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1) If you're a lady he's probably a lot bigger than you are.
2) The stalker has more adrenaline than you do.
3) The male stalker, even though it's hard to believe after you've been a stalking victim for a long time, has more testosterone than you do.
4) He would have a perfect opportunity to violate you, severely batter you or murder you.
5) He's insane and therefore dangerous. If he were sane he wouldn't be a stalker.
6) He's probably stronger than you are.
7) He likely beat up grown men, before he sunk into being a cowardly stalker, and you're no match for him.
8) He won't fight fair.
9) Since he won't fight fair he may use a weapon on you even if you are unarmed.
10) He'll lie about what happened.
11) He's probably so delusional that he'll believe his lies to be the truth.
12) You as a lady victim will likely be so terrified when he attacks you that you won't even be able to defend yourself adequately.
13) The stalker will think it's GREAT while he hurts you.
14) Stalkers enjoy harming the helpless.
15) Stalkers feel powerful when they control another being through abuse.
16) The stalker in his delusional mind may not even realize you are smaller and physically weaker than he is.
17) The stalker is probably so delusional he will misinterpret the entire situation in every way imaginable.
18) Victims shouldn't have to suffer through being in jail yet victims who harm a stalker in even the smallest way will be arrested.
19) Stalkers are oftentimes pathetic cowards and if you crumple one tiny delicate hair on his craven head he will gleefully have you arrested and sue you even if he does beat you 1/2 to death before he calls the police and reports his injured strand of hair!
20) Stalkers are frequently master liars and he will know how to spin a yarn to cover the fact that he beat you half to death. This is true unless there are enough witnesses present to vouch for you and what really happened or unless the officers called to the scene are extremely astute. Ok, this was a little joke, but there is some truth to it too.
21) Seeing the stalker in person even if it is to confront him will excite him.
22) Seeing the stalker in person even if it is to confront him and demand that he stop stalking will encourage him to stalk you more (some stalkers, it appears, can't be turned-off or turned-on anymore than they already are. Still it's usually best to have no contact whenever possible. Most victims make the error of trying to reason with their stalker on numerous occassions simply because this in the natural normal human thing to do -- to try to talk it out. Stalkers aren't normal or natural.).
23) Seeing the stalker in person will likely give him the impression that you want him in your life.
24) The stalker will likely find the whole situation to be both rewarding and entertaining.
25) Your seeing the stalker in person for whatever reason will likely provide him with a massive power trip.
26) The stalker will use any contact you have with him against you in every way imaginable, even if he has to lie to do it.
27) It's illegal unless it's in self-defense and even in self-defense there can be many complications.
28) Violence is never a good option unless it is in self-defense.
29) Feelings of anger or frustration are better processed in more civilized ways.
30) No lady victim would likely wish to lower herself to the stalker's level or give him that kind of sick satisfaction.
31) For male victims: It's still illegal to beat up on your stalker.
32) I simply don't believe in or condone physical violence in any form.
By Lady Lost
Copyright � 2002
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No rights to copy, print, download, duplicate, or display elsewhere other than upon this specific website granted or implied without the direct written permission of the author. Please contact agent of the author: Mr. Gunther S. Vanludwick at [email protected]
**As with all poetry, essays, correspondence and/or published letters, e-mails or other communications presented on this webpage, this poem is a personal subjective expression of its author's own feelings, thoughts, beliefs, and opinions. This statement is in no way intended to invalidate or minimize the powerful and poignant experiences of this author. However, this statement is intended to indicate that creative expressions such as these written forms of artwork are derived from their author's own personal feelings, thoughts, beliefs and opinions.
**This work is yet another example of this author's terror changed to anger. The title of this work does not indicate that victims should cease viewing their stalkers as dangerous predatory individuals. Indeed stalkers are both predatory and dangerous; however, they are also cowards. Victims please do not become complacent with your security measures due to the deceptively pitiful behaviors of your stalker. A stalker is another type of domestic abuser and he can become hazardous, even lethal, at any moment.
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