorly as diapers if worn in multiples, and girls don’t need to wear their underwear like this anyway. Girls rarely even let their underwear show as their pants come up high enough to cover it. For most boys who wear the style of underwear that was meant for boys in the first place, you could usually count on seeing it show.
 
They Don’t Make Them Like They Used To
 
Unfortunately things have changed and boys now have lots more choices when it comes to underwear. Perhaps these choices evolved because of the fact that boys became fashion conscious with their underwear and wanted choices beyond plain white. Perhaps some boys felt that the original styles of boys’ underwear resembled diapers because they were white and the general fit on the body was the same, add to this the extra layer in the seat. Boys’ underwear has evolved since the late 1970’s in such a way that it has produced other choices that are less diaper-like than the original white briefs, and this is unfortunate, because boys need to be reminded in one way or another that they belong in diapers of some sort, even if it involves the use of their existing underwear. It all started when Underoos were introduced. These were colored briefs which accompanied a T-shirt with a superhero’s emblem printed on it. Later on the T-shirts were eliminated and the superhero’s likeness was screen printed onto the briefs themselves. Hanes makes these kinds of briefs as Showtoons and Fruit of the Loom makes them as Fun Pals. Either these briefs are designed in patterns that are repeated throughout the fabric or they are a single print placed prominently on the seat of the garment. Other “enhancements” which deviate these types of briefs from their original diaper-like predecessors include solid-color waistbands and fly-front seams. They don’t seem to come up quite as high on boys as they used to, either.
 
Deviating even further away from the diaper-esque appearance of the original boys’ white briefs are the ones which do not even have a fly front and are cut very low. These usually come in exotic colors and designs, too, which, combined with the other missing features of the original style of boys’ underwear, makes them too much like girls’ panties. In no way are these types of boys’ underpants suitable to serve as diapers. The greatest blasphemy of all against the original design of boys’ underwear is the current trend with boxer shorts! These are not at all like the preceding types of underwear. They will not serve as diapers at all. One can only hope that the trend will pass and boys will once again return to wearing plain white underwear. Fortunately for now, plain white boys’ underwear is still widely available in stores, which is what you will likely be buying for your diaper boy if you choose to not use real diapers on him, either for now or at all. Just as only white diapers should be used, it follows that only white briefs should be used if this is how your diaper boy will be diapered.
 
How to “Diaper” Your Diaper Boy In His Underwear
 
The overall premise here is pretty basic, just use lots and lots and LOTS of underwear on him! How many pairs should be wear, you might ask? Just as there is no real set limit to the number of diapers he can wear at a time, there is no predefined or absolute limit to the number of pairs of underwear that he should wear, either. It takes a lot of underwear (and we mean A LOT!) to approximate the thickness that can be achieved by the use of several diapers. There are several things you will want to consider when going about diapering your boy in this manner.
 
1	This particular diapering method works best for younger boys and for boys with smaller waists. The smaller size of underwear his body can fit into, the wider range of sizes he can wear over them, and therefore, a greater thickness can be achieved. A six-year-old boy can have a lot more underwear put on him than a 12-year-old. If your diaper boy is big and he has nearly outgrown the largest size of boys’ underwear, or if he is big enough to wear men’s sizes, this method is not recommended. Get him some real diapers instead. 
 
2	Chances are your diaper boy’s existing underwear supply is not adequate to serve the purposes of using it for diapers. He probably has underwear in only one or two sizes and his supply will likely not be enough to last for very long, even if he is not changed frequently. You will probably need to go to the store and buy him some underwear in larger sizes. About a dozen pairs in each size should be enough for each “set of diapers” you wish to keep on hand for him. About twelve pairs per size should work. Your actual “mileage” may vary, though. Try to get at least six pairs per size on him. 
 
3	Only use boys’ sizes. Boys’ underwear is tailored differently than men’s underwear and is better-suited for this purpose, especially in that it usually rises up higher than men’s underwear. If you can’t scale up at least three sizes from the largest size your diaper boy wears at his body, then you should probably consider getting him real diapers. Boys’ underwear sizes come in even numbers, generally ranging from size 4 to 18. While not an absolute rule of thumb, the underwear size generally corresponds with the boy’s age if he is of average size. 
 
4	If your boy already has fly-front underwear that is mostly white, but has patterns or prints on it, you may use it as long as you cover these pairs up with larger plain white pairs. Don’t be concerned about your diaper boy getting poop stains on Batman (Buttman?). He isn’t using them for fashion anymore! If your diaper boy has a large supply of solid colored underwear that you think will be useful, go ahead and use it, although keep in mind that darker colors will not show the stains of his poop as easily, and you want him to plainly see what becomes of his underwear by having him use it like diapers. 
 
5	While using multiple underpants will not likely create as thick of a diaper as using real diapers, the material covering his body will be more dense. Diapers are made of a fluffier but less dense material. The material from several pairs of underwear worn together will be solidly packed together, so there is still a great deal of absorbency in them. 
 
6	When your diaper boy has this much underwear on his body working as a diaper, it becomes very tight. There won’t be as much room in his “diapers” for his poop to flow. It is especially important that it comes up high on his body to compensate for the loss of capacity in other areas. 
 
7	You will still probably want to have your diaper boy wear some plastic pants over his “diapers” if they are in the form of several pairs of underpants. Even though the extra layers of material that the fly fronts provide for each pair worn add to the absorbency of the front, it can still seep through from the solid core to the outside. If you do without plastic pants, this does give you an excuse to maximize the amount that he wears. 
 
8	Even in the worst case of diarrhea, your diaper boy’s bowel movements won’t likely soak through to his outermost pair if he is wearing 30 pairs or more, so you may not feel that more underwear than this is necessary. Just like with multiple diapers, it isn’t just the function, but the appearance that you are striving to achieve. 
 
9	To further optimize the effectiveness of using multiple underpants for diapers, have your diaper boy wear each pair he puts on so that the crotches crisscross each other. Collectively, they will make the overall crotch of his “diapers” wider. 
 
10	Changing his “diapers” using multiple underpants is much different than when using real diapers. Your diaper boy will have to stand up when you take his “diapers” off and wipe him up and then re-diaper him. Be sure that he is standing on a surface that can easily be cleaned up do to gravity’s effects on his poop. Even a pile of newspapers spread out over an area of about a square yard should be adequate. Or perhaps use a large garbage bag. If nothing else you can change him in the bathtub. We also recommend that you not wear your best clothes while changing him in this manner, or use another plastic garbage bag to act as an apron to shield yourself from flying pooplings that hit the floor. 
 
11	Because your diaper boy is standing up when his underwear-based diapers are removed and put on, you will need him to cooperate by lifting his feet up each time he needs to either step out of or step into his underpants. If he shows resistance to this at first, it will likely go away soon. 
 
12	If your diaper boy is wearing a shirt, we recommend that it be tucked all the way down into his underpants in order to maximize the exposure of his underpants. To keep his shirt from getting wet with pee, have him tuck it in at least at the halfway point between his body and the outermost pair. Another option is to have him drape his shirt down over his underpants at about the halfway point of his “diapering.” You can then put the first of the subsequent pairs over his shirttail. His shirt is likely to get wet anyway and will need to change shirts more often, but only the shirttail will likely be affected. 
 
Ways to Enhance Your Diaper Boy’s Underwear-Based Diapers
 
Here are a few suggestions which will make your experience with diapering your diaper boy in multiple underpants more fun and enjoyable:
 
(1)	Use diaper pins for reinforcement- You can use diaper pins to reinforce your diaper boy’s multiple underpants in the same ways that they can be used with real diapers. Just stick the pins through the first 6-10 pairs (or more) and fasten them to his shirt.
(2)	Alternate every other pair- You can achieve some great visual and functional enhancements to your diaper boy’s multiple underpants by having him wear every other pair backwards. The backwards pairs will add more material to the back of his diapers because of the fly front being stretched across his backside. This compensates somewhat for the double-seat which is no longer a feature of today’s boy’s white underpants.. The bulk of the additional fabric in the fly will be more even distributed this way. The seat will be in the front and it will go up very high, enough to completely engulf his chest. The tradeoff here is that the fly front on his butt won’t go beyond the height of his buttocks, if that. If you use this on your diaper boy, have him wear the first dozen pairs all facing the right way, alternate the ones in the middle, and then have him wear the top dozen pairs of so all facing the right way.
(3)	Add your own double seat- If you have the time and the ability to sew, you can still reproduce the look and the functionality of the double-seated boys’ briefs which are now part of a bygone era. If you buy new underwear for your diaper boy, you can cut squares out of his old underwear and then sew them in the appropriate spot on his new undies. He may have a supply of underwear which he has outgrown stored away somewhere,, so use these. You may also be able to pick up used boys’ underwear from thrift stores for this purpose. The important thing is that the fabric used for this purpose also be white. Also, why stop at adding just one extra layer to the back of his underpants?
(4)	Make several waistbands show- While the huge, bulky conglomeration of white briefs tightly and abundantly wrapped around your diaper boy’s butt will be a very obvious indication that he is wearing a lot of underwear, you can draw even more attention to this fact by making several waistbands show. As you approach the maximum amount of underwear that he can wear, the topmost pairs will not be able to go up as high as the pairs just beneath them because of the increasing thickness. Try to accentuate this effect as you reach this final stage of “diapering” him.
 
Ways to Enhance Your Diaper Boy’s Diaper Experience
 
Whether you choose to use real diapers on your diaper boy or have him wear enough underwear to make the shareholders of Fruit of the Loom, Hanes and BVD to forever worship you for making them all rich, there are lots of ways you can add to the overall experience that your diaper boy will have by wearing diapers all the time. Here are just a few ideas:
 
1	Put a “GIRLS” sign on the bathroom door. You can pick one up at any home improvement or building supply store. Or, get creative and make your own. Use your computer and a printer if you have one. 
 
2	Have your diaper boy use diuretics to increase the amount and the frequency of his wetting. For added pooping, have him use laxatives, suppositories or have him eat foods which are sure to increase the output from his butt. 
 
3	Come up with cute names to call your diaper boy. “Diaper Boy” works well, but there are lots of other possibilities, too: Any combination of words that pertain to pee, poop, smells, diaper-area anatomy (usually the butt), diapers (of course) and boys (of course) can yield a multitude of possibilities. 
 
4	Be sure to let all your friends see your diaper boy in action. He will likely get used to them seeing him in diapers as well as having you see him. Let them change his diapers if they want to. 
 
5	Flaunt the fact that you don’t wear diapers. Emphasize the fact that only BOYS wear diapers! Do if often! Yes, this underlying message has been repeated throughout this article, but it can’t be said enough. 
 
6	If you are not too modest, compare your underwear to his “underwear”, which for him is his diapers. Besides all the physical differences that have already been covered, point out the mathematical differences, as well. While precise measurements need not be made, suffice it to say that his “underwear” contains dozens, perhaps well over a hundred times as much material in his diapers as what you have in your panties. Also direct his attention the difference in the number of square inches his diapers cover him versus your panties. Measure the difference between the distance around his waist with his diapers and compare it to the distance without his diapers; the difference will astound both you and him. For you, of course, the difference is negligible. Get a belt-to-belt measure of his diapers and compare this to the belt-to-belt measure of your panties. Make note of the distance from the center of his crotch to his front, and then measure the distance from the center of his crotch to the top of the back of his diapers. There are all kinds of measurements you could take. 
 
7	Let him go outside in his diapers. Just because he can’t wear pants anymore doesn’t mean that he has to stay inside the house where nobody else can see him. If he really wants to ride his bike again, allow him this choice, but with the stipulation that he has to wear only his diapers. Take him with you to the park, the beach, your friends’ houses, wherever you feel comfortable having him in diapers around you. Do be aware that you will get lots of stares from anyone who sees you. Crowded places like malls and stores may not be the best places to take him. 
 
8	Encourage him to read diaper stories. There are lots of diaper stories on the Internet. The best site for stories which are suited to boys is Deeker’s Diaper Page at www.deeker.com . Contact Deeker at dcrosby@rmci.net and he will recommend which stories are the best ones, the ones that most faithfully adhere to the principles covered in this article. As Deeker is a staunch believer in these principals, his own stories are full of examples that will further your diaper boy’s thinking in that he belongs in diapers and that it is up to girls to enforce this. You can also read diaper stories to him if you prefer. 
 
9	Diaper stories which are suitable for your diaper boy can also be obtained through DPF (www.dpf.com) Yu have to be at least 18 to order them, however. Deeker has several of these stories. Email him and he may scan some of them for you. 
 
10	The Internet is full of resources for your diaper boy. There are lots of other sites, though not all of them will contain material that is consistent with the principles covered in this article. Encourage him to chat with other diaper boys and/or girls who are like you and look after diaper boys of their own. You can get in on the fun, too, and chat with other diaper boys. Let them know how you feel about diapers and boys in case they don’t have sisters or aren’t around girls much. 
 
11	Also encourage him to draw pictures of himself and other boys in diapers, along with girls who are clearly not wearing diapers. As he reads stories, he will develop images in his mind from what he reads, so encourage him to channel these images into something he and you can concretely see. If you have a scanner, scan them and send them to Deeker at his email address. He will get them into distribution if you want him to do this. 
 
12	Encourage him to look at pictures of boys in diapers. There are thousands of pictures on the Internet which show boys in diapers, ranging from babies up t o teens. Web sites which feature such pictures, however, are few and far between and unfortunately are frequently shut down. Because of this, it may be difficult to collect all that is out there or what has been in distribution. Again, Deeker can come to your aid here. Just contact him at his email address (listed above) and he will gladly send you a CD of his diaper boy pictures collection. He claims to have nearly every picture of boys in diapers that has been circulated on the Internet. As a bonus, he will send you a CD containing thousands of “fake” diaper boy pictures. The boys in these pictures weren’t originally wearing diapers, but thanks to Deeker’s tireless ambition and his unrelenting determination to promote his feelings about diapers and boys, he has created a huge collection of pictures of boys who have had diapers drawn onto them. Keep in mind when viewing this CD that the intent isn’t to convince you that the boys are really wearing diapers, but to suggest that they should. Oh, and the diapers that these boys are wearing are nothing to sneeze at, they’re HUGE!!! Use them as a guide for the way you diaper your own diaper boy. 
 
13	Take pictures of your diaper boy. Take lots of pictures. With the availability of digital cameras and web cameras, you don’t need to take pictures that someone else may see. And, since they will be in digital form, they are Internet-ready. Submit them to several websites where such pictures are shown. If you have a video camera, take videos of your brother as he goes around the house in his diapers. If you have the ability to capture video to your computer, make MPEGs or at least stills and distribute these as well. Whether video or still, be sure to get pictures of him from all angles, including crotch shots. Butt shots work the best and are the most desired since this is the part of his body where his diapers stand out the most prominently and that this view brings to mind the fact that he poops in his diapers. Also, be sure to include yourself in these shots. Seeing how you are fully dressed and he is in just his diapers will be a constant reminder to both of you what your role is as a boy or as a girl. If you are doing video, narrate every detail you can think of as you are taping. If you are in the video, boast about how being a girl means not wearing diapers, and flaunt that thinly-sheathed behind of yours! Both you and your diaper boy will enjoy looking at these pictures and videos later on. 
 
14	Keep a detailed log or diary of your diaper boy’s activities. Record the times he is changed and the condition of his diapers each time. Note how many diapers you put on him, how many pins you used and any other details you would like to include. Refer to the survey on Deeker’s Diaper Page at http://www.deeker.teenbaby.net/deekersurvey/surveyform.html for ideas on other details you can take note of. A spreadsheet such as Microsoft Excel works well for this purpose. Note how your diaper boy reacts to you changing his diapers. A year later you can look back upon this and see how much his cooperation will have improved. Note any special situations he faces, such as being taken to friends’ houses in his diapers, letting friends change him, etc. From all this information that you collect you can write a very detailed story about his experiences. Encourage your diaper boy to write his own story about his experiences. Then send your stories to www.deeker.com at his email address dcrosby@rmci.net He will be very pleased to post these stories on his site as its philosophies and principals regarding boys and their diapers versus girls not needing diapers and dominating boys, are a perfect match to the ways of thinking that you have adopted. 
 
15	If your diaper boy has other diaper boys to play with (such as brothers or friends), encourage him to get together with them. Have them engage in diaper contests, such as which one of them can stay in his diapers the longest, which one you can get the thickest diapers on, etc. Any game that requires close and intimate contact with one another are fun for diaper boys to play. Twister is a good one to suggest. 
 
16	Be sure to show plenty of affection towards your diaper boy. Specifically, we recommend that you pat his diapered butt often. His butt makes an easy target for your hand, and since you approach him from behind, he has no easy way to prevent you from doing this. Even spank him if you want! He won’t feel it, trust us! You will have to give up doing some things, however, such as giving your diaper boy wedgies or to sneak up behind him and yanking his underpants/diapers down on him. Obviously these activities will be completely impossible to do when he is in diapers. These sacrifices, however, will be made up for many times over by doing the things listed above. 
 
17	Overall, keep your diaper boy completely occupied at all times with activities that pertain to his diapers and the principles covered here, so that it becomes the only thing he ever thinks about. 
 
Diaper Boys, Sexual Feelings and Masturbation
 
Your diaper boy’s feelings about his diapers are very largely sexual in nature. Because of this, you should encourage your diaper boy to masturbate in his diapers, whether or not he is sexually mature enough for this activity. Even if he is not old enough to ejaculate yet, he will still have very strong sexual feelings from his diapers. Refer to the section “What Boys Like About Diapers” for more on the many, many ways your diaper boy’s diapers will arouse him sexually. Once he is old enough to recognize how his body reacts sexually to his diapers, encourage him to indulge in these feelings and as often as possible by activities listed above. Once his sexual development kicks in, he will already be intimately familiar with how wonderful his diapers make him feel and he can always count on his diapers to get him off.
 
If your diaper boy turns out to be gay, then he will already be set in his ways with his sexual development and diaper boys will be naturally attractive to him, eventually without diapers on. However, many diaper boys still develop feelings towards girls as this is natural for most boys. With him seeing you in those ass-hugging tight jeans or those oh-so-scant shorts or butt-revealing swimwear, his sexual feelings towards girls will compound the sexual feelings that he already gets from his diapers and the fellow diapered boys who accompany him. As his sexual tension builds, his urge to release these feelings will intensify. He may desire sexual intercourse with girls, but he knows that his diapers on him all the time will never allow him to experience this sensation. He will succumb to confusion over his sexual feelings. He will often ponder why looking at a girl’s scantily clad (or naked) behind with no traces of excrement whatsoever gives him the same feelings as a boy’s super-thickly white-diapered butt coated in smelly shit. Inevitably, he will resign himself to the more familiar and comfortable feelings that he has been getting from his diapers and other boys in diapers all along and thus, he will most often choose diapers as his outlet for his sexual feelings. Of course if he’s gay or destined to be gay this won’t affect him much sexually, but it will still remind him of how you girls can and do like to dress. If he is sexually aroused by your skimpy attire, he will resign himself to never getting to experience.
 
If your diaper boy appears to focus too much on girls as his outlet for sexual feelings, remind him that these feelings should be spent on diapers instead. Put him into more diapers. Stick some more pins in and surround him with pictures of himself and other boys in diapers if you think he is thinking about girls instead. Let him know that girls are completely off limits to him. Diapers are to be his only sexual outlet. Let him know that you are fully aware of his sexual feelings as a boy and that masturbating in diapers is the only way that he will be allowed to release these urges. However, don’t dress more modestly if you do this. Keep the temptation for him to stray from his diaper feelings out in the open to keep the sexual tension high.
 
If your diaper boy requests privacy for when he masturbates, let him have it since you want him to get as much sexual gratification from his diapers as possible. However, try to encourage him to allow you to watch or at least he present. He has so little to hide about himself as it is, and your skimpy attire will keep the sexual tension high until he lets it go. If your diaper boy has brothers, friends or boy cousins who wear diapers, encourage them to masturbate together and rub against each other’s bodies. Diaper stories are full of examples on the many different ways diaper boys can get off on one another.
 
Your Role As A Girl
 
Since you, the girl, are not the one wearing diapers, you can optimize your ways of emphasizing and exploiting these differences between yourself and your diaper boy. You might think that being fully in charge of changing your diaper boy’s diapers and ensuring that he stays in them and uses them at all times is enough. You might also think that being able to remain dressed throughout the day and wearing a much, much thinner amount of material around your waist, not to mention being able to use the toilet any time you need to use it, would clearly make the distinction that illustrates your idea of what makes boys and girls different. You might relish the fact that you still enjoy many freedoms and choices that your diaper boy does not have because he wears diapers. That is all true indeed. However, there are ways you can make these differences between you and your diaper boy even more pronounced. It is your duty to constantly remind your diaper boy of what he is and what you are, so you have a role of your own to fulfill in this all-important and ongoing objective.
 
Pants and Shorts
 
Since you don’t wear diapers, you have the choice to wear pants and shorts. Your diaper boy is well aware of this. Make it a point to remind him of this. This doesn’t necessarily mean to go around all the time and say “Ha ha! I got pants on and you don’t!” though this works well at the beginning. Wear pants or shorts that accent your absence of diapers. Tight-fitting jeans and shorts will make the contours of your buttocks stand out. Just as your diaper boy’s butt is the most prominent part of his body, he is going to look at yours, too. Let him see that your pants conform to the shape of your derriere and that there is clearly nothing that bulges out from this point. Make him well aware of the fact that you can be trusted to wear so little over your butt and remain clean.
 
Boys who are approaching sexual maturity or are past this stage are naturally attracted to girls and they find their rear ends to be attractive and will therefore stare at them. Since they are behind you where you can’t see where they are looking, boys will take advantage of this convenience that serves their hormones well. Girls know this and they use it to their advantage as well. They know that their rear ends are not looked at as the part of their bodies from which feces emerge, but rather, as something that will make boys horny. So girls will wear pants and shorts that accentuate this feature of their bodies.
 
What does this have to do with diapers and boys? It further differentiates the thoughts that he gets from looking at your butt from the thoughts that you get from looking at his butt. Also, by making yourself look more sexually attractive, this teases the boys and it may tempt them to deviate from their thoughts about diapers and instead think about sex. Once a boy comes to the realization that he can never get his diapers off in order to fulfill these thoughts, he will revert to thinking about the diapers to which his sexual feelings are far more attuned and he will channel his feelings that originated with thoughts about you back into his diapers.
 
When to Wear Pants or Shorts
 
Your choice of wearing pants or shorts will likely depend on the weather. Both serve to remind your diaper boy of the fact that he cannot wear them. Each has its advantages. Pants (that is, long pants) make a greater contrast against your diaper boy in that your legs are covered and his legs are not. Most pants, especially jeans, are either blue or black, which of course contrasts starkly against the screaming white of his diapers. Shorts, of course, expose your legs just like his are exposed. The fact that you are wearing less may increase his sexual temptation, which will ultimately be channeled back into his diapers. When wearing shorts his eyes will more likely be drawn to the parts of your body that are not covered in diapers, but on his body are.
 
Your Fashion Conscience
 
Girls are fashion conscious by nature. Use this to your advantage. Let your diaper boy know about all the latest fashions that you are wearing, especially where your pants are concerned. Let him know that you have a choice of what to wear when you get dressed in the morning. To him, the concept of “getting dressed” should become foreign to him, since he is pretty much fully dressed by being in his diapers and nothing but his diapers, morning to night.
 
Swimsuits and Bikinis
 
If you really want to make your diaper boy think a lot about himself as a boy and his inability to remain clean, wear a swimsuit or a bikini around him. Swimsuits especially accentuate the butt. Your diaper boy will look at you here and think about how you can keep this area so clean and be able to nearly show it off bare. He knows that he would never be able to do this himself if he wanted to. Swimsuits are also a good way to increase the tension in sexually mature boys only for them to fall back on their tried-and-true feelings about diapers.
 
Your Sleepwear
 
Just as you get dressed in the morning, at night you get ready for bed. To your diaper boy, this activity is no longer applicable to his life. Your diaper boy’s “sleepwear” is the same as his daywear, diapers! In theory, he’s “ready for bed” at any time of the day. You, however, have a choice here as well. You can wear pajamas or a nightshirt. If you wear a nightshirt you should probably use discretion towards letting him see your panties. If you are comfortable with it, let him catch a glimpse or two just so he can see that your underwear is much more modest and not nearly as massive as his is. You could also simply remain fully dressed until it is time for you to get ready for bed, especially if you sleep in your panties or sleep nude. (You’d NEVER let a boy sleep naked, now would you?!)
 
Pictures
 
Just as you can use pictures of diapered boys from the Internet to remind your diaper boy of his existence as a boy, there is also an abundance of pictures of girls on the Internet, modeling everything from swimwear to jeans. These pictures are perfectly legal and are not in any way pornographic. Many of these pictures can be found on modeling sites. Encourage your diaper boy to look at these pictures, too, as they will also serve as a strong reminder to him how little clothing girls can wear, something that they could never do if they had to wear diapers.
 
Modesty and Privacy
 
Modesty is a one-way street when it comes to how open you are about letting your diaper boy see you in compromising states of dress, versus how you see him in his diapers. Your diaper boy’s sense of modesty should be completely eradicated once he has become accustomed to you seeing him in his diapers. As suggested earlier, he doesn’t even need the door to his bedroom. It’s not like he should be afraid of you barging in on him while he’s in his underwear. When you think about it, he’s ALWAYS IN HIS UNDERWEAR! You see him naked when you change his diapers, so there is no such thing as modesty as far as he is concerned. Your diaper boy may have some other privacy concerns, however, which will be addressed further down.
 
As for you, the girl, modesty should be irreciprocal, that is, he should still respect your privacy, but you need not respect his, at least as far as seeing him in his diapers is concerned. Even though you see him in his “underwear” all the time, you shouldn’t let him see you in yours. Don’t let him see you naked, either. To do this only moves you closer to being on an equal plane with him. By only letting him see you in decent clothing, this further differentiates you from your diaper boy and the fact that he has to wear nothing but diapers all the time.
 
Odds and Ends
 
His Privacy
 
It has been mentioned that your diaper boy has no need for modesty anymore and that he probably doesn’t even need the door to his bedroom. If he is sexually mature, he is likely going to engage in masturbation frequently. He will likely want privacy for this. Even though you are fully aware that he does this and what he thinks about when he does it, he will likely want to have his bedroom available to him as a safe haven where he can explore these thoughts about his diapers and act upon them in private. Perhaps you will want to leave the door up for this. The more he is allowed to explore his feelings for diapers, the more pronounced his existence as a diaper boy will become.
 
His Friends
 
Your diaper boy will likely lose his existing friends once they learn that he is going to be wearing diapers all the time. This is a great sacrifice and a big price for him to pay. He may be lucky and find out that his friends will want to wear diapers with him. Your diaper boy will be better off by getting new friends who wear diapers, too. If he has friends come over, make them abide by the same rules as your diaper boy. Make them take their pants off first thing and lock them up. Do not give them back until he is ready to leave. Then diaper him up the same way you diaper your diaper boy.
 
School
 
Home-schooling is an option that most families do not have, but if you are fortunate enough to educate your boys at home, do it. Kids at a public school would tease him mercilessly and his social development would suffer. By home-schooling him, he won’t be exposed to other kids, and most of all, he won’t have to ever get dressed to go to school. His diapers will be the required dress code.
 
Locking The Bathroom
 
You might think that it is a good idea to lock the bathroom so that your diaper boy cannot go in there to use the toilet. If you diaper him thickly enough and use lots of pins in his diapers, then his diapers serve as their own security and he will have no access to the toilet anyway. Remember that he still has to enter the bathroom to brush his teeth and take his baths/showers. It may be necessary for you to stand outside the bathroom door while it is open and make sure he doesn’t try using the toilet during the first few weeks of his being diapered, but once he gets used to the diapers and becomes fully incontinent he will not have any desire for using the toilet.
 
Closing Thoughts
 
It is my hope that you have gained a considerable amount of understanding towards boys and the need for them to be in diapers all the time. I hope you have learned how you can use diapers on boys to your utmost advantage so that you can assert your superiority as a girl and at the same time take pleasure in observing boys using their diapers. It can and should be a most satisfying and rewarding experience for you. I hope this guide has given you the guidance to make the most of keeping boys in diapers and defining their mere existence to be entirely based on their need for diapers. Best of luck to you. May all your boys be DIAPERED!
 
Updated 1/20/2001