Oh, I just have to share this with you for I think it is so cool and neat. Night before last Ethel and I were chatting on an IM and she laughed and said, "Better get off line, Bill wants to play," then she was gone. Well now I have known Ethel for four or five years and yesterday morning when we had our chat I asked her what had been so important.

"Edna Mae," she said, "As you know Bill is my second husband, and whoopee! Oh whoopee, what a 32 years we have had together.

"So tell me?" I said.

"Edna, do you and Fred make love much anymore?" Ethel asked, and I thought how brazen, but as I said, I have known Ethel for quite a while.

I thought about it for a minute or so, long enough so Ethel asked if I were still on line. I finally said, "Well, Fred gets a little wanting every once in a while, and then when we go to bed, he gets what he wants."

"Edna, you mean you don't really enjoy and take part?"

And then I started to think. Well, he does what all men do. They want, they get their pleasure, and it is over. "Yes Ethel, why do you ask?" I was sort of stymied for it had been that way for me for nearly 50 years.

"Well Edna, Bill and I make love with each other and together. Bill doesn't make love to me, it is with me."

And I immediately said, "Huh?" And she went on to tell me how her first husband would just come home, want, do, and then went when it was over he would go out to the garage, or he would sleep. But with Bill, he says, "It takes two to tango" and we make love. We do not have sex or anything like that, we make love and god is it good and enjoyable."

My jaw dropped and hit the keyboard, and all I could do was say, "Huh?" Then Ethel explained the difference, and it really perked this girl up. So when Fred came home, we had dinner and a couple drinks, and I asked, "Fred do you make love to me or do we make love?"

Fred sputtered and his face turned red, and I asked again, "Fred do we make love together or do you make love to me?"

Finally he stopped shaking his head and wiped his drink up. "I make love to you, I guess, for you don't reciprocate very much."

"Well honey, I have a few things to tell you," I said, and we had this heart-to-heart talk, and oh gosh, what a night we had.

"So I just want to tell all you girls, stop just letting and instead make love with your man. If you do, you'll find it exhilarating and pleasurable.

~Edna

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