Nothing irks me more than hearing about guys who physically beat on their girlfriends, wives, etc.
I saw a commercial that had this little kid sitting at the top of the stairs listening to his mom and dad argue.
It never showed the parents, but eventually, I could hear that the man started to hit the woman, break glass and so forth. Every time I saw that commercial, I wanted to jump into that TV screen and knock the guy into next week.
This is not an isolated scenario. I know as well as you do that this sort of thing goes on even here in Stillwater.
Call me a nutcase, but I think women deserve respect. Generally, they are physically weaker than men.
Consequently, a physical strike from a man would do some serious damage to a woman, whereas a strike from a woman would mean little more than tingle to a man.
Usually, I'm not one to butt my nose into a couple's business, but if I ever came across some dude who was hitting his woman, then here's what I would do.
I would bend him over, stick his head between my legs, pick him up by his torso so that he's upside-down and literally pile-drive him right into the hard concrete.
That may seem a bit violent and non-WWJD to some, but that kind of behavior just hacks me off. I can't fathom why any guy would need to hit a girl.
It's plain to see that no guy in his right mind would ever hit a woman, even if he were angry. Clearly, guys that do hit women have serious mental problems.
But I sometimes wonder about the women as well. Why do women cling to abusive relationships? I am not a relationship guru by any stretch of the imagination, but it just seems intuitive to stay away from abuse.
I'm not just referring to physical abuse (although that makes me especially irate). I'm also referring to verbal abuse and the like. I hear all the time about how women go for the jerks, and the nice guys "finish last."
What is wrong with this picture? Are women gluttons for punishment? Do they enjoy physical and verbal abuse?
I've heard many a time how a girl "wants to change" a jerk guy. Let me tell you something, girls. The jerkweed ain't gonna change.
You will end up getting pimpslapped by this fool if you get into a relationship with him. My advice to you is to dump him immediately, and find yourself a real man. You are too good to allow yourself to be treated like fecal matter.
I've given this advice to several women, and I've often heard this line — "I can't dump him because I love him." Hey, is love a two-way or one-way street? Yeah, you can love him, but if he's an abusive putz, then he obviously doesn't love you.
If I loved a woman, I certainly wouldn't be abusive towards her. Girls, you need to dump these clowns and find real men who will return your love and treat you right.
I realize that in this day and age, many girls grow up without a male influence in their homes. Or, maybe they had fathers, but they were abusive, too.
Hence, they look for that quality in a man, as bizarre as that may sound. But, I'm here today to tell you ladies that you don't deserve abusive treatment.
Consider this point. Something in a woman drives her to fear loneliness. Perhaps, that's why she clings to abusive relationships.
Maybe she'd rather have physical and verbal abuse and have a guy around than be alone and without pain. I don't understand it, but then again, who can understand the mind of a woman?
Patience is a virtue. For every woman, there is a man who is willing to treat her like a queen. If your man isn't treating you like a queen, then you need to get out of that prison and find the man who will. You deserve it, don't you? So, press forward, ladies. May your quest be truly rewarding.
In the meantime, I know a big ol' boy who we'll call "the holmes." Here's a guy who played center on his high school football team and idolizes Goldberg. He and I will be out looking for punks who like to hit girls. If you like hitting your woman, then you had better watch out. I know I wouldn't like to be "speared" by the holmes, if you catch my drift.
Guys, women deserve to be treated like ladies. Hitting a girl only proves how much of a wuss you are. Yeah, you may be angry or even drunk, but don't let that blind you and cause you to physically hurt her. She would rather have you as a protector than as one who would injure her. Think about this, guys. Real men don't abuse women.