Deborah S. Podwika's - People Come Into Our Lives...Deborah S. Podwika, M.A.
Kankakee Community College
Humanities and Social Science Division
Psychology Department - P.O. Box 888, River Road
Kankakee, IL 60901-0888
Office: L342
Office: 815.933.0283
Fax: 815.933.0217
Email: [email protected]
Web: http://www.geocities.com/debbiepodwika/
Created: September 27, 1996
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Revised: July 18, 2002
People Come Into Our Lives...
People come into your life for a
REASON a SEASON or a LIFETIME.
When you figure out which it is,
you know exactly what to do.
When someone is your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you
have expressed outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you
through a difficulty, to provide you
with guidance and support,
to aid you physically,
emotionally, or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend,
and THEY ARE!!
They are there for the reason,
you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part
or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something
to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up or out
and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is
that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled;
their work is done.
The prayer you sent up
has been answered and
it is now time to move on.
When people come into
your life for a SEASON,
it is because your turn has come
to share, grow, or learn.
They may bring you an experience
of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something
you have never done.
They usually give you
an unbelievable amount of joy.
BELIEVE IT!
IT IS REAL!
But, only for a SEASON!
LIFETIME relationships teach you
lifetime lessons; those things
you must build upon in order
to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person/people (any way);
and put what you have learned
to use in all other relationships
and areas of your life.
- Author Unknown
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