Often the gambler does not know they have a problem until they run out of money and resources. Once gambling has taken a priority in one's life, the compulsive gambler will risk family, friends, employment, and savings because the "big win is right around the corner". After they make their big win, they fantasize about taking care of all their friends and family, it is this dream that drives them to gamble because after all, they see gambling as a way to help other.
Signs of a pathological gambler include:
* Not being able to cover monthly bills with usual income * Secretive about money * Increased isolation * Defensive about money * Preoccupation with gambling and related activities * Gambles longer than planned * Unsuccessful attempts to control or quit gambling * Chases losses * Always talks about how much money they are winning, but never have any moneyGambling is not always problematic. It becomes a problem when it interferes with life or it becomes a reason for living.
The "Casual Social Gambler" gambles as a social activity with friends and family.
The "Serious Social Gambler" risks more than their peers but experiences only a minor impact on life.
The "Professional Gambler" makes a living gambling. This form of gambling is almost impossible with the current games of chance.
The "Action Gambler" plays games of chance for the rush of the challenge.
The "Escape Gambler" often gambles alone to distract themselves from life's situations.
Counseling & Therapy: Different kinds of gamblers and different personalities and life histories require the ability to utilize various therapeutic techniques to help gamblers. One form of treatment will not help everyone. Seek out a therapist with education, training, experience and credentials to "stack the deck" towards a favorable therapy outcome. Qualified therapists need to possess a State of Illinois License to practice therapy at an independent level (LCPC, LCSW, LMFT, Licensed Psy.D) and hold a State of Illinois Certificate, a National Certificate or International Certificate in gambling.
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