Re: [pf] An uplifting story ...

David,

I could not agree more with the attitude embodied by the story you sent
the list. 

But often people who say they are liberals will not apply this concept
to people they feel are poor, ill, needy, uneducated, from broken homes,
etc.; then they make an exception, saying that it's easy for us
middle-class (well-off, educated, well, etc.) people to talk about
making an attitude choice, but too much to expect of someone whose life
has been lived in a gutter, through no fault of their own. I would say
that making a choice about how to face life is within the grasp of
everyone, equally. And I have seen as many marginalised people with a
good attitude as I have well-off people with a bad one.

This reminded me of a Meals on Wheels client I have, who is in her 80s,
with a cataract in each eye (so she's almost blind) and asthma problems
that require a respirator at times. She lives alone. Most days when I
visit her and ask how she is, she says "If I were any better, I'd be
dancing in the streets!" What she most enjoys doing is sitting on the
tiny porch of her tiny trailer home at 3 a.m., listening to the night.

~ Molly

David MacClement wrote:
> 
> Date: Fri, 14 Jul 2000 09:27:00 +1200
> From: Bera MacClement <.-.-.@auckland.ac.nz>
> To: David MacClement <davd@ihug.co.nz>
> Cc: Ruth MacClement <.-.-.@hotmail.com>
> Subject: A wee story ...
> 
> Michael is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say.
> When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any
> better, I'd be twins!" He was a natural motivator.
> 
> If an employee was having a bad day, Michael was there telling the employee
> how to look on the positive side of the situation. Seeing this style really
> made me curious, so one day I went up to Michael and asked him, "I don't
> get it. You can't be positive all the time. How do you do it?"
> 
> Michael replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, 'Mike, you have
> two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to
> be in a bad mood.' I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad
> happens, I can choose to be a victim or to learn from it. I choose to learn
> from it.
> Every time someone comes to me complaining I can choose to accept their
> complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the
> positive side of life."
> 
> "Yeah, right. It isn't that easy," I protested.
> 
> "Yes, it is," Michael said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away
> all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to
> situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You chose to be in
> a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line is: It's your choice how you live
> life."
> 
> I reflected on what Michael said. Soon thereafter, I left the tower
> industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about
> him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.
> 
> Several years later, I heard Michael was involved in a serious accident,
> falling some 60 feet from a communications tower. After 18 hours of surgery
> weeks of intensive care, Michael was released from the hospital with rods
> placed in his back.
> 
> I saw Michael about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he
> was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?"
> I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his
> mind as the accident took place.
> 
> "The first thing that went through my mind was the well being of my soon to
> be born daughter," Michael replied.
> 
> "Then, as I lay on the ground, I remembered I had choices: I could choose
> to live or I could choose to die. I chose to live."
> 
> "Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked.
> 
> Michael continued, "...the paramedics were great. They kept telling me I
> was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the
> expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared.
> 
> In their eyes, I read 'He's a dead man.' I knew I needed to take action."
> 
> "What did you do?" I asked.
> 
> "Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Michael.
> "She asked me if I was allergic to anything.  'Yes,' I said. The doctors
> and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep
> breath and yelled, 'Gravity.' Over their laughter, I told them, 'I am
> choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead.'"
> 
> Michael lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his
> amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have a choice to
> live fully. Attitude is everything.
> 
> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
> sent on to Positive Futures by David.
> (David MacClement) davd@ihug.co.nz
> http://www.emucities.com.au/member/davd/index.html#top
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