Online can open a door for those who are curious and wish to learn about the lifestyle. But are still a bit timid and shy about the whole thing. It gives them an opportunity to play out some of those fantasies with another, and learn a bit about the lifestyle and if it is for them before persuing into real life. I persoanlly was involved in the lifestyle before ever thinking of coming online but that was just me. Some may not agree with this but I have seen many that use online as a safe harbor for them to explore thier darkest fantasies. And persoanlly I am glad that there are a lot of good lifestylers out there on the web sharing thier experiences and thier aspects on their way of living the lifestyle. Makes the world wide web go round just as it does in real life. Now those that claim to look down thier noses at online relationships, Yet they have thier own D/s site and into talking D/s online. What the fuck do you think that is??? If your so down on it stay the hell off the net otherwise shut ya piehole! Now if this pisses you off then oh well this is just my opinion on the matter.
I am free to express the way I see it and hopefully help some poor soul that has been reading the big bunch of BS written elsewhere on the web downing online. Because you never know if love will find you through the internet til you give it a go! I have met a couple BDSM minded partners from the net in real life and happen to still have them as close friends. So see even if you dont find love you may just make a good friend :) I happen to have met my Master online we are not together in real yet but do have plans to in the future. And thank the net greatfully!!! Hell if it wasn't for the net would have never met him. So goes to show you there's a lot of good that can come from online. There are bad people and people you really want to avoid online but so are there in real life we walk among sickos and assholes every day of our lives. The same rules and guidlines you would use in real pertain the same to the net. Use common sense if it feels wrong or something isn't quite right get out fast!!! Get to know the person your dealing with. Ask questions study up on some of the better sites on the net relatedto D/s and BDSM. That can give you guidelines for questions to ask and that may help you spot a "True Dom/me or sub/slave" from the game players.
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