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Okay I started this list in the summer of 2000. Since then it has been revised and edited dozens of times as i've gone through relationships and tragedies. This is the list of 210 qualities that my "dream guy" has to have. Who knows if i will ever find a guy that has all of these. For all I know I'll marry the guy that doesnt have any of these!
Oh well, this ought to be entertaining...

1. Loves music.
2. Trustworthy.
3. Honest.
4. Loyal.
5. can look me in the eyes without being intimidated.
6. supports me.
7. has own opinions
8. but not narrow minded.
9. can only have one girl (me).
10. sociable.
11. emotionally strong.
12. can share feelings.
13. Christian.
14. Doesn't constantly complain.
15. Calls me at random times.
16. Compliments me.
17. listens to me
18. isnt in the relationshp for sex
19. doesnt have bad acne
20. knows how to be romantic
21. brings me white roses.
22. takes me out on dates (often)
23. likes my friends
24. has a life with his friends but doesnt exclude me.
25. my dad and sister have to like him (they're picky in a good way)
26. doesn't do drugs or is involved with them somehow.
27. smart- has common sense.
28. goes with me to the mall
29. nice voice
30. confronts me when there is a problem.
31. cares about his looks
32. but doesnt care too much.
33. cooks good.
34. isn't greedy with money
35. doesn't steal
36. doesn't mind doing yard work
37. isn't abusive.
38. likes jelly beans
39. gets me to try new foods.
40. teach me how to play tennis.
41. takes me out on a boat.
42. laid back
43. tells me I'm beautiful even when I'm not wearing any make-up.
44. Doesn't talk about other girls and their looks. (i.e.: "Your friend is hot.")
45. likes kids
46. doesn't have a huge ego.
47. likes sports
48. massages me.
49. plays with my hair.
50. comforts me when I've had a bad day.
51. would go to the pound and let all the cats go free.
52. would rob a quickee mart for me. (51 and 52 are two lines in one of my all time favorite songs "I wont spent another night alone" by The*Ataris).
53. energetic.
54. doesn't have a serious criminal record.
55. likes to travel.
56. likes to learn new things about me.
57. wont make me cry unless it's good.
58. wont constantly look for an argument.
59. BEST FRIEND.
60. doesn't have long hair.
61. respects my privacy.
62. encouraging.
63. likes animals.
64. prompt.
65. good memory (haha because mine sucks).
66. polite.
67. KEEPS HIS PROMISES.
68. can look me in the eyes and tells me he loves me.
69. doesn't boss me around.
70. lets me have say in the relationship.
71. can't be involved with his ex's.
72. wishes me sweet dreams before I go to sleep. ;)
73. doesn't smoke.
74. attempts to dance and gets me to do it with him.
75. good driver.
76. fit.
77. likes all kinds of music.
78. will take me to concerts..
79. wont kiss other guys.
80. can't enjoy cross-dressing
81. cowboy ;)
82. loves me no matter what.
83. doesn't ignore me when his friends are around.
84. puts in as much as i do in the relationship.
85. lil bits of freckles.
86. conservative.
87. careful.
88. doesn't get *too* jealous, but a little bit of it shows he cares.
89. calls me by my name (danielle, not dani)
90. nice family
91. enjoys life.
92. isn't afraid to cry in front of me
93. straight teeth
94. smiles.
95. isn't a workaholic.
96. i fit in his arms.
97. good kisser.
98. respects my two major promises.
99. can make me smile.
100. good conversationalist.
101. not shy.
102. SMELLS GOOD.
103. writes me notes/e-mails
104. always shows up for dates.
105. fresh breath.
106. wont cancel a date to hang out with someone else.
107. PDA. its a good thing.
108. lives near me.
109. likes golf/putt-putt.
110. shares his dreams with me.

111. isn't related to me!
112. believes in fate.
113. isn't perverted.
114. someone where it hurts me when theyre hurt, and vise-versa.
115. stands up for me.
116. would go get me ice cream at all hours.
117. would pick me up :)
118. wouldn't want me to change.
119. cute laugh.
120. isn't glued to the TV.
121. makes me giggle.
122. gives me goosebumps.
123. gives me freedom.
124. tells me his fears.
126. trusts me.
127. handy.
128. not a CHEATER.
129. buy sme jewelry.
130. teach me how to play pool.
131. likes the snow.
132. lets me move the relationship from one step to the next.
133. role model.
134. kisses my forehead ;)
135. can fall asleep in his arms.
136. protects me
137. wont leave me (my greatest fear is being alone.)
138. isn't a hermit.
139. adored ;)
140. understands love
141. doesn't constantly eat.
142. sticks to his word.
143. individual.
144. mature.
145. irresistable.
146. helps me with my problems.
147. accepts my problems.
148. doesn't get bored easily.
149. wont use me.
150. enjoys spending time with me and talking to me
151. takes me seriously.
152. not a male whore.
153. knows how to dress.
154. isn't a cry-baby.
155. sympathetic.
156. likes roller coaters.
157. introduces me to new people.
158. celebrates anniversaries.
159. nice handwritting (i guess).
160. wipes away tears.
161. taller than I am.
162. spoils me.
163. has self-respect.
164. OPENS DOORS.
165. no nail polish.
166. pics in wallet.
167. isn't dying.
168. wont yell at me.
169. isnt racist.
170. blushes.
171. makes me blush.
172. isnt greasy.
173. isnt afraid of commitment.
174. under 10 yrs older than I am.
175. no STD's.
176. no pimp chains.
177. thoughtful.
178. white teeth.
179. would change for me for the better if needed.
180. dozen roses on doorstep when he screws up :)
181. appoligizes.
182. doesn't pressure me to do stuff
183. appreciates my art work.
184. councels me to make the best decisions.
185. good heart.
186. really wants me be with me.
187. isn't obssessed with his car.
188. cares for me when I'm sick.
189. isn't embarrasing.
190. no unibrow.
191. wont get me in trouble.
192. makes sure that I'm safe.
193. has good intentions.
194. appreciates the things i do.
195. likes movies.
196. calls me back.
197. isnt overprotective.
198. will drive me places.
199. isn't self absorbed.
200. can't live w/o me.
201. momma's boy.
202. nice feet.
203. cute belly button :)
204. nice shoulders.
205. car like bryan's, although its not necessary.
206. jawline
207. wears backwards cap.
208. doesn't hog blankets.
209. doesn't brag.
210. cuddles!

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