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| *Please only IM or email me if you are on a similar path as myself. ....a very gentle loving Christian/Spiritual with love toward all and the acceptance of all. Example: If you hold/write/think/place more value on physical appearance over the content of a person, then our values do not match. Appearance is important to a degree, but I find that many have forgotten what content and values really are ... and any relationship is sure to fall without them at the top of the list. And if you consider yourself spiritual but afraid to admit it, your not there yet. |
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| * Hi there!....I'm interested in meeting a warm hearted sincere moral man close to my age. I am attracted to a well rounded man who gives thought to his life in all respects .. and tries to do what is right no matter what the world is doing around him. .. (I haven't seen this with any true consistency without some form of spiritual guidness.) Gentle, Kind and Thoughtful with an even temperment. With a good soul and able to love openly when the time is right. Spirit for life and love are essential!! An enlightened soul enjoying en-depth conversations from A-Z. With the ability to communicate in a rational manner......... Communication is essential in all relationships and even more so with a sweetie!! I prefer a Clean cut Single/Divorced/Widowed male.. I hold the content of a person first, valuing appearance to a much lesser degree. I value proportionate things not appropriate to mention here as well, as matching sexually is part of a good relationship. I'm not into dating multiple people. I'm not going through any phase where I need to go out and party. I seek a partner, not to lead nor to be lead...I believe in chem. between two persons. I am a passionate person which does not diminish with time, rather it enhances with the right person with the right morals and spirit. With all this...the rest I assume will follow. I have one grown son away from home, have been divorced for a few years and .. (am only interested in a genuine warm hearted stable non domineering, non workaholic person who knows how to communicate (especially when it is most needed).... I am also a moderate person in all that I do (Including the amount of time I spend at work), not kinky and not overly conservative .. I am not pretentious, I enjoy material possessions, but know they are life's comforts and have nothing to do with the content of who we are.. I have always been spiritual and lead my life accordingly, but as I am human .. life has been a ever growing learning experience. But, have yet to seek and find a forum/'s to become more enlightened....one of the many things I have to look forward to experiencing.......... I'm normal seeking normal...smile .. I was raised in a small town in CA., my parents from Iowa, resulting in an open minded person with manners. I grew up in the Calif High desert...so the desert and phx area are rather like home to me .. I have freinds and family in the Phx area and surrounding states and country. I enjoy outdoor activities, creative pursuits etc etc etc.... As you might be able to tell I am guided more than most. I have learned what makes a healthy, happy, vibrant relationship and I am willing to wait until I find the one with these capabilities as well...Im not looking for someone that wants these things, rather someone who has obtained these qualities. Many want to be capable of true love and giving.....but have hardened themselves stemming from defensive reasons making themselves incapable. I feel for these people and the people that cross their path. If you would like to contact me, please give me the same insight into you, that I provide for you, including a photo pretty please. Smiles to you, Cynthia [email protected] |
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| *Balance Life .......... I hold these traits and look for them as well in a potential partner, I believe them to be essential for a good relationship. I'd like to add, I'm not looking for someone that wants these things, rather someone who possesses similar qualities. |
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| Body: Fit to chubby, but working on it Height: Not very important Race: Caucasian (white) Education: At least Some College Religion: Christian/Spiritual/Seeking Smoking: Doesnt Smoke Drinking: Drinks on Occasion Children: Grown or almost grown Relationship Status: Divorced, Widowed or have had Long term relationship. Relationship Type: 1. Naturally monogamous. 2. Ability to talk/communicate about anything with honesty, knowing that we are all human with all the same basic needs and feelings. The ability to talk through rough or painful topics or to gently and honestly be able to talk about things, instead of avoiding them because your afraid of hurting feeling etc. 3. Ability to openly Love. 4. Ability to share passion openly, and be adequately built w/endurance. 5. Love of travel and checking out new places, but also loves time at home. 6. Respect and Kind spirited toward all Human and non human species. 7. Has learned how to balance work and Personal life. |
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