It's About Resilience
We do have that you know!
There's a tree I pass on my walk through the neighborhood. It's
about twenty years old now. When it was young the planter carefully
pushed an iron rod into the ground beside it. He lovingly tied a soft
cloth around the two for the union of strength, to help the young
sapling stand strong against the wind and storms.
The planter of the tree died, and the ownership of the home changed
hands. When the new people moved in no one thought to consider the
young tree and its rod. The tree was left to do what trees do. It
secured its roots deep into the ground and widened its trunk. By and by
the tree continued to grow and no longer needed the support of the rod;
the soft cloth had long deteriorated and blown away, but still, no one
thought to remove the old rod.
Eventually, the tree's trunk reached out far enough to touch the
rod. The next year the tree began wrapping its bark around the bottom
of the rod, and each year thereafter it expanded and grew until only
the top six inches of the iron rod could be seen.
For the past three years I've walked by that tree stopping to look
at its vigorous expanse, growing strong and healthy, providing shade
and shelter. And then I look at the rod and note its slow
disappearance.
This year I passed the tree and noticed two inches of the rod
remains. It's possible that next year no one will see it all. Perhaps
no one will know that it's even there, but I'll know.
When I think of that tree, I marvel at its symbolism to life, to
human nature. The tree proved to be resilient and adapted. Unlike the
tree we can address a situation make decisions, and move on. But, we'll
not be able to solve all problems to our liking. Not everything can be
removed. Not everything can be taken away, but where possible we can
determine to be resilient, and to flourish in spite of encumbrances.