BOYFRIEND’S TYPES YOU MUST AVOID
If you have a boyfriend, you need to reconsider your boyfriend, who becomes your close friend. Sometimes, there is an interesting boy, but it gives hidden dangers. It is beautiful from the outside, however it hurts your feelings and heart.
Cruel behavior of your boyfriend doesn’t appear because he has the behavior that looks kind. Before you regret, it is better for you to know the real card of your friends one by one. Check out some types of boyfriend below and its dangers.
- Possessive boyfriend.
This boyfriend seems to give affection to you. He never stays far from you. Even, don’t release you from him. In fact, you are trapped in the love jail. He considers you the property of him.
The signs of possessive boyfriends are as follows:
o When you are involved in any activity, you must get his permission first. He asks you to sacrifice your friends, activities and family so that you can accompany him. He must be mad if you ignore him.
o He is always suspicious if you go out with other friends. He always keeps an eye on your activities and he is always close to you. He always asks how deep your love is.
o He always demands and forces you. The last way he uses is to play tricks on you; he can be good after the anger. He always says that he can’t live without you and he is afraid to lose you.
o The danger is that you are tied. You will be far from the relationship with your friends. Day by day your life is quiet. You lose socialization with other people and you don’t have any experience of life. Self-potential of yours is difficult to develop naturally.
- Rough Boyfriend
He seems miserable, but he is not. He seems to have a gentle behavior. In fact he likes to hit, punch and slap you. He is a type of human causing big damages for people involved with him.
He is a kind of controller, forcer and egoistic person. He likes to forbid you to fulfill you needs and willing. He acts as a strong person. But, his behavior appears because he feels that he is not safe. It is very frightening for him is you become a healthy independent girl.
He looks like a polite boyfriend, but actually he is not. He never shows harmonious relationship with people around him. He often blames people in public. His persuasion is not well arranged. He is bad-tempered. Firstly he looks quiet, but he talks loudly: screaming, throwing things down, hitting the wall and fighting without shy manner. He is not shy to accuse you of something without any reason. Sometimes, he slaps you.
Its danger is that he swears he never hurt you again. He realizes he was in anger. However, his behavior never changes. If he slaps and hits you again, he will do that again. He is kind if only he needs someone to accompany.
- Egoistic Friend
This person tends to think about himself. He looks kind such as giving the guide. In fact, he is happy if he can control you, showing power. You must do whatever to please you. He likes to show-off if he buys you a present. He looks romantic. His motivation is to show that your relationship is enjoyable and ideal. This kind of boy is not confident. He feels unsatisfied. He doesn’t give, but he likes to ask for something.
He never cares about other people’s opinion, including you. He is always right in every issue. He likes to underestimate girls. If your achievement is higher, he will get mad.
He wants you to be gentle and depend on you. Besides, he never thinks about your feelings. The most important thing is that he is happy. He often makes you fight with your family or friends. If it happens, he hopes you will rely on him. He often says something like this “If you really love me, you must do this and you must do that”.
- Boyfriend with Dirty Mind
This person likes to enjoy your body. He likes the physical attractiveness. He can’t control his desire. He gets much negative influence from friends, x-rated films and pornographic pictures. He has dirty mind.
His persuasion is well done. He often tells stories that he is interested in the physical body of the girl. His persuasion is all about physics. It makes you feel delighted. If you don’t want to respond, he pretends to be sad. He often says how lucky you are because he wants the evident that you are in love with him. At the final, he wants you to offer up your heart and body.
He actually doesn’t love you but sex. He only likes your physical body. After getting satisfied, he will leave you alone. For the sake of his purpose, he tries to make you weak and unconfident. Then, he acts as if he is the only person to rely on. Next, he will play tricks on you. You must be careful in facing him.
(Daviq
Rizal, S.Pd.)