| WHO DO THEY THINK THEY ARE? |
| GUYS. They seem so sweet, so kind, so cute... PFFT! YEAH RIGHT! IN THE MOVIES MAYBE! Okay, so there are some guys that are complete scum. We get it often. VERY often. But keep in mind that guys who are cute, rather than sweet or caring or loving, can love themselves more than they can love you. You need to respect who they are; do not judge the book by it's cover (or do not judge a guy by his face!) Looks aren't all that matters...even though it IS pleasant to see some hot guys once in a while... Even so, the perfect guy is the one you will end up with through the good times and the bad...the guy that comforts you face to face, that speaks up, that loves you...is the one...how sweet! |
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| Don't we all need a guy to hold us, to love us, to tell us everything will be okay? Well there is a reason for each girl to have a caring guy and vice versa...the reason is "so we can live our lives to the fullest, make the most of each second with the one we love too much to do without." If you think about it now and then, guys seem to be confused about themselves, too. We do things without even thinking, too, though, don't we? Guys seem to have this conscience that tells them to go a little further into the world of "mind/love." The problem with their conscience is that it tells them to go too far, which then leads to hurt hearts and sore eyes. Men have a inability to commit. It's not TOTALLY their fault, but we believe they do it on purpose and we give them too much credit for being bad. Guys just seem to have some problems in the commitment department...that's why they're always the ones giving or taking too much or breaking away without any explanation. So the solution is... What else can we do? But love them and comfort THEM! Guys don't have to be superior and masculine...that's just their gender stereotyping...like a job description that they did not write out themselves. Be with them, but if you want to impress them...just be yourself. Obviously it sounds like an easy task, but it's NOT! Being yourself is the most difficult thing to do, when you think about it. Guys will like you if you are yourself because eventually you will want to be you...and then unfortunately the guy may not like the real you (SO BAD)... so the best thing to do is relax, and try to act like the real you. Keeping guys is like SO not odd. I mean...girlies sometimes break up wit their guys right? SO this is technically for the girlies who want to stay wit their guys but the guys don't exactly feel the same way... DEFEND YOURSELF! IF YOU ARE THE GURL THEY FELL IN LOVE WIT IN THE FIRST PLACE...ASK THEM WHAT THE HELL YOU DID WRONG...IF THERE IS NO REASON...THEN YOUR MIND SHOULD AUTOMATICALLY REALISE THAT THEY DID NOT REALLY LOVE YOU IN THE BEGINNING...WHICH MEANS THAT IT'S TIME TO BE HAPPY YOU GOT A CHANCE AND THEN MOVE ON! IT'S NOT THAT EASY...BUT DON'T FROWN COZ IT'S OVA...SMILE COZ IT HAPPENED...GOD LET'S US HAVE MANY CHANCES AT LOVE SO THAT WHEN WE FIND THE RIGHT ONE...WE'LL KNOW IF IT'S REAL OR NOT...JUST LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST....please??? |
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