Hello everyone...welcome to my wild and twisted world!!! Sit back, relax, have a drink...suck on something (whatever works for you) and enjoy! When I`m not being a Devil Woman, I`m known as Liana and I live in the Caribbean...yes, I`m a lucky gal...I`ve got the beautiful beaches, lots of sunshine and it`s all mine!!! :)
For those of you who are visiting for the first time...I am 29 and I live with my dad and brother. My parents were separated five years ago and she now lives with someone else. My dad also has a new love in his life. I also have 6 dogs and they are all spolit rotten!
Here's a little secret...I have not tinkered with this site in ages!!!! I decided it was time to get my act together and spruce up my little space on the web and fill it with Xmas cheer! This year, Xmas is going to be very special for me....I will be getting engaged on Boxing Day to a very special guy (Ray). The one cloud on my horizon is my mom...she doesn't care much for my guy and she has been giving me grief about it! She will not even take the time to get to know him. I have to pluck up the courage to tell her about the upcoming engagement...wish me luck, guys!!! She is a Scorpio and has a hot temper!!!
It is so unfair really....I am 29, yet she doesn't trust me to make my own decisions. My parents each made their own choices and now has a significant other in their lives...they didn't ask me what I thought about it and I don't resent either of them. So why now...when I am ready to make my own choice about who I want in my life, does she have to make a big scene about it?!!! Don't I deserve to be happy with the one I love? She thinks it's a mistake to get involved with this guy...but even if I am making a mistake, it is MY mistake to make! She has to learn to let go! I am afraid of introducing her to him...I believe she will say something to upset him and the whole scene would eventually become ugly! But it has to be done...he wants to meet her so he can tell her in person how he feels about me, what his intentions are, etc! My dad likes him...it was my dad that introduced us in the first place! A fact which my mom never lets my dad forget!
UPDATE
Well guys...GREAT NEWS!!!! Ray and I got engaged on the 26th of December and we had a little engagement party on the 30th...it was a nice cosy atmosphere with lots to eat and drink. It was nice to see that everyone we invited showed up...we received a lot of support and encouragement from well wishers. In case you`re wondering...no, my mom was not there. I did invite her but I guess she would have been uncomfortable so she chose to stay at home. I am very sad that she does not support my decision...even now she says I`m a big disappointment to her. But you know now?!! I don`t care what anyone thinks or says anymore...this is my life and I choose to live it the way I want to...anyone who has a problem with that can kiss my royal behind!!!! |
