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By François Brassard, Ladysmith, BC Several months ago I was approached by a couple who attend the local Ladysmith parish where the pastor is very sick and visiting priests come to replace him from time to time. They asked me if "I said Mass at the Abbey (our Guest House)." I said yes, >from time to time, in the context of a gathering of a small faith community. They asked me if I would "say Mass" for them here at the Abbey. I said no, but that I would do so in their own home, if they wanted to gather some of their friends together. They enthusiastically agreed. I went the next Saturday afternoon. There were about 14 people, kids included. We gathered around two tables set up on a large back deck overlooking the ocean which was about 100 feet away: oh! the beauty of Godde's cathedral. They asked me how I should be addressed and I said my name was François, but they could call me Fran. So they call me Fr. Fran. Whatever. To create a sacred moment before we began, I took my stole, kissed it reverently, and put it 'round my neck and over my civvies draped body (I was equal to them, but I had a presider's servant role to fulfill). We shared the Sunday readings. I began the homily by pointing out the theme running through the texts, set the texts in their historical context where necessary to understand certain passages, told a contemporary story to illustrate the theme of the texts, and then asked a question that called for an answer from their own lives that was related to the theme. And I threw it open to them. The exchange that occured then was incredible; it blew my mind. And it happens like this every time we gather. The eucharistic liturgy is short and simple (Chris Diamond is very good at producing simple, yet moving texts) with everybody participating. After, we had a pot luck barbecue where conversation continued naturally along the lines of the shared homily. And this has happened every time we have met, which is once a month. Now they want to be a small faith community where the adults will gather to discuss spiritual topics on days other than when we gather to celebrate the Eucharist. I can't tell you enough how rewarding this is for me!, how much it validates my servant leadership priesthood, how simply it brings about real grassroots renewal. Now, I'm not the only Married Priest building Small Faith Communities. There are many others who have been doing this for years. I read their amazing stories on the CITI-L internet discussion list ([email protected]), and it inspires me to do more. Whether you are a Married Priest or not, you can do the same. And you don't need permission from the hierarchy in order to build Small Faith Communities: the right of association is incorporated in Canon Law. Just Do It!
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