If a need or want, desire or fantasy is so
strong, yet you are unable to transform these accounts into tangible
experiences which you enjoy in your life, then parts of you may be left void,
filling rather discontent if not quite unhappy. Societal norms do not state
that it is normal for consenting adults to practice spanking of a domestic
context. Where does this sexual deviancy start? Was it because during your
childhood you where spanked on the erogenous zone of your lower bottom, thus
manifesting a pleasure-pain curve that you have a deep inner yearning to
revisit now as an adult? Was it a recent experience that catalyzed certain urges,
feelings, or desires that you where unaware you even had, or perhaps privately
tried to suppress all these years? I ask you to ponder over these issues as you
are here.
If you are a northern Illinois, or Chicago
area female, with spanking urges that require attending to, then I would like
to hear from you. Being spanked, as you may or may not know, is a therapeutic
experience that offers you a remedy of relief. I am experienced with spanking
of a domestic context practices within the bounds of consenting adults. My
practices are limited to female clientele. Please understand my intentions from
the start: I am not looking for a relationship, nor am I soliciting sexual
engagements. My desire is sincere, and this too is what I am searching for from
you. Deep felt respect and trust for the other person and for yourself, is
absolutely essential. I request under such circumstances that your sincerity to
be spanked be felt with anticipation and desire.
Believe it or not a spanking can be effective
even in your adult years - a hand across the bottom hurts just as much now as
it then. Feel the difference between the tension and relaxation, pain and
relief, sting and warmth, resistance and submission. Relax your muscles, relax
your body. Both you and I abide by the conditions of your punishment. You are
spanked using an appropriate instrument and given the appropriate number of
swats based upon the severity of adequacy or inadequacy. A good old-fashion
bare bottomed spanking in conjunction with a refreshing regressive emotion cry
can be quite effective toward a fresh new start, leaving you with a warm
behinder-reminder.
I recently moved from the suburbs into the
Northwest side of Chicago and am interested in finding a female spanking
partner desiring to practice submissive behaviors. My experience with spanking
falls within the scope and context of domestic discipline, practiced by two
consulting adults. My desire is sincere, and this too is what I am searching
for from you. Deep felt respect and trust for the other person and for
yourself, is absolutely essential. I request under such circumstances that your
sincerity to be spanked be felt with anticipation and desire.
Please understand my intentions from the
start: Discipline can be quite powerful and erotic. After all, there is a
phenomenally strong bond created between the spanker and spanked, as both
experience the demanding and rewarding power exchange that is fostered out of
mutual respect, trust, and satisfaction. Discipline is about the kind of love
that comes from mentoring and guiding. Not the kind that comes in the heat of
the bedroom.
HOW DO
YOU FEEL ABOUT SPANKING?
This interpersonal investigation of your
emotions is designed to exercise your mind such that you are required to go
through the mental processes as you would/might expect to experience in a
discipline scenario. Most importantly, this study relates to the persona you
wish to assume, your expressed person as is, or a mixture of both. It's not
always easy to look inward; at times it can be quite discomforting. Besides the
fact that trust and respect manifest a strong perpetuating circulatory bond,
during a top/bottom session it is also very important to carefully identify
with the personalities (or personas) that each person identifies with. A
persona may be related or completely unrelated to the person you actually are.
To name just a few entities, a persona interrelates to social situations,
physical and mental statuses.
To best benefit from this methodology of
thinking, I ask for you to please be open-minded and sincere in your thought
process. Alter the FORM at the bottom of this page as you so desire. Remember
to leave an E-mail address unless you wish to remain anonymous. In other words,
I will be unable to contact you.
1) Ask yourself, at what point in your life
did you start having strong feelings about the subject of spanking? How have
you dealt with these feelings so far? 2) Do you seek to discipline others, have
others discipline you, be a switch, or are you not quite sure? 3) Discipline
should or could build a bond of trust between both individuals. 4) If serving
as a disciplinarian or disciplinaree, then what (if any) deviation from your
person as it, do you desire to exist in a persona you wish to assume?
Similarly, if this figure is a mixture of both, are there any particular
similarities or dissimilarities between the persona and person? 5) A spanking
fantasy like any fantasy lived out, manifests various feelings as imagination
is introduced to reality. How would you address the following theories?
"The act of living out a fantasy will muffle the fantasy because it is
highly improbably that all assets of the act will perfectly mirror the fantasy
itself." "Failure to live out a fantasy will result in personal
distress to a magnitude at least as strong as the desire to pursue the fantasy
itself."
Feel free to alter the window below as you so
desire. Because this is in FORM format, please include your E-mail address if
and only if you want me to get back to you. Use common sense, I can not read
your mind. If you are interested in my services and/or want to talk then you
must clearly state the fact.
More contact info
or
Disobedience, Discipline,
& Punishment: Let me start out my saying that the scope through which these
three elements will be presented to you (as say, the disciplinee) are construed
through a general definition, but more importantly, relayed to you through my
personal views and context (that of disciplinarian). Disobedience is the act of
your deviation from the acceptable model of obedience, credited to your
misbehavior: something you and only you must take full responsibility for.
Discipline, somewhat abstract, serves as a medium between your disobedient
behavior [input] and resulting punishment [output], while also being mutually
inclusive of all disobedience and all punishment. It can be thought of as an
underlying foundation supporting your obedience training. Punishment is simply the
concrete administration or practice, whereby which the disciplinarian inflicts
pain onto your body. The psychological ramifications should correct deviations
of your behavior from those of acceptable obedience. The punishment must fit
the crime. The crime of course is, your disobedient behavior and it is the
medium of discipline serving as a conduit between disobedience and punishment.
Without establishing the bounds, limits, rules, consequences, rewards, and
essential purpose of discipline, the inherent role of discipline is a complete
dysfunctional system.
disciplinarian/discipline relationship
I truly hope that you have
found this page of some interest to you. Finally, I recommend that you visit
the two following Yahoo Clubs if you not have already done so. For you
convenience, clicking on the below image will take you to the general home page
of Yahoo Clubs. From this page you can perform a simple keyword search to find
the club you are interested in visiting. "Spanking Couples &
Singles" - besides having a very well established presence - the club
serves as a social forum for discussing issues of a spanking context, with the
ultimate objective being to bring together individuals through friendship,
support, and respect. This club has a lot to offer so I highly recommend
visiting it. My personal club is "Chicago Spanking", linked from my
club to this web site. While the club is small, please stop by. Both clubs
"Spanking Couples & Singles" and "Chicago Spanking"
share in the common objective to unite individuals interested in spanking
related issues.
