**DFW TX Local applicants - you will be contacted by telephone to arrange a compatible time and public location for your interview to be conducted.
**Non DFW TX applicants � you will be contacted for an initial telephone interview. When you attend your 1st Mild event you will have your personal interview with a Board Member. Pending the outcome of the personal interview you may then be invited to the WILD portion of the event.
All applicants: No messages will be left on your voice mail in order to protect your privacy.
Your interview is a casual meeting to discuss our organization�s offerings and advantages, likewise, to answer any questions you may have. This process is how we differentiate DFW Sexual Freedom from other organizations similar to ours. Our current membership appreciates this screening process prior to attending our organization�s events as it helps our members and you to feel comfortable and secure about whom you will be sharing your time with. Couples must be married to each other or define their level of commitment in advance of attending DFW Sexual Freedom events.
*Single applicants will not be allowed membership until they have personally been interviewed by a board member and have signed a �Singe Members Code of Conduct�! No single will be allowed to attend the WILD portion of the event unless they are guest of a member or have been previously �validated� on a personals website i.e. club fore play, SLS, etc. Members are responsible for the action of ANY GUESTS that they sponsor.
Couples new to the alternative lifestyle may be at a loss as to bow to fit in, and may be nervous as well. This is common and quite natural. Social and sexual inhibitions will most likely interfere with your swinging pleasure. Leave them at home or parked in the car (so to speak) as you enter the event. It is the responsibility of the club members to acquaint you with the structure of the social event, introduce you to others and help you to become involved in conversations. Beyond this, the responsibility for fitting into and enjoying the event is yours, You will get back what you put into DFW Sexual Freedom�s activities.
MILD
Our functions begin with the MILD portion of the event which is similar to a MEET & GREET. Each MILD event is different and therefore will have different locations. This portion of event is very casual and leisurely time and a great opportunity to make new acquaintances and kindle friendships. The Board members and many general members will be there. During the MILD activities we have an "Issues & Answers" session. This is first, an orientation to our club, and secondly an open group discussion of related topics concerning the lifestyle. It is an energetic and humorous discussion and a great opportunity to hear and share stories with other members. Don't be reluctant to ask questions of other guests. Our members are interested in new people and are eager to answer questions about this lifestyle. The MILD activities break in time to allow everyone to get dressed and ready for the WILD portion of the evening starting around 10:00pm. (When you become an OFFICIAL MEMBER you are not required to attend both the MILD & WILD activities each time however our members have found that it makes it a much more enjoyable evening when they do.)
WILD
The majority of the WILD portion of the events will be held at local party houses and occasionally at a member�s home. You will experience a nightclub environment with music, dancing, activities and the very best of companionship. This is a B.Y.O.B. Event. Each party house asks for a donation that will admit you to the social where all set-ups and snacks are provided at no addition charge. As a member of DFW Sexual Freedom you will receive a discount off the normal donation of that club for that event. Events held at members� homes will have standard donation to cover the cost of set-ups and snacks. Many socials will have a particular theme such as Masquerade, Luau, Fetish/Lingerie or Toga Party, etc. Although it is not required, you will have more fun if you participate in the festivities. Specific details for each Mild & Wild Event such as location, time and donations will be sent out via email.
After you attend twice as our guests, you may join the membership of our club. Upon joining our club, you will be required to pay a small membership fee annually. This fee includes a One year membership to NASCA (the National Association of Swingers). We encourage those attending our events to make plans to spend the night and avoid the danger of drinking and driving. All of the WILD portions of the event are held at locations that you may spend the night and breakfast is normally served in the morning. You will also have more opportunity to enhance your new found friendships with other members. Those �Morning After� breakfast�s lead to some interesting conversations!
