What's up everyone? How are you all doing this time? I am doing pretty good. What, is that surprising after the title that this has? I can understnad why you might think that and I am not saying I am not a little bit upset about what I will be talking about, but why should I let this bother me? Anyway let's get on with the story.

This weekend I was set up to meet a friend's cousin. I was very nervous about it because I did not know what I would tell her or what she had been told about what I was wanting. Hell I didn't know really because I was just told this was going to happen, I didn't mind but I didn't really say yay or nay either. Anyway we met and had a very fun night and I told how I was feeling right now. Which is I am not over my recent ex but at the same time I want to go out and have fun with someone of the opposite sex. I didn't want anything serious, and I really just needed a friend. I thought maybe she had more on her mind than that and wouldn't want just that but to my amazement she was fine with that. Oh yeah just so all my perv friends know, I don't want a friend with benefits either, just a new friend........OK you can quit calling me gay now.

Anyway at the time I hadn't realized that she was the cousin of my psycho ex girlfriend, that beat me up and then said I beat her up. Well I guess within 12 hours of me dropping her off at her car her psycho cousin called her telling all this shit about me that wasn't true. Well I was clued in to this by another cousin. I tried to call her up and explain my side of the story but she didn't seem to want to talk. So I figured that this friend had already decided she didn't want to hang around me. I was a little upset that this shit was being said again but it also didn't surprise me.

So I griped to a few friends about how this psycho ex just couldn't stand to see me have a good time. I also was amazed that it didn't even take 12 hours from the time I dropped her off at her car for this crzy girl to start screaming her lies. I was a little upset she believed her but she did not really know me so I could understand. I just didn't want to be thought of as a woman beater that had always been the thing I hated most and this psycho ex knew that so she made me out to be what I hated most. I really didn't care what this girl that I had been set up to meet believed, because whatever she believed I had to accept. I am done pleading my case to people about it, I now just let them believe what they want. If it isn't a strong enough fact that the psycho's mother's statement to the police said that I was the one on the defensive the whole time, then you obviously are going to believe whatever you want to believe. That is the reason I didn't try to change her mind, if she believed I did that then there was always going to be that little thought in her head about me and my friends no better, so I couldn't let it upset me about that.

I sat at a friends house most of the night so I wouldn't be alone to ponder upon it all. It wasn't so much if she believed it or not that worried me, it was just the fact that two years after the charges were dropped because all witnesses were testifying on my behalf, it is backing being thrown around. I didn't want to be thought of as that and here it was again, trying to ruin my reputation.

When I finally went home I wasn't in the best mood because I thought that all these lies were going to make my life hell again. I walked into my room and fed my new baby Tristy (a ferret) and got ready to head to bed at a very uncharacteristic 9 o'clock. Then the phone rang I looked at the caller I.D. and it said the name of the girl I had met the night before. I didn't know if I wanted to answer it but I did. She asked me how my day had been and I said great until about 5:00 P.M. when I found out what was being said. She said that was the same as hers well we talked for a while and I finally asked her what she thought. She said that she thought she was a big girl, and that she had a lot of fun the night before, and that she didn't think she cared what other people thought. I said we weren't looking to be serious just to be friends to have fun so what was everyone big scare anyway. Well she basically said that she still wanted to be around but I wouldn't have blamed her if she didn't want to because if I had heard that about someone I wouln't want to be around them either.

To condense this down into a simple paragraph I will start with this "Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned". This looney girl that has caused so much crap in my life couldn't even let 12 hours go by with her cousin and I having fun together before she started slinging shit. The really sad part is we weren't and aren't dating so she started sligning her B.S. for nothing except to bother me with it. That is where the title of this commentary comes from. Yes it has been somewhat angered but at the same time at least this one has a good ending. The psycho's plan didn't work and I have a new friend to run around with.

Beware of insane people they are everywhere.

Later,
Coopedaddy

Great Movie, awesome soundtrack, and fast cars, What else could you ask for? Oh freshman hazing, plenty of beer drinking, vandalism, and pot smokers. This movie has all of that. Set back in the 1970's on the last day of school. It is all about the Junior class hazing the incoming freshman and then everyone heading out to have one helluva bash in the middle of no where. This movie just makes you want to jump throught the screen and join in. Someday I will have a bash like that. Another must see.