Kurt and Courtney

Disclaimer:I'm both a massive Nirvana/Kurt Cobain fan and a huge Hole/ Courtney Love fan, so this should be unbiased. I love them both and they've both had an impact on my life. This is just my POV on the media portrayl of the couple and the bitching between their fans.

"There's this insane attiude about women which really fucks me and my plans up. All that shit about me and Kurt-'She's just a money grabber gold digger bitch whore slut'. Let's get one thing straight: I adore him. I worship him. I went through all the shit and pain and inconvience of being pregnant for nine whole fucking months because I wanted some of his beautiful genes in there, that child. I wanted his babies. I saw something I wanted, and I got it. What's wrong with that? What is so fucking bad about getting what you want?" 1994




Kurt and Courtney made a beautiful couple, they may not have been perfectly suited in the eyes of many, even to themselves sometimes-"battery acid and Evian water"- but it's annoying how they get treated by the media and fans alike.
Kurt is always portrayed as the weak, vunerable guy who was led astray by the calculating, over-powering woman (Courtney). But that cannot be true. Sure Kurt appeared to be more vunerable, more 'gentle' and I'm sure he was. And Courtney comes across as very strong-minded and out-spoken, and she is. But that doesn't mean she used him and abused him.
"A big 'fuck you' to those of you who have the audacity to claim that I'm so naive and stupid that I would allow myself to be taken advantage of and manipulated..."Kurt Coabin
This photo, to me, shows what they were like in the media (left). Courtney has that star quality. She knows how to work it for the cameras. Kurt was more uneasy with the attention, next to Courtney he looks kinda dorky. Yeah, he looks sexy, but he doesn't throw the star shapes that Courtney does. She seemed so much larger than life compared to him. Even in this photo she looks stronger, she looks in charge. And the media has always been anti-Courtney.
They were very different, but that didn't mean that they weren't in love. No-one will ever know what they were like together and how good or bad they were for each other except them. Cos the media lies.

"I didn't marry a corporation and I didn't marry an invalid I married a really really funny son of a bitch who was the most ambitious person I've ever known" Courtney Love

"I feel the same way you guys do. If you guys don�t think that I used to sit in this room where he played guitar and sang and felt so honored to be near him you�re crazy." Courtney Love

"...while all these things were very special, none were half as rewarding as having a baby with a person who is the supreme example of dignity, ethics and honesty.My wife challenges injustice and the reason her character has been so severely attacked is because she chooses not to function the way the white corporate man insists. His rules for women involve her being submissive, quiet, and non-challenging. When she doesn't follow his rules, the threatened man (who,incidentally, owns an army of devoted traitor women)gets scared." Kurt Cobain

"No one can replace Kurt, for five years I woke up with the sexiest man in the world, so no one impresses me." Courtney Love




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