My idea mate would have these qualities. These views don't reflect on the way I choose my guy. These are only what the perfect guy would posess and I am not looking for him for two reasons. One: he doesn't exist. Two: Too scary to have all these qualities.
He can't obsess over weight lifting and his body.
He must not want to change me.
He would be taller than me.
He would have short, spikey hair.
He would have blue or brown eyes.
He would have a nice smile.
He would have a medium build (i.e. not too skinny and not too fat).
He should be cleanly and somewhat neat.
He should be organized.
He should be optimistic.
He should be masculine.
He must love me.
He can be sensitive, but not too the point where he is upset all the time and crying.
He must be a good listener, but should also be able to carry on a conversation.
He must trust me.
He has to be faithful.
I don't want him insisting on paying for everything, but she still shouldn't worry about money.
He would be pro-life.
He has to keep secrets and be able to surprise me.
He has to want to travel and have kids.
He must believe in God and be a Christian.
His life should have goals, ambitions, and dreams.
He should have a good imagination and lots of creativity.
I want him to have a sense of humor, but know when to be serious.
He must enjoy reading, writing, and computers.
He should want to protect me and fight for my honor, but should know when to give me space.
He should know when to compliment me.
His hobbies shouldn't include drinking and partying.
He shouldn't be overly obsessed with sports.
He should appreciate the fine arts and museums.
He has to be outgoing, but not always make me choose what to do or where to go.
He cannot have road rage.
He must be himself and not a phony.
He has be a good kisser and good in bed.
He should like cats.
He must hate war.
He can't be a picky eater.
He shouldn't expect me to go down on him.