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For the best advice, on a man or woman, go here please.
http://www.faqs.org/faqs/romance-faq/part1/section-5.html
Now, here's my take on a great boyfriend.
(When we're alone...)
A guy who like holding hands,
* A guy who likes hugging,
* A guy who likes to hold me,
A guy who likes to cuddle, and
* A guy who likes to play with my hair.
(When we're not alone...)
A guy who is as comfortable around girls as he is around guys,
A guy who makes me feel welcome,
A guy who makes me feel safe, and
A guy who likes to do *some* of the things above in public.
(And in general...)
A guy who respects me,
A guy who doesn't judge out loud,
A guy who can love,
A guy who can be loved,
A guy who notices important details,
A guy who is tactful, and
A guy who can love me as much as I can love him.