Hi, I'm Anke (9/17/1968) with DH Berkan (3/16/1968) married on 8/18/1997. Expecting #1 on 12/12/2001 after having had one m/c in November 2000. My DH is Turkish, I am German, but we live in Holland - would appreciate any insights on multilingual upbringing of kids... We both work full-time at the same bank, but I am seriously considering to become a SAHM - still debating though. The picture shows DH and me with a Chinese ice sculpture - verrry cold! Happy to be on this board with you all.