Am I prolific or what? Here I am with another commentary just a day after the last. I don't know what got into me but I felt like writing. Today I am going to talk a little bit about something I am learning to do to keep myself sane. It really isn't a hard thing to learn but is hard to remember every time you need to remember it. It is my new "Oh Well" method of calming. This method is probably one of the best things I have ever figured out to do. It is a way for me not to worry and stress myself so much over small things. When something comes up and it bothers me but I can't do anything about it I simply make myself say "Oh Well" and roll on. For many years I could not do this, instead I would wrestle with it over and over in my mind until I had myself so shaky and upset that it felt like my head was caving in on its self. I had stomach problems and migraines and why? because I was worrying about things I couldn't change. Now when these things come up and I know there is nothing I can do I just say "oh well" and quit worrying about it. I understand that there will be times that I should say it but don't, just as anyone would have these moments. I do do this much more often than ever before in my life and it has made me a very laid back guy. I can look at things I have done and realize which ones I should have just said "Oh well" about and will now know to this next time they come up. I figured there was no reason for me to destroy my life worrying about things that I have no control over and that is why I started doing this. I have wasted too much time in my life worrying about something that someone else is control over and the "Oh well" procedure allows me to turn and walk away fromt he problem when I know it is out of my control. Something is only a problem if you let it become a problem. I am through with problems, they don't do a thing but hurt so now I use this. I hope this commentary did not bore you, it was only meant to describe something I have learned to do. Perhaps one of these days I won't have a need to use it anymore but until then It will continue to help. I mean as long as I and all my loved ones are breathing there really aren't any huge problems worth worrying about.
Until next time,
American Pie 2 The old crew is back and ready to kick (or tap) some ass again. Everyone has returned from their first year of college and they want to make the summer legendary. Jim gets a call from Nadia telling him she is coming to see him and he knows he must prepare. With the help of band camp legend Michele he embarks on learning the methods of pleasing the opposite sex. Little does he know that in the end he is not really preparing for Nadia but falling in love with someone else. Hormones still run rampant in this sequel but the times have changed and kept it fresh. A great story of how looks aren't everything and how nice people really can finish first. A must see.
Crestfallen
Who am I to need you when I'm down |