The Dying Person
Communicating With
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Hold their hand/touch them
It's ok to be scarred
Talk about everything that affects them
We die as we have lived
"I wonder if you feel like sharing..."  (Starting a sentence in this way gives them some control.)
Give messages nonverbally
"How did you get through other losses?" (Looking for coping mechanisms)
Making plans together (Again, helping to give them some power)
What's the worse thing that could happen?
Be honest.
Have them draw a picture to share meaning with you.
Be real with them.

Most importantly: Find out from the patient what do they want NOW?  From WHOM do you want it?  WHEN do you want it?