Alright it's 1:21am. Im up just sitting around and I feel the need to get some stuff off of my chest. Now when I set out to make this site I was dead set on making it my own. To voice my opions. To tell everyone what I want them to know. What I think should be said, ect..Now all I have to do is put it on here in a way you all can understand it. Here is some background on your poor web hostess. I am a girl. I am 22. I have a great understanding of men. I know this cuz I have had many conversations with past boyfriends and they had informed me that I thought too much like a guy to be a girl. I am married. But please don't stop the mail. I am getting a divorce soon.  Not his fault, not mine. Shit just happends sometimes. Having said that Im going to make a list of all the thing's I have learned. Mostly in the past 4 years. Read on It's worth it.

Rules for life!!

Never go into a relatonship thinking you can over look little things.{it will only make you hate them more} Or think you can change them. {it will only make the person resent you}

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If your mamma tells you she dosen't like one of your friends...Listen! Im not saying diss your friend or drop them. Chances are your going to have the most fun with that friend. And get into the most trouble. But just keep in the back of your mind what your mamma said. That way you wont be so suprised when they stab you in the back.

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Be yourself! If you get some guy cuz you say how much you like football, he's gonna expect that. And he is right to do so. If you don't like something, then stick by it. Don't try to push yourself into any type of mold for anybody. Little hint: you wont fit....you will bust out.

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Smoke a ciggerette at least once in your life. To celebrate something good, or to get over something. They help.

Don't do hard drugs. If you don't like the word crack head, don't become one. If you don't like the word tweeker..don't do meth. If you don't like the word addicted...don't become addicted. And if you don't mind all those names...how about the words...dead loser.

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Wait to smoke weed till you have your own place and your outta school. And while high, don't drive.

Don't ever turn your back on your family. Family is blood. No matter what. If your brother calls you names..so be it. Family is Family.

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If you have a crack head aunt, uncle, or cousin...don't make them seem cooler then what they are.

For all those ladies out there with kids...If your kids don't like your boyfriend. They shouldn't make you choose between them and him. You should never even think about putting a stud before your kids. If it even comes up that you should choose. You already messed up somewhere. Fix it.

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When everything in your life is going right. Enjoy it.

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If you don't like a guys mother when your dating. She don't get much better!

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Take sometime to live by yourself. If you don't you will regret it later...trust.

The first guy I ever slept with  gave me these two little morsels of knowledge..One: Condoms they are a must. Two: guys get really sleepy after sex.

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