A true Dominant wants and wishes for thier submissive or slave to be well and enjoy the experience as much as they do. A Dominant takes the wants and needs of the submissive/slave into as deep reguard as they do thier own. For to me a Dominant cannot be a Dominant without a submissive/slave, The submissive/slave gives the Dominant the gift of her/his submission and surrender unto them a gift wich is NEVER to be taken lightly! So how could a Dominant exisit without a submissive/slave to give them the power and control over them they do??? They could NOT just wouldn't be possible. A Domiants role is to be there to love cherish protect and guide the submissive/slave in all ways. A true Dominant is always respectful, honest and trustworthy in the right He or She has earned that place. They show the same respect to others around them that are deserving of it and have shown the same respect. A Dominants goal with the submissive/slave is to open thier heart, mind, body and soul into places they never dreamed they could ever go. To help them grow in all ways to become all that they can be. To achieve and embrace TPE. For those that do not know what TPE is or stands for. This stands for Total Power Exchange. Wich will be explained in just a few moments *smiles* Ok now that I have explained some on the Dominants side of the equation, Let us get into the submissives/slaves place in the union or scene.
The submissive or slave has a deep desire is to be controlled, owned and guided by the Dominant. The submissive/slave gives all that they are to the Dominant out of total devotion, surrender and respect. To fulfil thier need and deisre to be controlled and dominated by the Dominant. Submission is the most beautiful and powerful gift one can give to another. A bond and devotion that to me goes much deeper than a "nilla" union or marriage does. For those that do not know the term "vanillia or nilla" means someone who does not practice the lifestyle. A regualr person that has an ordinary relationship and sex life with thier partner. There is nothing wring with that at all as I say to each thier own and different strokes for different folks :) Some people that don't understand the lifestlye may see it as depraved or think what is wrong with those people!!! Seeing women that wish to be controlled and used by men and visa versa men wishing to be controlled by women. Some just cannot grasp the concept of wishing to be bound controlled spanked and flogged. They see it as abuse and some think brainwashing cult behavior. Wich couldn't be futher from the truth! In fact a lot of the people that embark on and live the D/s lifestyle are very strong minded and strong willed people even more so stable than a lot of people in this world. Most are very intelligent professionals that are highly respected within the community. But as in any other lifestyles people choose to live in life there are many different types of people.
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