Sanku G's Blog
"...when baby girls are treated with contempt, "Baby Judge" is an eye opener for all the girl-haters".
Entry for November 06, 2006
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"Baby Judge"
       
--Briana G. Richardson
 
Baby Judge,
Oh Baby Judge,
Why does the sex of the baby matter?
God himself thinks that children,
Not just boys,
But also girls,
Are a precious gift,
So should we all.
In his eyes,
Abortion is a sin, so is killing.
 
Baby Judge,
Oh Baby Judge,
The love and affection,
Between mother and children is sacred and divine,
I know this just by watching my mother.
Yes i'm a girl, and alive,
I have God to thank for that.
He gave me a mother that doesn't  care what sex
Her children are,
She still loved them with all her heart,
Yes till the day she died.
Every moment that we shared together
Was like a precious gift from God,
Who gave her the heart and energy
To spend time with me even though she was slowly passing away at last.
 
Baby Judge,
Oh Baby Judge,
How she raised me so,
To be the woman that I am now,
Who will always love children,
Not just boys,
But,
Yes,
Also girls!!
 
Briana (in pic),Fond du Lac, Wisconsin, US : My favorite place, I've realized, that there really wasn't any place that I love more, than being in my mom's arms or with anywhere. Anywhere she was, that became my favorite place, that is except when she was in the hospital slowly leaving, passing away. My best friend would have to be my mother, and her name is Diane Richardson. I don't recall getting that close with anyone as close as i goten with my own mother. And my inspiration, would have to be life and my mother.

 

"My father, who was a kindly man towards myself and my sister, still hoped
I would be the son who would carry on his name".
---Lost in Brain Space.

"...in 20 years there will be only males and their family lines will die out as well".
---dezbird.

"I was abused as a child"
---Kathleen

"...My next door neighbor was the only girl of 4 children and her mother repeatedly would say how much she hated having a girl and how she wished she had all boys. You could see the heartbreak on her face". 
---Terri J

"...Go do something. make a difference, don't lay down and die".
---Mary Jane Moore-Wright

"...and I admire your concern, and even more so, your involvement. As a woman and a long-time advocate for 'equality for women', I am touched deeply. You are truly a loving and caring citizen of the world"!
---Frani

"...I think gov. should make it possible for others to be able to adopt these precious babies. It is very sadening to my heart to read of abuse and know what goes on in the world. If I could I would take all of them. lol I adore children".
--Madison~

"I didn't realize there was selective gender breeding existed. Women should be considered valuable in all things not just the work force '.
-- Julia/Jules

"If mankind could hold to one issue....peace inner and outwardly
we have all won".
--trish

Thank you for your kind invitation. I have been to your page quite some time ago and made a connection to your site (comments were somewhat disabled at the time). I am aware of the problem and as you may know, many people in North America have adopted baby girls from China for similar reasons - they fill the orphanages. It is now against the policy of hospitals in the city of Vancouver to disclose the sex of the child after ultrasound because so many new citizens from yours and from other like-minded cultures were making the choice to terminate pregnancies after learning the baby was a girl. This is something very foreign to Canadian thinking and as a nation; we hope that it disappears with the second generation of new Canadians. Though we are a freethinking nation and open to cultural differences, it will not be tolerated here. Many cultural differences around the world result in practices that are abhorrent to others and I applaud your efforts to make change in your nation. There are no bad people, just bad decisions. But you must change the reasons within your society that makes this decision acceptable. Only then will it stop. My outrage, or the outrage of others around the world is pointless... action is the answer. Hopefully you have many within your nation who wish to affect these changes!
--An Anonymous.

Selective abortions, if the baby is a  girl!!


"...But the men and women in our technical age risk becoming victims of their own intellectual and technical achievements, ending up in spiritual barrenness and emptiness of heart:, said Pope Benedict XVI marked his first Christmas as pope.

The 21st Century, technology is being used in this world to fashion a future without women, or with very few of them. Is this progress? The use of technology, devised to detect genetic abnormalities, to determine the s..e ..x of the child, only a few people were alarmed. The media was virtually unresponsive, The problem seemed restricted to the metros. We thought that only the better off could afford the technology. No one expected that within two decades, s..e..x-detection techniques would become so wide-spread, and affordable, that they would be available all over the world!!

It is an irony of fate that the moment it is discovered by the ultra sound machines that the child inside mother's womb is a female child - mothers of the different societies around the globe resort to selective abortion!! It is worse in some parts of the world, they adopt gruesome violence of female infanticide!!; Even in the developed nations like United States, a woman who has a boy out of wedlock is much more likely to marry the father than if she has a girl, according to US Economists. (Reuters)

Selective abortion of female foetuses to avoid a daughter in preference to a son would lead to decimination of girl children. This would lead to higher crime rate and erosion of moral values.


(Many friends feel that as I was an affected person to this and it was not true. I have taken  'neglected girl babies', a big social evil - as a subject.  I am projecting this issue, just to bring to the kind notice of the like thinking people who care and concern for human dignity and values. I would like to make a low budget children movie on this subject titled "Baby Judge". . Regards. Ganapathi Rao. Sanku).

2006-11-06 09:29:35 GMT
Comments (64 total)
Author:islander0413
oh, but my heart cries out for those fetuses who were aborted just because they happened to be female...my children are girls and i love them to death. why? is there any good and valid explanation why girls should be banished on this planet in the future?

these scientists should focus more on how to preserve life, not end life...
2006-11-06 09:37:21 GMT
Author:swanpb
I agree with Jean san.. how profoundly sad and ugly it is to scan and then find out you are going to have a girl-child.. and then make a decision: Kill it!

I have this 'funny' take to tell you, Sanka san. Not funny-haha but funny-waaaaa lol
This friend of mine in Tokyo.. she and her husband already have 4 daughters when my friend got pregnant again and the husband said: Ok, we'll give it one more try.. maybe this time we will have a BOY!
So umm-hmm-hmm-hmmm .. a few months later, the husband called me. In his words.. 'I don't know whether to cry or to laugh.. she just had twins.. twin girls!!'
I was .... err ... and then we both burst out laughing. 6 girls! Plus a wife! Man~ this man has it made!!! Surrounded by beautiful women!! :))
Another friend of mine in the US just found out she is having a girl.. and she already has 3 daughters. She had doubts for a bit because she has just migrated to the US from Japan but she finally decided to keep it. 'It is a girft from God. We will do our best.' I admire her courage @};-

WHY is it so hard to accept a DAUGHTER??

Thank you, Sanka san for sharing.
2006-11-06 10:57:51 GMT
Author:eli_bg_vt
it is really sad that there is preference for girl babies over male ones, cuz they r all God's creatures and the result from love. Lets hope this will change !
Eli
2006-11-06 14:46:09 GMT
Author:aimwolf
When did humans become such monsters or have we always been this way and just have more technology to allow us to do more?! Very sad. God gives each precious soul to us for a reason. We should be blessed for each precious soul. There are some who cannot conceive and they are in tears. Think people!
2006-11-06 15:28:32 GMT
Author:anchoredsecure
Clearly a society in dire need of progression into reality. We should all love and accept our children no matter what gender they are born. Boy girl, who caress?! What matters is that the child is the fruit of a blessed union of love.
2006-11-07 12:11:07 GMT
Author:rascott757
If this is true, it would indeed be sad for humanity. I have a daughter myself, and she means the world to me. I couldn't imagine life without her. I would be interested to get more information on the sources of these studies, and how they reach their conclusions. As a student of statistics and other research methods, I have to see the 'facts and figures' before accepting this information as gospel.
2006-11-07 15:34:06 GMT
Author:[email protected]
HELLO EVERYONE, MY NAME IS QUEEN729 I AM SORRY FOR WHAT ALOT OF COUNTRY ARE DOING, WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO OUR GIRLS. WHAT THEY FAIL TO REALIZE IS THAT, IF NOT FOR THE GIRLS THERE WILL BE NOT MEN. MEN CAN NOT HAVE BABIES BY THEMSELVES, I HATE THE IDEA OF SOMEONE FEELING THE WAY THEY DO ABOUT GIRLS, AND IF I COULD CHANGE IT I WILL. ONE OF MY DAUGHTERS PAST AWAY AND IF I COULD GET THAT CHANCE AGAIN, I WILL NOT HESITATE. BUT EVERYBODY HAS THEIR RIGHT TO FEEL THE WAY THAT THEY DO, DOESN'T MAKE IT RIGHT, BUT THEIR RIGHTS. I JUST WANTED TO COME ON HERE TO SHOW MY LOVE FOR ALL GIRLS AND WOMEN WHO HAS TO MAKE A CHOICE ON WHETHER THEY SHOULD KEEP THEIR DAUGHTERS, WELL GOD MADE US ALL IN HIS IMAGE, AND IF YOU ASK ME, CHOOSE YOUR DAUGHTERS. GOD BLESS YOU ALL. CASANDRA...
2006-11-08 07:35:20 GMT
Author:wayofthespirit
tan si kind One...I feel you need to continue on the path you are traveling on...to bring a voice and awareness to this...is not only NEEDED but an absolute must...any human abuse...must be brought to the light from the shadows...to cleanse the spirit of this entire planet and make it what it initially was intendet to be...Heaven!!!
2006-11-08 15:58:33 GMT
Author:yeshualovsus
I personally oppose Abortion because my real mother was going in to an abortion clinic and changed her mind at the last second BECAUSE OF A KIND PRO-LIFER BLOCKING THE DOORWAY to the clinic! All Abortion is "Human Sacrifice" and should be BANNED IN THE SO-CALLED CIVILIZATIONS OF THE WORLD! Keep blogin' the Truth,TRUTH WILL ALWAYS WIN THE DAY!!

2006-11-08 22:36:32 GMT
Author:gigidelarosa66
I never knew anything that this thing is happening until I read this here. I am truly thankful that you posted it, it gives us awareness towards some hidden monstrosity happening around us. I am saddened by this and I hope something can be done about it.

I am soo thankful that there are people like you who cares, please go on with whatever you are doing...We need more people like you who can make our world a better place to live in.'

Hats off to you my friend.
2006-11-09 11:25:07 GMT
Author:xtaticrethabile
Hello. I saw you on Yahoo Answers and that picture(yours, I think) directed me to your page. All this is overwhelming.
2006-11-09 11:32:58 GMT
Author:forty8karats
OMG That breaks my heart...Well I hope this changes, it will have to, without us there is noone...God bless you hun for sharing this...
2006-11-09 16:07:08 GMT
Author:ohhhbabyblue
OHHHHH my i'm soooo shocked by this post i never knew that abortions was also used to choose the sexes of a child how sad!! I myself do not believe in abortion my son and i just had this discussion a few day's ago as he found out a friend of his just recently had one just because she didnt want a baby and he was soo upset to find this out arrggg what a reason just because guess she should have thought of that before hand and used protection (as she told him she was not)to make sure it didnt happen.. really disturbs me that the value we put on a precious life that God gave us the ability of some people to treat is as it's noting but a piece of trash to mindly just toss away!!!
Thank you for emailing me of your blog and thank you for posting so we can all know..
Paula
2006-11-09 16:19:02 GMT
Author:marivi_12001
All we are citizen of the world, we lived and we shared he himself world, the same earth. It is by right also to enjoy the same conditions in duties and rights. The marginalization, the intolerancia, the terrorism, racism, I mistreat general of women, children and animals and the prepotent power of some governors, makes of this world a world military, an attack against the peace, the equality and the human rights, all it is an attack to the life. I think that more we are worried in creating arms to kill that products to cure and in quality of life. Thanks to share this blog, that I hope that it sensitizes a the people so that we are better people...
2006-11-09 16:24:28 GMT
Author:ragamuffin_t
Simply Heartbreaking
2006-11-09 16:25:19 GMT
Author:roxanamariat
If God would not create the woman,what men could they do?
Could they make children? Could they raise them? Could they change the daipers? Could they feed the babies? Could they make a lot of things that only a woman could do? I don`t think so. The men only know to eat,to look at TV to see a football game and to read a paper. Am I right?
2006-11-09 16:40:47 GMT
Author:hardcorehatebreedchick2
to me abortion is murder and to those women that have abortions because the baby isnt the sex they want should be hung i have two girls and wouldnt change that for the world yeah sure a boy would of been nice but god gave me what he thinks i should have who are these abortion doctors playing god this makes me sick
2006-11-09 16:46:29 GMT
Author:help_shy
Reading your blog brought tears to my eyes.. I don't believe in abortions unless its for medical reasons.. but just because its a baby girl makes me sick...
2006-11-09 17:00:21 GMT
Author:kittyh1k
Regardless of abortion there has always been this bias in most of the world against females. Before abortion Chinese mothers took their girl babies outside the village walls and left them to die of exposure. In an agragian society famiies needed more males to help with the farm work; not now necessary in mechanized farming, but a form of this practice still exists. Recently, possibly still, In China, a family was only allowed to have one child. With more value being placed on a male in Asian societies, if the fetus is found to be a female the mother is allowed to abort it. Women have always been victims in primitive societies, and, take a look at the comments on some of the blog pages on 360....and I quote....down with feminazis. How can a man who values his mother hate females, or in this case, fear them. I have four daughters and three sons and I value them all. But let me tell you, if it comes to a time when either of their parents needs care: it will be the daughters who give it. I hope you do go on with your project...and if you have access to the Margaret Atwood book, 'The Handmaid's Tale' you would be interested in this futuristic scenarion. Thanks for inviting me to your blog.
2006-11-09 17:34:59 GMT
Author:sibylla5
I am against abortion. I am aware that many countries kill girl babies because they believe females are worthless. If they don't kill them they are thrown away or sold. It is physically and emotional sickening to me and I hate that humankind is this way. I pray your film will do some good, but you are up against a lot. I wish you every success in this regard. God Bless~
2006-11-09 17:36:35 GMT
Author:heazlmom
I'm also against abortion.I was aware that some countries still carry out the practice of aborting female fetuses,your blog just gave me a little more information...Good luck with your film.
2006-11-09 18:13:11 GMT
Author:sicy_byah
Being an arab, I would like to give you an idea of how girls, and baby girls especially were treated in the pre-Islam era. Quraysh pegans were in the habit of burrying baby-girls alive, for fear for their "honor" that the girl might run off and sleep with someone of a lower social class, or that they'd be taken POW's in the event of war. Muhamad PBUH - yes the same person who now being accused of all sorts of shortcomings toward women - brought about a new law, a law that condemns the burrying alive of baby girls, and to embrace them instead. This same law, punishes a husband who divorces/mistreats/punishes his wife for giving birth to baby-girls, they are all gifts from the Lord and they should be loved, and treated equally. Furthermore, Islam and Muhamad PBUH brought to light the famous idea that for everytime a man makes a woman (daughter/mother/wife/sister) cry, her tear drops are counted by angels, and the man is punished for them in the hereafter. Also, pre-Islam arabs didn't grant their daughters the right to inherit their fortune, or own property/assetts or even work for that matter, until Muhamad exempt women from financial responsibility, and gave them their share of inheritance from their fathers/husbands and instated their right to own and manage their own assetts.

As the only girl with two brothers growing up in an arab country, the pressure was hard on my parents to take, as they decided that there was absolutely no difference between me and my two brothers, I had the same rights and obligations as them, was showered with love and attention, and other family members "ACCUSED" my dad of being way too open and even loose with me, because I never had to stand in the kitchen, or wait on him or my brothers. My mom before me jumped through hoops to convince her family to let her finish her education, she was always looked down upon in an era where women belonged in kitchens and were given away to marriage with or without their concent starting at age 15, my mother could only do her homework after every chore in the house was done, and everyone was too busy watching TV to see her study, and numerous times, she had had to miss classes because the chores were not done before class time. That same woman finished her Masters degree, met a guy, loved him for 4 years then had to fight hard to marry him at the end, only to have me less than 10 months later.

Thank you for adopting this very sensitive issue and giving us the chance to vent.

Salamz
Siham
2006-11-09 20:29:24 GMT
Author:crossroadspeno
we must never allow our conscience to be ruled by social standards--i understand that some cultures view girls as less than or even as a punishment----education is the key to the eradication of prejudice and mis directed norms----you are a brave peson to take on this issue as it takes courage and integrity to stand alone in the face of "accepted ideologies".por favor---if you can let us all know how you are doing. gracias from a once baby girl who was "taken" anyway and loved
2006-11-09 21:50:54 GMT
Author:hhhoneydada
I read a article that female infanticide was practiced in China, will be praying that you receive what is needed to
make the movie.

Society is not going to change so the process has to begin
on the inside, this is heartbreaking just when did god created individuals get the idea that they could without hesitation decide who lives and who dies.

Thank you for your courage in bringing this outrage out in the forefront.

Besides just like others who have interfered in God's business they have not realized that there is a down side
and one of them is that the male species will become
a dying breed.
2006-11-09 22:12:04 GMT
Author:gardenfishes
We definitelly need prayer for this matter. Thank you so much for making this such a reality for us!
2006-11-09 22:20:36 GMT
Author:stephanotis1
I for one do not see a future with no or few women. I predict the opposite! Women simply won't stand for it. Only one fertile man is needed to fertilize countless women. Ulitmately the technology could be used to create a completely matriarchal society.

Let's hope humanity maintains common sense.

Best wishes with your project. Interesting post.
2006-11-10 01:11:19 GMT
Author:rmtmka
There's a book that I heard about the other day. I can't remember who wrote it or what it's called, I just remember that the story is about dogs. About how dogs dominate the planet earth and durring one part of the story there are a group of dogs sitting at a camp and they're talking about humans and wondering if humans were ever "real" or whether they were just myth stories made up by past dogs.

I realize it's just a story, but it's something isn't it. It's not even shocking to me anymore how cruel human kind is. I don't care what race you are because it just doesn't seem to matter. Humanity is falling part all around us.
2006-11-10 02:46:32 GMT
Author:cindeestyle2003
Women are needed in this world that is why we were made, for some people to not like lil girls and not wanting them come from a sick minded group of people. This kind of thing just makes me sick, which will be dealt with by our maker. SOme thing s re just strange and sick and that's all I have to say. NOw I have an attitude!
2006-11-10 16:48:45 GMT
Author:midnight_explorer2
Ok, boys but no girls....hmmm...and who do we supposed will carry these boy children in their wombs if there are no girl children growing up to be women? Ignorance absolutely astounds me.
2006-11-10 17:19:07 GMT
Author:pegsnewemail
Midnight I could not agree with you more. as well as most of the comments here. Ignorance is atounding here. Isn't this like the old saying "don't cut off your nose to spite your face"? I mean I can't imagine a "mother" killing any child especially not her own. regardless of the childs gender! How Do these ignorant men plan to continue to breed and reproduce without females? Even if you look at in the most selfish of way...Why would you deprive your sons females to mate with? this is unbelievable the most horrid, stupid and shameful practice. May God help us all! Pray Pray Pray for Gods will to be done. Maybe he has plans here we are unaware of...Like saving theses girls a lot of pain and anguish. Praying still...Peg
2006-11-10 17:50:23 GMT
Author:true_hearts2005
i am a great supporter to stop this kind of abuse. my prayers and actions are always with this things. it is good of you to post this. tcre
2006-11-10 19:12:04 GMT
Author:lorisner
I am with Kitty - I am NOT going to debate my stance on abortion - It is MUCH to complex of a debate to begin it now. I am pro-choice (There!!! I said it!! It is a Band-Aid solution to a deeper problem - but I am in support of it nonetheless) AND I am pro-child.

I work in a field where I see SO many young children who are neglected and abused and tormented and cast aside because their parents were uneducated as to how to NOT conceive/raise a child.

Again - With Kitty - It should be NO surprise to ANYONE that female fetuses are LESS desirable because WOMEN are less desirable in most societies. So where does the fault lie? With the women who choose to abort female fetuses because she KNOWS they will suffer a life that she would rather see them NOT born into - OR the society that perceives women as “less than”?

I am not sure as to which is more “criminal” . . .

Shalom!!

And thank you for asking for my input!!!
2006-11-11 06:01:40 GMT
Author:marivi_12001
Thanks friend, good weekend also for you, Kisses and hugs thousands! :) )¡(
2006-11-11 11:37:30 GMT
Author:circequeenslack
I am glad you are doing this work. The issue is packed with cruelty, sexism, pain and oppressivness. I wish you sucess!
2006-11-11 19:59:30 GMT
Author:marivi_12001
Thanks to you friend. Esun to please to comment and to visit your blog. Kisses and hugs thousands!
2006-11-12 11:57:51 GMT
Author:tomlinton
Reading yours and Siham's comments I am reminded that under English law this country first denied women all kinds of rights. It seems this is something we grow out of and another subject for big brained humans to address besides their tribalism and proclivity for killing rituals. Thanks for bringing this to my attention!
2006-11-12 14:08:18 GMT
Author:aniceperuwoman
I love this work my friend, dunno what happen with this society, lots ppl dont have control of their life...it is sad really...we need pray more for our planet...
ty for share this one\
much love

Marie
2006-11-12 16:53:26 GMT
Author:unearthlystar
I really dont understand why Humans do this,the same way they eliminate nature.Probably there is an end destined for Humanity,and unfortunately it seems the end will be brought by themselves.
2006-11-14 01:20:09 GMT
Author:arisa_26200
all i can say i hate abortion im against with that weather ur reason is good or bad its a human create by god u have no right to abort the angel in your womb
2006-11-17 14:52:20 GMT
Author:arisa_26200
when it come to abortion no reason to abort a babby thats all
2006-11-17 14:53:56 GMT
Author:debbielagant
Jesus said if we recieve a little child in my name you recive me,Im going to be a first time new Grandma come Dec ,the baby is due on my daughters very own birthday !God bless you!I will surely keep in prayer for mothers her give up their babys.
2006-11-17 14:55:32 GMT
Author:daniellestranger92
Thanks for speaking in their names.
2006-11-17 19:16:48 GMT
Author:shoppingontherun
Thank you for making people more aware about this terrible practice. I am opposed to abortion but even pro-choice women must realize how terrible this is.
2006-11-19 13:57:53 GMT
Author:fiesty_filipina_moma00
Ty for inviting me to post read your blog. I am so awstruck and oblivious to all that was going on. I have two girls and I am fortunate enough GOD has blessed me period in having children. I beleive abortion is a women's choice but to have an abortion because of unwanted pregnancy out of carelessness is just NAIVE. Simple solution is to EDUCATE oneself and use Protection or simple abstinance.
As far as choosing the sex of your child I think that its a down right immoral thing to do.. Why is it allowed is beyond my comprehension. I beleive society is bored yet spoiled that it creates for itself what it wants to make their lives more easier. I think it's a trajedy and it all should be stopped. What is this world coming too?? GOD blessed me with 3 beautiful girls and you know what I told him I said "I don't care if its a boy or girl, healthy or handicap for I will LOVE my child no matter what challenges you put before me". That is how it always should be..
Keeping it Real
Mo
2006-11-20 05:44:36 GMT
Author:heavenboundcarol
Thank you for this blog, God has given you a gift to go forth and do something about all of these atrocities we have suffered through abortions. I pray the Lord will supply all that you need to make this movie in Jesus name. Keep going forward in this, do not get discouraged or distracted from it. Abortion is pure and simple murder no matter what the reason any one may use. But I also believe that God will redeem those who have had an abortion through the Blood of Jesus Christ if they would just come to Him and ask forgiveness. God bless you dear lady in all that you do for our Lord. Father supply all that she needs to make people more aware of what is happening all over the world with abortions, Halleluiah !!!
2006-11-20 05:51:13 GMT
Author:alabama_lady99
OMG That breaks my heart
Up lifting these young mothers in my prayers
God Bless Hugs Sis Sandy
2006-11-22 02:16:28 GMT
Author:ulrichhawk
This has been going on longer than many people are a ware of.
2006-11-25 04:13:02 GMT
Author:myblueeyes422000
Im happy you are trying to reach out to these lost little girls. It is sad to be happening in the first place. No way the Lord is going to let all girls suffer, we doo need to pray about this. I hope and pray you can make the movie may God bless you on that. And may God bless all the children that are suffering. You keep up the good work and May the Lord Bless you in all you do.
2006-11-26 23:03:00 GMT
Author:yoan_macliing
Everyone has the right to live and abortion - whether selective or not - violates that right. Funny how people want to be treated equally, fighting for their rights at all costs, and yet overlook the rights of the unborn children.
2006-11-26 23:44:24 GMT
Author:susieq15801
I am an only child, female by birth. Life-giver to 2 daughters and 2 sons. Grandmother to 7 grandaughters and 3 grandsons. I am but a woman; but what a woman I am.

I have the power of life. A creator,humbled by the beauty of my creation.

I have the power to nurture. Infants were sustained upon my breast and though grown, still find comfort with a saddened head upon my chest.

I have the power of love. My heart overflows with love for my creations... because of them, I will recieve love for generations.

My immortality...due to PROcreation.
2006-11-27 05:35:20 GMT
Author:ajgc_13
It's those idiots from China that also have that twisted idea that boy babies are better than girl babies...fu*king idiots make me disgusted that i'm Chinese sometimes. Thank God i was born in the Philippines and not in some uncivilized, uneducated part of China otherwise i might have grown up in an environment where i might have been considered inferior and discriminated against by strangers as well as relatives, just because i'm female. I applaud you for writing these articles that expose this reality. Maybe by bringing it to the attention of people who care about such topics, we can start a change for the better.
2006-11-27 07:04:24 GMT
Author:rbrittladyleo
I WAS ABUSED AS A CHILD. 2 KNOW THAT THIS IS GOING ON N THE WORLD SICKENS ME!!!
2006-11-27 13:02:54 GMT
Author:anne91872
Regardless that I am pro-choice...(And wondering why it matters where you stand on the issue in relation to the issue about aborting female babies?)...I think it is appalling what human kind has deemed acceptable in certain cultures. I just love man rules! They are always so well thought out! *rolling my eyes* Has anyone figured out yet that we REALLY need more woman leaders around the world? I guarantee this kind of bulls*** would not be happening!
2006-11-27 14:59:46 GMT
Author:spiritual_moon61
I read a prayer a while back called.."Gods Memoradum"..actually it is God praying to us. And in this prayer he tells me what I am.."A Miracle"..in his eyes and love I was created. I have come to realize that I am love and each of us should realize that, then all we radiate comes back to us.
2006-11-29 10:29:11 GMT
Author:io719_jms
God gave me boys and I am so thankful for what I have. I would have loved to have had a girl, but now when I look back..God knew what He was doing I would never have been able to get along well with a Girl as I am not a "Girly woman." LOL
But I would never Abort any baby especially because of it's sex rather it be a girl or a boy.."All are precious in His sight and HE MADE THEM ALL!"
My heart breaks for all those mothers who have had their baby girls killed, because rather they know it or not, some men can only make girls, it is in their genes.
God Bless All involved here..
2006-12-06 19:21:47 GMT
Author:halito68
Thanks for inviting me to read your blog and thanks for having the courage to speak out on this issue. God Bless!
2006-12-06 21:13:27 GMT
Author:sherries_60
Thank You, I agree and love the poem, how did you run acrossed my 360? Did you read any of my poems? I know there is a tag up right now but I do write poetry on and about Love,, friendship, Hope you stop by again, thank you for the kind words you left in a comment, I couldn't comment back, only a smile,, hugggggs again Sherrie
2006-12-07 16:34:09 GMT
Author:sherries_60
Its a sad world when there isn't enough Love for all babies no matter what sex. Sherrie
2006-12-08 07:32:12 GMT
Author:dommealaya
The world has changed so much & yet its funny how old customs & beliefs of certain countries still remain.
There but for the grace of God go I.
2006-12-10 15:19:02 GMT
Author:elu_1998
Dear Sanku,

Thank you for bringing this to a brighter light. The poem Baby Judge reflects the issue of a lack in human compassion. I agree with the sentiment. So much joy and happiness can be found in children of any sex. They can make us smile and laugh.

It is well known that women are the compassionate ones in the human race, they teach love and understanding and nurture kindness. Why take that away? Why take away any life based on the sex of a child especially in the world as it stands now? We need men and women, boys and girls to unite in a greater good. We need more teachers of good morals, less hostility and a nurturing of love and tolerance. How can killing baby girls accomplish any of this?

The last thing I have to add on this issue is that it is brought on by a lack of education. There is no reason why women should be thought of as second or lesser class citizens in any part of the world and or religion. Men can not exist without women and women without man. We, and the other life forms on earth were created by God in opposite sex to compliment and complete each other.

I hope things change.......

Jeff Mettling
Elu
2006-12-11 17:26:24 GMT
Author:bescoriasa
AS WE PARENT THAT WE ARE NORMAL ABOUT WHAT WE DOING OURSELF IN SEXUAL ALL THE CHILDREN ARE THE FRUIT OF OUR LOVE ,THEY ARE THE MOST PRICOUSE THING THAT WITNESS OFHOW WE LOVE TO EACH OTHER.. AND ALL OF THIS CHILDREN ARE INNOCENT ,AND WE NOT PUT THE LAW BETWEEN LIFE OF GIRLS OR BOYS GOD MADE US ,MALE AND WOMEN,MYSELF IM SINGLE MOM RIASE MY FOUR 4 ALONE NOE MAN IN MY LIFE UNTIL NOW,CUZ MY GIRLS ARE MOST IMPORTANT INTO MY LIFE THAN MYSELF
2006-12-13 00:25:18 GMT
Author:[email protected]
Your Page is beautiful.
2008-09-05 20:56:06 GMT
Author:jc_the_hearts_princess
I FEEL FOR YOU AND HOPE BEST FOR YOU
2008-09-19 18:44:58 GMT
Author:jc_the_hearts_princess
that was so wonderful and beatiful to read.
2008-10-05 21:25:50 GMT
 
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